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Mulford
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posted 11 June 2002 12:18 PM
I spell it "woman" in the singular, "women" in the plural. Why? Because standardized spelling makes life a lot easier. Because if "womyn" means several females, then "myn" means several males, if we are being grammatically correct.But even more importantly, it is important that language doesn't bend to the flavour of the week. Otherwise, we make choices that look silly or antiquated a few years later (personhole covers instead of manhole covers, etc.) Yet it doesn't really matter what I say -- the market place of ideas will determine whether "wimmen", "wommen", or "womyn" will survive, or thrive. People endorse their linguistic choices in everyday life, in speech, letters, email etc. I have a feeling that "womyn" etc. gets its greatest use in the halls of academia, and good on them. [ June 11, 2002: Message edited by: Mulford ]
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Debra
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Babbler # 117
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posted 11 June 2002 12:26 PM
Iterestingly if everyone had been as pedantic as certain people here the english lanuage would never have adapted and changed to time and circumstance the way it has.It is precisely the ability of our language to be adaptable that has allowed the flow and influx of ideas through communication of various means. As for the "mistake" being pointed out to the original poster, what if it had been a mistake? What if there were someone on this board of limited literacy? Are their views less important because perhaps words are not spelled in accordance with your Oxford? Should we all be held accountable to proper sentence structure and appropriate grammatical terms? Look not for the splinter in the nieghbours eye, but for the 2X4 in thine own.
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Michelle
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posted 11 June 2002 02:16 PM
I always use "woman" and "women" because I personally think the alternative spellings are kind of dorky looking. It always conjures a university-womyn's-centre-clique kind of image in my mind, even though I know that it's not really meant to be that way. However, I was working for minimum wage when that whole womyn craze came about, and most of the women I worked with were high school drop outs like me. And you can bet that we weren't agonizing over whether to spell it "womyn" or "wimmin" or "women". We were agonizing over the men at the bakery getting paid almost twice as much as we were, and with our boss screwing us around on labour standards and "forgetting" to pay us for all the hours we worked.However, that said, I have no problem with other women using the alternative spellings. I don't see why we can't have a conversation on babble where the women who like "wimmin" use that spelling, and the women who prefer the traditional can use the traditional. There have been threads in the past where - I think it was Trasie again - used the alternative spelling, most of the rest of us used the traditional spelling, and none of us bugged each other about it. I say we use what we're comfortable with and don't criticize others who choose differently. This is hardly a big moral issue. [ June 11, 2002: Message edited by: Michelle ]
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Trespasser
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posted 11 June 2002 03:02 PM
Believing that we should leave language unproblematized in feminist struggles and focus on 'real life' that is supposedly outside and unaffected by language is what is scandalous. Political misspelling trends have emerged as part of rising awareness of political importance of language. There were no such things like sexual harassment, 'glass ceiling', pay inequity, sexism, and racism until some people coined the terms and persuaded a sufficient number of other people that those existed. And all those profession nouns that do not allow feminine gender in many languages. Not to mention philosophical journeys of concepts of 'feminine' and 'female'... And why do you think African American slaves would renounce their slave names upon liberation? For not having a more urgent political issue on the plate? Spelling playfulness, though, can also be related to things mentioned by Nonesuch, expression of one's belonging to a community, religious or other. With Mary Daly, for instance, it is both - her Intergalactic Wickedary of English Language is both feminist and religious to boot. Many of her interventions on language are ingenious - I often use her spelling 'dicktionary' myself, and take it that it is widely known by now that men have been and still are masters of language that we have to use to tell our own stories. [ June 11, 2002: Message edited by: Trespasser ]
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skdadl
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Babbler # 478
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posted 11 June 2002 05:49 PM
In my working life, I am almost daily re-confirmed in my opinion that the real dumbing-down, numbing-down danger to the language is coming from disciplines like "Management Science" ( ), where no euphemism is apparently yet vague or evasive or phony-sentimental enough not to be mushed up even further. No question: language is political, and sisters and brothers, our team is, like, SO NOT the major aggressor!That said, I would rather see us working on the pithy or the punchy or the fall-on-your-knees beautiful if we're gonna play games with words, and wimmin etc strike me as tepid because still only correct. Correct may be necessary; but it is not sufficient. Back to the drawing-board, grils. [ June 11, 2002: Message edited by: skdadl ]
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Michelle
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posted 11 June 2002 07:58 PM
Care to expand, Mandos?Regarding "womban", I think that's kind of neat! quote: Michelle, the reason I took Trasie to task about "wimmin" is because it is a political issue, or more precisely indicative of a type of feminism I abhor, "gender" or "identity" feminism.
Can you tell me precisely how it indicates gender or identity feminism and why you abhor it? And even though you do abhor gender or identity feminism, does that mean that every woman should have to embrace YOUR brand of feminism, whatever that might be? After all, you didn't just tell trasie in the other thread that you don't like "wimmin" instead of "women" - you implored HER not to do it because it makes her sound like "trailer trash". And before we get technical here, I know you said that "wimmin" sounds trailer trash, not trasie - but I think we can deduce from the fact that she uses "wimmin" regularly that she "sounds trailer trash" as well for using it. I guess I just don't think that proudly declaring that you're a snob or that you come from a snobby family is a good enough reason for ordering women to embrace your brand of feminism and putting theirs down. [ June 11, 2002: Message edited by: Michelle ]
From: I've got a fever, and the only prescription is more cowbell. | Registered: May 2001
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Michelle
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posted 11 June 2002 09:55 PM
quote: As for the rest of it, I suppose irony and self-deprecation are not well received par les Ontarien-ne-s, as Mimichkele would say...
I love this thing that's been happening lately around here - when someone disagrees with what you say, just put it down to their uncultured, provincial lack of understanding of the finer intellectual things in life. Actually, we anglos have no problem with irony and self-deprecation - but I just don't like it when they're used as an excuse to put someone else down. Let's face it, you weren't actually putting yourself down when you said you come from a snobby family, or when in another thread you called yourself a "Eurosnob". If you really thought it was a bad thing, then you wouldn't have brought it up. To me, real self-deprecating humour is when someone jokingly admits a flaw that they're NOT proud of, such as when I occasionally make jokes about being overweight. "Admitting" to being a snob is really an appeal for admiration of your worldliness, and it's doubly annoying after labelling something that someone else does as "trailer trash". As for this: quote: I find "identity" feminism offensive because it is anti-materialist and derives from a discourse about the "essence" of womanhood, which to my mind is fundamentally reactionary. It is similar to the "culturalist" discourse in a field I know far better, international migration history.
Um, yeah, okay, whatever. Using excessive jargon in a non-academic or semi-academic environment seems to me to be either a) a way of getting around the question I'm asking you or b) trying to intimidate people into acquiescing. I'm sure I'm falling right into a trap by asking you to explain whatever it is you're trying to say here in ordinary language that the average person can understand, but I'll ask anyhow. And now you can talk about how provincial and lowbrow I am for not understanding the jargon above. Saying that you find "essential" feminism reactionary is not telling me what you don't like about it - you're just using jargon to restate that you don't like it. What is reactionary about it? And you still haven't told me how it is that using "wimmin" is a sign of being an "essential" or "gender" feminist. Sure, it's from the days of identity politics, where people were very concerned with how language reinforced sexist stereotypes (like firemen only being men, mailmen only being men). But how do you make the link between people who use "wimmin" and essential feminism?
From: I've got a fever, and the only prescription is more cowbell. | Registered: May 2001
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Michelle
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posted 11 June 2002 10:28 PM
Oh, sorry, Mandos, but you can't really blame me for asking - after all, you WERE the one who wrote the original dismissive message about it.I understand what you mean - I think I might even agree with you somewhat on it. I'm not sure I believe that society is the way it is because of our language - to me it's kind of a chicken and egg argument. I think that it probably doesn't matter which way it goes - that society is a reflection of language or language is a reflection of society - the thing is, I think when we continue to use words like "fireman" or "policeman" or "mailman" when there are perfectly reasonable and mainstream alternatives (firefighter, police officer, mail carrier), it reinforces the gender stereotypes. However, I see "woman" as different from "fireman". When I hear the word "woman", I see an XX person in my mind, not an XY person. It's not like I see a male standard and then have to imagine boobs and a vagina on it. On the other hand, a word like "fireman" DOES conjure up the image of an XY person dressed in fire gear. It does imply a male standard and then, as an afterthought, the occasional set of boobs and vagina on a few of them. That's why I can be inconsistent and insist on not using the -man words for career descriptions, but still use the -man version of "woman". As for this, Mulford: quote: Otherwise, we make choices that look silly or antiquated a few years later (personhole covers instead of manhole covers, etc.)
That was funny the first few times I heard that George Carlin stand-up routine, but doesn't reflect what feminists are trying to do with non-masculinized versions of certain words. [ June 11, 2002: Message edited by: Michelle ]
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Trespasser
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Babbler # 1204
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posted 11 June 2002 10:31 PM
I wish to make peace here, please allow me. Lagatta: I - along with many other babblers - appreciate your contributions very much. In the last few days I might have found several points of divergence with you, but I am still very eager to hear your opinion on any issue. I particularly admire the way you defended the rights to cultural self-determination of Quebec in many discussions with oblivious lefty anglophones who ask "Oh why can't we all get along in English? Why can't Quebec be saved in English? Why can't it simply be equal with the rest of the provinces, what's wrong with that? We're all for equality, right?" Those same oblivious anglophones are so good at smelling some sort of cultural essentialism part in the pro-Quebec argument, it seems, and they never miss to point that out. quote: I find "identity" feminism offensive because it is anti-materialist and derives from a discourse about the "essence" of womanhood, which to my mind is fundamentally reactionary. It is similar to the "culturalist" discourse in a field I know far better, international migration history.
I understand what you mean. But I am also sure that you know that everyone does some strategic essentializing from time to time. Thinking is probably unthinkable without it. Politics too. There is a constant violence being committed towards difference and detail whenever we utter a sentence. Feminists, Quebecois, ROC-istes, anti-racists, 'materialists' - they (we) all essentialize occasionally or all the time. Why do we call ourselves feminists and not humanists, for instance? (Mind you, humanism and universalism are other forms of essentializing, I don't need to remind anyone of that.) I personally like what Toni Morrison had to say on the topic in a recent talk in Toronto: We keep in mind the race, and we transcend it. Or: we keep in mind [the history and the current usage of the word] 'woman' and we transcend it. It's more like a simultaneous thing, than an either/or. We revalue it, and we expand it. We reaffirm it, and re-invent it. We won't have it any other way. I certainly won't. Some of us emphasize one side, some the other, though, and it depends on what one finds most effective in their specific situation. I am sure you will agree that that is legitimate too. quote: ...As for the rest of it, I suppose irony and self-deprecation are not well received par les Ontarien-ne-s
I believe you were being jocular here and playing with essentializing (of les Ontariennes) yourself, non? Peaceful night, everybody.
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Michelle
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posted 11 June 2002 10:45 PM
I'm sorry, I guess I have taken it too far. It's just that this afternoon I was really, really bothered by your admonition to trasie, and I guess I've been worrying it like a dog with a bone. I'm really sorry if I've hurt your feelings.I didn't mean to pull an anti-intellectual rant here. And I don't think it's pulling a grassroots-resentment-against-the-city-slickers thing to oppose the idea of labelling things as "trailer trash", to oppose the idea that English people just don't understand the finer points of irony or humour, or to ask people to use everyday language rather than jargon that leaves many others out of the conversation. However, I was too aggressive, and I apologize for that. Like Trespasser, I've really enjoyed reading you on babble, and although we obviously disagree about this particular thing, I think overall we probably agree about more than we disagree about. So here's an olive-branch - we'll agree to disagree on this particular topic. Sorry for being ungracious about it before.
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Secret Agent Style
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posted 11 June 2002 10:57 PM
In my opinion, activists who use alternative spellings of words in order to make a political point are just alienating themselves from the average Canadian. It adds to the perception that feminism and leftism are based in middle class hippy intellectual snobbery that has no relation to the realities of working class life. That's fine if all you want to do is hold meetings and prove to your friends how politically correct you are, but not if your goal is to win over converts, build a movement or gain votes. Many Canadians -- if polled on individual issues -- would express left wing views, but they'll never vote for a leftist party because they have an aversion to leftist individuals. Orwell touched on that in The Road to Wigan Pier, and it still applies today. [ June 11, 2002: Message edited by: Andy Social ]
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hothead
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posted 12 June 2002 03:41 PM
"I use the "traditional" spelling of woman/women. Why? Because I think politicizing the spelling of words, introducing gender identity politics to the spelling of words, is revisionist and scandalously irrelevent to the real issues faced by women suffering inequity. However, this being my personal opinion, it should not be construed as a blanket condemnation of any individual who chooses an alternative spelling, for whatever reason." hello, i just had to jump in here. ok, the "traditional" spelling of many words are gender biased! things and objects are even given genders in the french language for example... words we are speaking of are derived from the English language that was formed for and out of the Upper Classess. for which i do not come. I was born in poverty with no academic degree when i started to use spellings like wymyn/womon etc. I encourage us to mess with the words handed down to us by the upper classess. lets not forget there are many people many classes and many words which are not eurocentric as we can sometimes be. someone might tell me a word i use is not in the english library and i say, oh well, its not very inclusive anyways. what is termed "slang" (language coming out of my poverty class, they are so dismisive of our words realy)is in fact poverty language and judged as "slang". 'woman' the word comes from the word man, i bellieve in the latin or something it literaly means "from man". does this sound familiar to anyone? like adams rib story? 'from the rib of man came woman'. how silly really, we hear about penis envy all the time and yet where is the term for the obvios "female envy/fear". we are all equal in an un equal world. we are all humans if you agree with the male dominant word that ignores half of the population like woman. hu man not hu woman. if we bend words and mess with them it only means we are bringing ourselves to the discusion/reforming ourselves even. by the way, great discusion and bits of info, love the honesty. i hope i did not come off as anything but "happy to be a part of this">
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nonsuch
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posted 12 June 2002 04:41 PM
Hello, Hothead.I don't disagree with you, but i'm still going to quibble a little bit. I can't see the gender of a table or house or shovel creating much bias. Even if it did, i don't see how that can be changed. As for English and biassed words, yes, and we've been dealing it for a few decades now: this is only one instalment of a long story. I'm all for improving language. But - always with the buts! - you have to be careful not to erase meaning altogether. Like 'history', which has nothing at all to do with sex. Like human: to make a pure woman, you need to lose the 'hu' as well as the 'man', because it comes from 'homo', which is man... also 'earth' and 'same'. It gets messy and confusing. I was particularly struck by Skdadl's comment. Don't just tinker with the mundane: reach for the sublime.
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