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arborman
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posted 14 June 2004 04:44 PM      Profile for arborman     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
Nasty bugger

The gist being that he puts them off and reassures them until it's too late. Pretty horrifying stuff, I'm glad he's being sued.


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skdadl
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posted 14 June 2004 04:51 PM      Profile for skdadl     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
arborman, that link is not working for me.

But I believe you. I bet that this guy is what the CPC calls a "third-party counsellor."


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Mr. Magoo
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posted 14 June 2004 05:14 PM      Profile for Mr. Magoo   Author's Homepage     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
Hmm. In a just world, the women who fell victim to this ass should be able to sue for 18 years of child support.
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posted 14 June 2004 05:27 PM      Profile for BleedingHeart   Author's Homepage     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
most of the "abortion counselling " services work this way. Lots of TLC and support until week 20 then see ya later
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arborman
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posted 14 June 2004 05:58 PM      Profile for arborman     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
Dunno why skdadl, it seems to be working...

Try Alternet.org and look for it there.


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Rufus Polson
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posted 14 June 2004 06:07 PM      Profile for Rufus Polson     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
If someone pulled something like that on a relative of mine I'd take some direct action on their sorry ass. Scum!
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posted 14 June 2004 08:27 PM      Profile for Tommy_Paine     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
Ah, Rufus, vigilantism is a slippery slope indeed. But I hear you. Sometimes I wonder if society might have a few less liars, scoundrels and scumbags if someone took a few behind the barn for a lesson in manners from time to time.
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Raos
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posted 14 June 2004 11:07 PM      Profile for Raos     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
quote:
Originally posted by Mr. Magoo:
Hmm. In a just world, the women who fell victim to this ass should be able to sue for 18 years of child support.

They should be able to get more than that, they've suffered more than just monetary losses.


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H Vincent
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posted 20 June 2004 12:21 PM      Profile for H Vincent        Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
What a scumbucket. Hope he gets what's coming to him.

However, he didn't tie her up and she could have said "to hell with him I want this done NOW" and gone to a clinic the first time he put her off. She had options and choices that she didn't exploit. I'm sure there were other phone numbers in the book besides his.


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audra trower williams
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posted 23 June 2004 04:21 PM      Profile for audra trower williams   Author's Homepage     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
Right, but people don't often think their doctor is illegally trying to trick them.
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Rebecca West
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posted 24 June 2004 12:43 PM      Profile for Rebecca West     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
quote:
Originally posted by audra trower williams:
Right, but people don't often think their doctor is illegally trying to trick them.
True. Also, many women who are forced to deal with an unplanned pregnancy feel particularly vulnerable. This shithead picks up on that vulnerability and exploits it for purposes that have little or nothing to do with health, safety, or ethics.

I understand moral opposition to abortion. There is nothing moral in endangering women's and children's lives and impoverishing families. There is no ethical justification for robbing women of their choice in terminating or carrying a pregnancy to term.


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H Vincent
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There is nothing moral in endangering women's and children's lives and impoverishing families. There is no ethical justification for robbing women of their choice in terminating or carrying a pregnancy to term.

It is not moral to endanger a child's life but it is moral to prevent them from being endangered by terminating them.

You're right that there is no ethical justification for what this guy did. The choice was hers and she should have explored all avenues open to her. There needs to be more info made available for women so they don't get taken in by frauds.


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Rebecca West
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posted 25 June 2004 01:31 PM      Profile for Rebecca West     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
quote:
Originally posted by H Vincent:
it is moral to prevent them from being endangered by terminating them.
Only if the individual woman deems this to be the choice she faces. No one else can decide whether that is moral or not. That is why it is so important to distinguish what is general morality or, if you prefer, a generally accepted ethical construct, and personal moral/ethical code. The general ethical code would deem it necessary to allow for individual choice. The individual moral/ethical construct is what drives that choice.

An individual may find abortion immoral in all cases, or only in particular cases, or find it a completely ethical consideration in any and all cases. It becomes problematic when that individual attempts to impose their personal moral code on someone else. What is central to the issue is a woman's control over what does, or does not, happen to her body. She may make a choice in consultation with, or consideration of, others, but the choice must ultimately be hers.


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posted 26 June 2004 01:41 PM      Profile for intelligent vixen     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
Im curious, when we ( the people?) became capable of judging what is right and wrong, doesn't that mean that we must also have blood on our hands?
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but don't take my last post wrong.. I am pro choice.... I leave the judgement up to the higher powers( if there are any) is all. And when did it become okay to sue everybody for your personal lack of judgement. Its about time we started to take acountibility for ourselves as as adults. Yes i ahd an abortion, I don't know is this was the best decision for me, but it was the one I made, and yes I had colusion at the time. I was scared and confused and I may have listened to the wrong people. I also have recieved therepy at various points in my life.. I don't believe anyones failure makes them accountable to me..I may not be acciountable for some of my former actions.. but I don't belive someone else should be blamed. I suppose this is what we call the grey area.
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posted 29 June 2004 04:26 PM      Profile for arborman     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
However, the doctor in this case was in a position of authority.

If my doctor deliberately gave me false information about my health to further his own goals or opinions, that is blatantly wrong. The authority he holds is based on his knowledge, which I don't have because I'm not a doctor.

Similarly, I can't be faulted for trusting an airline pilot, when I have been given no reason not to trust him or her. I have personal responsibility, but there are limits to that.


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Hailey
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posted 21 July 2004 03:03 AM      Profile for Hailey     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
Any mother that sees her child in such a negative light is a tragic example of parenthood. Perhaps she should spend more time developing her character rather than criticizing this gentleman. The only thing he did was prevent the loss of a human life.
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posted 21 July 2004 03:32 AM      Profile for Amy   Author's Homepage     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
Gentleman, my ass! He lied to a client and made it impossible for her to make her own choice.

quote:
The only thing he did was prevent the loss of a human life.

You know very well that this is up for debate, you can't just parade around pretending that that kind of opinion is fact.

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posted 21 July 2004 01:41 PM      Profile for jeff house     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
quote:
The only thing he did was prevent the loss of a human life.

Hailey, this man pretended to be helping someone do something she had a legal right to do.

Instead, he purposely worked to ensure that her rights were rendered useless.

As a professional, he has violated the ethics of his profession, which I hope you would consider important.

Those professional rules exist so that people may rely on professions such as doctor to serve the patient, rather than the patient serving the doctor.


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posted 21 July 2004 02:44 PM      Profile for neeuqdrazil   Author's Homepage     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
quote:
Originally posted by Hailey:
Any mother that sees her child in such a negative light is a tragic example of parenthood.

Perhaps that is why she opted (or tried to opt) for an abortion? Because she knew that she wouldn't be a good mother, or didn't want to be a mother?

I know (and both of my lovers know) that if I were to become pregnant, abortion is the route I would take. I've discussed this with them, and the discussion was actually a requirement before sleeping with my newer lover.


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Hailey
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posted 22 July 2004 02:35 AM      Profile for Hailey     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
The best option for people not prepared to accept a child is to not have sex.
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posted 22 July 2004 02:41 AM      Profile for beluga2     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
Chastity belts all around!


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posted 22 July 2004 02:11 PM      Profile for Rebecca West     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
quote:
Originally posted by Hailey:
The best option for people not prepared to accept a child is to not have sex.
That would be fine if the purpose of having sex was for procreation only, and you are welcome to your religious beliefs that state it is, but the vast majority of human beings (and a whole bunch of non-human animals) throughout the millennia who have had sex for reasons other than procreation would beg to differ.

Maybe the best option for you is to refrain from having sex, but you'll forgive me if I don't find your opinions credible or informed enough to be applied to millions of others about whom you know nothing.

[ 22 July 2004: Message edited by: Rebecca West ]


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posted 22 July 2004 02:16 PM      Profile for Mr. Magoo   Author's Homepage     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
quote:
The best option for people not prepared to accept a child is to not have sex.

Just as the best option for people not prepared to be killed by a bus is to never leave their home.


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posted 22 July 2004 06:14 PM      Profile for PCmg     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
I have a related question.

Why is it that some people on the same side of the political spectrum are aggressive in defending animal rights (Example Athens) while when it comes to abortion, they take what would appear to be an opposite stance?


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arborman
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posted 22 July 2004 06:18 PM      Profile for arborman     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
The same reason many people on the other side of the debate are aggressive in opposing abortion, but strongly support bombing innocent children to oblivion in Iraq based on weak premises.
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So pro-choice is a based on weak premises?

That would seem to be your implication.

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quote:
Why is it that some people on the same side of the political spectrum are aggressive in defending animal rights (Example Athens) while when it comes to abortion, they take what would appear to be an opposite stance?

Because in defending fetal "rights" you necessarily cause damage to (living) women's rights.

For the most part, defending animals does not involve a corresponding damage to people.

Once in a while, though, it does, and then I prefer the people over the animals. Same as with abortion, where the rights of the living person take precedence over those of a fetus.

So, there is no contradiction at all.


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posted 22 July 2004 07:20 PM      Profile for shannifromregina     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
Ok what the doctor did was despicable and should have to pay for playing God. However after she learn't that she was going to have the baby did she give it up for adoption or did she keep it? From what we can gather she did not want the child (there is nothing wrong with having the choice to terminate a pregancy) so if she kept they baby then why? If she wasn't ready for parenthood enough to want an abortion ( which i am not saying is wrong) what made her change her mind to want to parent this child. If she gave it up for adoption then Bravo. A child that isn't wanted either should be terminated or given up for adoption so they do not think that they were a mistake and unloved.
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PCMag, your analogy doesn't work, for the excellent reasons jeff house has posted. Personally, I find the abortion debate very complicated and emotionally coloured, but I find that I land on the pro-choice side. Whether you agree with the decision of a woman to have an abortion or not, you should never have the right to tell somebody else what to do with her reproductive organs.

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A child that isn't wanted either should be terminated or given up for adoption so they do not think that they were a mistake and unloved.

shanni, likewise, you are oversimplifying. You mentioned in another thread that you have kids... Can you imagine putting them up for adoption, even in the most difficult circumstances, after carrying them for 9 mos? It takes a great strength of will to give up a child you've carried to term, and I doubt that I'd be able to do that -- so I won't hold it against some other woman who can't do it, either.

Maybe it's not a logical decision, but some decisions just aren't based on consistency or logic.


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posted 22 July 2004 08:26 PM      Profile for Hailey     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
quote:
That would be fine if the purpose of having sex was for procreation only.

Sex is not only for procreation it is for the expression of emotion and unity.


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posted 22 July 2004 08:34 PM      Profile for Michelle   Author's Homepage     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
And sometimes it's for expressing, "Gee it's fun to get fucked."
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quote:
Originally posted by Michelle:
And sometimes it's for expressing, "Gee it's fun to get fucked."

Ah yes a girl after mine own heart.


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Dear Zoot

I probably am simplifing, I do have children and I never thought of aborting them and I did carry them for 9 mos. I just don't want the child to have to suffer because the mother resents having to have the child. I can't imagine having to give up a child. I am just concerned about the child and thier feelings.


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We women especially cannot help but personalize this subject. We do have to remember, however, that everyone is different and sometimes people will change their minds about decisions after the fact. It doesn't necessarily follow that a woman wanting but not having an abortion cannot learn to want her child. It also doesn't follow, as some reports have claimed, that every woman will deeply regret having an abortion.

My point is that woman should have the right to think their options through with the kind of support that will help them make informed decisions, not be manipulated by unscrupulous people.


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quote:
Originally posted by Zoot Capri:
PCMag, your analogy doesn't work, for the excellent reasons jeff house has posted. Personally, I find the abortion debate very complicated and emotionally coloured, but I find that I land on the pro-choice side. Whether you agree with the decision of a woman to have an abortion or not, you should never have the right to tell somebody else what to do with her reproductive organs.

shanni, likewise, you are oversimplifying. You mentioned in another thread that you have kids... Can you imagine putting them up for adoption, even in the most difficult circumstances, after carrying them for 9 mos? It takes a great strength of will to give up a child you've carried to term, and I doubt that I'd be able to do that -- so I won't hold it against some other woman who can't do it, either.

Maybe it's not a logical decision, but some decisions just aren't based on consistency or logic.


I don't have an opinion either way to be honest, or rather im torn. So im just working out the logic of the thing, if thats possible.


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