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Mohamad Khan
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posted 24 June 2003 11:12 AM      Profile for Mohamad Khan   Author's Homepage     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
Women's domination under threat

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In much of India, parents pray for a male child. Daughters are seen as a burden and the killing of female foetuses is widespread.

But in the country's remote north eastern state of Meghalaya, the situation is very different.

Here the local Khasi and Jaintia tribesmen value their daughters who inherit all their ancestral property.

Much of the property goes to the Ka Khadduh - the youngest daughter - who becomes the centre of attraction.

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In Meghalaya, the sons get nothing.

But Meghalaya men who have travelled to other parts of India and seen how the males dominate there are beginning to resent their role back home.

"We have been reduced to baby-sitters or housekeepers. We have no role in our society except fathering babies," says Enoch Kharkhongor, a shopkeeper in the state's capital Shillong, now in his mid-twenties.

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Residents say Meghalaya's matrilineal society is already being challenged.

The influence of the rest of India and its culture, carried through Bollywood films, is all beginning to have an effect.

"These Hindi films, full of women-beating, dowry fights and all that, are affecting our values. Our males are getting upset," says Roshan Wajri, a former woman legislator of the state assembly.



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skadie
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posted 24 June 2003 05:24 PM      Profile for skadie     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
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"We have been reduced to baby-sitters or housekeepers. We have no role in our society except fathering babies," says Enoch Kharkhongor, a shopkeeper in the state's capital Shillong, now in his mid-twenties.


Somehow, I lack sympathy.


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ronb
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posted 24 June 2003 05:59 PM      Profile for ronb     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
Really? Why?
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skadie
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posted 24 June 2003 10:00 PM      Profile for skadie     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
Because women have been singing the same tune for centuries, but this guy says it once in the middle of nowhere and he's national news...

Come on.


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