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Alix
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posted 25 October 2002 12:27 PM
I've actually heard of this story before, and I'm trying to remember which of my History of Sexuality class books this was in...I think there might be something on this in "Toronto's Girl Problem" by Carolyn Strange. It's a great book. There's wild stuff in there. There's a story about social reformers in the 20s doing a survery of Toronto working girls, and on their survey, they classified any girl who accepted a hot chocolate from a man while skating, or pretty much allowed a man they didn't know well to buy them anything as an "occasional prostitute." edited to add the decade [ October 25, 2002: Message edited by: Alix ]
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kropotkin1951
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posted 25 October 2002 05:42 PM
Skdadl you asked quote: Lima Bean, I thought that men could still give a woman trouble about getting an abortion if the man was claiming to be the child's father -- has that changed anywhere/everywhere?
The Supreme Court of Canada says: quote: There does not appear to be any jurisprudential basis for this argument. No court in Quebec or elsewhere has ever accepted the argument that a father's interest in a foetus which he helped create could support a right to veto a woman's decisions in respect of the foetus she is carrying. A number of cases in various jurisdictions outside of Quebec have considered this argument and explicitly rejected it: Paton v. British Pregnancy Advisory Service Trustees, supra; Medhurst v. Medhurst, supra; Whalley v. Whalley (1981), 122 D.L.R. (3d) 717 (B.C.S.C.); Mock v. Brandanburg (1988), 61 Alta. L.R. (2d) 235 (Q.B.); Doe v. Doe, 314 N.E.2d 128 (Mass. 1974); Jones v. Smith, 278 So.2d 339 (Fla. Dist. Ct. App. 1973). We have been unable to find a single decision in Quebec or elsewhere which would support the allegation of "father's rights" necessary to support this injunction. There is nothing in the Civil Code or any legislation in Quebec which could be used to support the argument. This lack of a legal basis is fatal to the argument about "father's rights".
It is a case called Tremblay v. Daigle and I unfortunately to not know how to insert a link to the site properly. [ October 25, 2002: Message edited by: kropotkin1951 ]
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skdadl
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posted 25 October 2002 06:07 PM
It's ok, kropotkin: I remember the case.I remember especially that Chantal (?) Daigle couldn't wait for the court (ok: was that a Quebec court she was facing in the first place?), and headed down to the U.S. to get the abortion in time. But I'm glad that things have been settled this way. Whew. (Gosh, but that case infuriated me. The guy was so clearly a control-freak dog-in-the-manger ... if you'll pardon the mixed metaphor.)
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'lance
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posted 26 October 2002 08:15 PM
Justice delayed is justice denied, mandrake... or, rather, justice delayed shouldn't let the government off the hook, so long as there's a living person to whom injustice was done, whether under the Female Refuges Act, the Chinese Head Tax Act, or in the residential schools.I don't know if you read this passage: quote: The Freedom of Information Act came out in 1987 and I started doing my research in 1989 to get my documents. I didn’t get a case file until 1993. They had to find these things in the archives. In 1996, I got a report that had evidence as to how I was treated in the Mercer Reformatory. So, then I was in a position to do something.
... but the upshot is, she couldn't even seek justice, in a practical sense, until 48 years after the incident. So the passage of time is not significant. The clock began ticking in 1987. Edited to add: As for the common assertions in such cases that "no-one knew it was wrong," or "it was in accord with the values of the time," Velma Demerson said this: quote: I found a document in the archives from 1941 in which it was admitted that we shouldn’t have been arrested, we didn’t have a right of appeal and so forth. But they continued to allow women to be arrested.
So that doesn't wash, either. [ October 26, 2002: Message edited by: 'lance ]
From: that enchanted place on the top of the Forest | Registered: Jul 2001
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writer
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posted 26 October 2002 10:06 PM
quote: Does that mean we should all go after the government.
Uh, if the government throws us in jail for no cause, then yes. Why not? quote: Ministerial Resignations, 1867 to Date1978.01.27 FOX, Francis Solicitor General of Canada Liberal Signed the husband's name on a hospital document to procure an abortion for a woman with whom he had had an affair
This scandal wouldn't have been a scandal if the woman involved had been able to have an abortion without her husband's permission. As for the Daigle case, last I heard, the Crown was trying to have her former boyfriend declared a dangerous offender in 2000: quote: CALGARY (CP) A lay chaplain who befriended Jean-Guy Tremblay while he was in jail says she was terrified by the anger he displayed as a guest in her house after his 1996 release. Hope Fleming, a member of the First Assembly Church, was testifying Tuesday at a sentencing hearing in which the Crown is asking to have Tremblay declared a dangerous offender. Tremblay, 36, was convicted last December of several charges -- including unlawful confinement, assault causing bodily harm, uttering threats and criminal harassment -- involving Monilaws and another Calgary woman ...
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skdadl
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posted 27 October 2002 10:41 AM
writer, I didn't know that. I remember, though, how creeped out I was by the case at the time, how much I felt in my own nerves the absolute conviction of a woman in that situation, either to run away to get the abortion, or to throttle the guy with my bare hands ... I confess, I can't help it -- if I were ever in that situation, or worse, one of my sisters was, I would need restraining, followed by anger-management classes. And mandrake: one of the reasons some of us have money with which to send taxes to the gov't, and other people who've been victims of officially sanctioned discrimination don't, is that they or their parents were tossed into jails or asylums or detention camps or reserves and robbed into the bargain. That didn't happen to my parents or grandparents; how about yours?
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Smith
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posted 27 October 2002 11:24 AM
quote: The victime is still alive. That alone makes seeking justice worthwhile.
Bingo. Of course there are limits. Had this woman been complaining that her long-dead great-great-grandmother was treated this way in the 1830s, or that she was, say, turned down for a government job in 1939 because of her sex, I would agree that it's been too long. But she herself was thrown in jail - an abusive jail, too - just because someone - her father? the local authorities? - didn't like her choice of boyfriend. For such an enormous injustice, 62 years isn't a very long time. [ October 27, 2002: Message edited by: Smith ]
From: Muddy York | Registered: Oct 2002
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mandrake
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posted 27 October 2002 12:15 PM
quote: That didn't happen to my parents or grandparents; how about yours?
No, it didn't, but it did happen to my great-great-great grandparents in Russia. I guess I have a case against their government. In addition, I feel I have personal injustice issues with the Harris Tories in Ontario, and the Chretien government, so if I institute lawsuits, I assume that I can count on your support in paying me a multi-million dollar settlement? My point is (for the third time) that there are altogether too many people who wish to place a claim on our tax money. Although I feel that this woman is perfectly justified in her claim (for the third time - for those of you who are comprehensionally challenged), there are too many 'historical' claims that, if fully addressed, would cost the government billions of (our) dollars, and would have most of us moving back to where our ancestors ten times removed came from. All I'm asking is that people look at each claim on its merits and in the context of the times in which the alleged injustice occurred.
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skdadl
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posted 27 October 2002 12:29 PM
quote: so if I institute lawsuits, I assume that I can count on your support in paying me a multi-million dollar settlement?
Tell me more about what Harris and Chretien have done to you; and I might very well support you -- but for multi-millions, no. Sorry, mandrake, but multi-millions is a silly exaggeration, and you must know it. Two of my best friends are survivors of the detention camps set up in the BC interior for Japanese-Canadians during WWII -- they both received compensation, finally, for that experience (although their dispossessed parents, dead by the time of the settlement, didn't) -- and as we all know, mandrake, it wasn't multi-millions, not even close to what was taken from their parents.
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'lance
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posted 27 October 2002 01:41 PM
quote: My point is (for the third time) that there are altogether too many people who wish to place a claim on our tax money.
Please define or describe "too many." quote: Although I feel that this woman is perfectly justified in her claim (for the third time - for those of you who are comprehensionally challenged), there are too many 'historical' claims that, if fully addressed, would cost the government billions of (our) dollars...
Name three, please. No, name two. Then kindly explain (1) why, even if they'd cost "billions" of dollars, they'd be unjustified, (2) whether they'd be justified if they were to cost mere millions, instead of billions, to settle, and (3) how big a claim has to get, monetarily, before it's converted from a justified to an unjustified one. In short, mandrake, where -- in a rhetorical phrase we hear rather too often from opponents of historical redress -- would you draw the line? Edited to add: It's dawned on me that the feminism forum wouldn't necessarily be the best place to carry on in this vein, and it'd be off-topic on this thread besides. So I've started a spin-off thread over here. [ October 27, 2002: Message edited by: 'lance ]
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Rebecca West
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posted 28 October 2002 04:06 PM
When my eldest was very young, my neighbour sometimes babysat her. She told me about how, when she was a teenager, her father had her committed to a mental institution for what he deemed "sexual promiscuity". My neighbour, over the course of her 10 year confinement (yes,10 YEARS!) was subjected to such continuous electroshock and drug 'therapy' that she was left sterile and permanently brain damaged. Her IQ, when I met her, was probably around 80.She was a very kind woman, generous, and absolutely loved children.
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JanLab
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posted 31 October 2002 12:46 AM
I realize I may be posting too late for this discussion. But I've finally gotten around to registering here, and I really want to exercise the privilege of having my say on this. A decade after this legislation goes up in flames, I married a person of another race than mine. I had no idea that I'd come that close to being at risk of imprisonment. Regardless of the legal changes, I still lost jobs, got denied apartments, and listened to a lot of caring friends tell me that they had concerns for my children's safety on their future schoolgrounds. It may not have been imprisonment in a physical sense, but it felt like that at times. I used to proudly boast that canucks had a better race record than americans....our marriage is still illegal in several states. I guess that's a recent phenomenon. I'm soooo proud of this elder....I'm so proud of her for never stopping her outrage....I'm so proud of her for not giving in, and saying that is the past. She has learned the same that I have....this nation needs to continue to deal _ith (sorry my dubbya is stuck) it's racism; past and present. I'm so tired of being dismissed _ith "that _as a long time ago...let go...". I don't think that is the best thing I can do as a mom........
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