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Rundler
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posted 25 October 2002 12:17 PM      Profile for Rundler     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
OK, so it was 1939. But the story is still shocking: Eighteen-years-old and pregnant, Velma Demerson was arrested for living with her Chinese-Canadian boyfriend to whom she was engaged. She was convicted under the Female Refuges Act and sentenced to a year at an institution for women where she lived in a small cell and was mistreated by staff. Now, she wants compensation, and an apology. But it may be too late.

http://rabble.ca/rabble_interview.shtml?x=16451&url=

In the interview, Velma notes that women today don't know this history. What else are we missing? Time to share your historical knowledge, ladies.


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Lima Bean
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posted 25 October 2002 12:25 PM      Profile for Lima Bean   Author's Homepage        Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
Here's what I've got. But I'm hesitant to post this because I don't know if I remember it correctly. Maybe someone can corroborate or correct my details? (I hope!)

Even in 1995, when I heard about it, in Manitoba or Saskatchewan (that's where I'm fuzzy) it was still illegal for a married woman to have an abortion without the written consent of her husband.

[ October 25, 2002: Message edited by: Lima Bean ]


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Alix
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posted 25 October 2002 12:27 PM      Profile for Alix     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
I've actually heard of this story before, and I'm trying to remember which of my History of Sexuality class books this was in...

I think there might be something on this in "Toronto's Girl Problem" by Carolyn Strange. It's a great book.

There's wild stuff in there. There's a story about social reformers in the 20s doing a survery of Toronto working girls, and on their survey, they classified any girl who accepted a hot chocolate from a man while skating, or pretty much allowed a man they didn't know well to buy them anything as an "occasional prostitute."

edited to add the decade

[ October 25, 2002: Message edited by: Alix ]


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skdadl
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posted 25 October 2002 12:47 PM      Profile for skdadl     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
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I don’t know but I tend to feel that they won’t give me a chance to tell my case in court. They came up with this new ruling that no case could proceed against the Crown that happened before 1964. This blocked my case from going to the courts. The question is whether I will try to join in the appeal to that ruling. I would be very surprised if the ruling is overturned, though — there would be so much stuff coming up from other people who have been abused.

My hair curled while I was reading this interview. I would like to see this woman join in the appeal, and I'd be willing to help, if that's possible. We owe her. One question the interview left me with: What happened to the baby she had during her abduction by the state? Was she allowed to keep him?

Lima Bean, I thought that men could still give a woman trouble about getting an abortion if the man was claiming to be the child's father -- has that changed anywhere/everywhere?


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Rundler
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posted 25 October 2002 01:23 PM      Profile for Rundler     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
About her son, Harry junior. She was allowed to keep him. Sadly, he died in his early twenties due to an accident. I'm not sure whether she was allowed to care for him while she was serving her sentence or not.
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skdadl
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posted 25 October 2002 01:37 PM      Profile for skdadl     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
Thanks, Rundler.

So: Is there something we can do about the appeal?


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Rundler
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posted 25 October 2002 01:40 PM      Profile for Rundler     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
I'm not sure. I've asked the interviewer if she can pop into this thread when she's able -- she may be able to provide more details. I believe the decision about whether she joins the appeal or not is in the hands of her lawyer, but I'm not sure what the considerations are.
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kropotkin1951
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posted 25 October 2002 05:42 PM      Profile for kropotkin1951   Author's Homepage     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
Skdadl you asked
quote:
Lima Bean, I thought that men could still give a woman trouble about getting an abortion if the man was claiming to be the child's father -- has that changed anywhere/everywhere?

The Supreme Court of Canada says:

quote:
There does not appear to be any jurisprudential basis for this argument. No court in Quebec or elsewhere has ever accepted the argument that a father's interest in a foetus which he helped create could support a right to veto a woman's decisions in respect of the foetus she is carrying. A number of cases in various jurisdictions outside of Quebec have considered this argument and explicitly rejected it: Paton v. British Pregnancy Advisory Service Trustees, supra; Medhurst v. Medhurst, supra; Whalley v. Whalley (1981), 122 D.L.R. (3d) 717 (B.C.S.C.); Mock v. Brandanburg (1988), 61 Alta. L.R. (2d) 235 (Q.B.); Doe v. Doe, 314 N.E.2d 128 (Mass. 1974); Jones v. Smith, 278 So.2d 339 (Fla. Dist. Ct. App. 1973). We have been unable to find a single decision in Quebec or elsewhere which would support the allegation of "father's rights" necessary to support this injunction. There is nothing in the Civil Code or any legislation in Quebec which could be used to support the argument. This lack of a legal basis is fatal to the argument about "father's rights".

It is a case called Tremblay v. Daigle and I unfortunately to not know how to insert a link to the site properly.

[ October 25, 2002: Message edited by: kropotkin1951 ]


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skdadl
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posted 25 October 2002 06:07 PM      Profile for skdadl     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
It's ok, kropotkin: I remember the case.

I remember especially that Chantal (?) Daigle couldn't wait for the court (ok: was that a Quebec court she was facing in the first place?), and headed down to the U.S. to get the abortion in time.

But I'm glad that things have been settled this way. Whew.

(Gosh, but that case infuriated me. The guy was so clearly a control-freak dog-in-the-manger ... if you'll pardon the mixed metaphor.)


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bj
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posted 26 October 2002 05:55 PM      Profile for bj   Author's Homepage     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
skdadl: In Florida, women must notify the father of the child if they intend to have an abortion, and I'm not sure how, but the father can prevent it. The law is horrible, it goes into humiliating detail if the woman isn't sure who the father is.

Anyway. Just so you know you weren't imagining such a law.


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Smith
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posted 26 October 2002 06:25 PM      Profile for Smith     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
Actually, it's if the woman intends to put the child up for adoption. If she can't prove the identity of the father (I'm a bit fuzzy on this), she has to publish a list of every single person man she's had sex with in her life in an effort to "track down" the father so he can get a chance to exercise his biological rights.

It's a bullshit law, and probably drives a lot of women straight to the abortionist's.


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mandrake
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posted 26 October 2002 07:56 PM      Profile for mandrake     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
There can be no doubt that a great injustice was done to this lady, but give me a break ..... 1939?
Everyone in Canada who does not feel that the government owes them an apology and/or compensation should send a letter forthwith to the Minister of Justice stating just that ... and those two guys can then be responsible for apologizing to and paying compensation to the rest of us.

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'lance
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posted 26 October 2002 08:15 PM      Profile for 'lance     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
Justice delayed is justice denied, mandrake... or, rather, justice delayed shouldn't let the government off the hook, so long as there's a living person to whom injustice was done, whether under the Female Refuges Act, the Chinese Head Tax Act, or in the residential schools.

I don't know if you read this passage:

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The Freedom of Information Act came out in 1987 and I started doing my research in 1989 to get my documents. I didn’t get a case file until 1993. They had to find these things in the archives. In 1996, I got a report that had evidence as to how I was treated in the Mercer Reformatory. So, then I was in a position to do something.

... but the upshot is, she couldn't even seek justice, in a practical sense, until 48 years after the incident. So the passage of time is not significant. The clock began ticking in 1987.

Edited to add:

As for the common assertions in such cases that "no-one knew it was wrong," or "it was in accord with the values of the time," Velma Demerson said this:

quote:
I found a document in the archives from 1941 in which it was admitted that we shouldn’t have been arrested, we didn’t have a right of appeal and so forth. But they continued to allow women to be arrested.

So that doesn't wash, either.

[ October 26, 2002: Message edited by: 'lance ]


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WingNut
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posted 26 October 2002 08:17 PM      Profile for WingNut   Author's Homepage     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
So tell me, mandrake, should a nazi war criminal come out of his closet, do we just say, oh, it was 1941, forget about it?

Tghe victime is still alive. That alone makes seeking justice worthwhile.


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mandrake
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posted 26 October 2002 09:44 PM      Profile for mandrake     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
Your points are well taken, guys. My point, however, is that there is an endless lineup of groups and individuals who are seeking apologies and/or compensation from the government. This lady is completely justified, as were the Dionnes, but I'm tired of people seeking redress for every injustice committed against their people from time immemorial. It has to stop somewhere. Most of us have some kind of gripe. Does that mean we should all go after the government. The money they have is ours (until they figure out yet another way to steal it).
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writer
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posted 26 October 2002 10:06 PM      Profile for writer     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
quote:
Does that mean we should all go after the government.
Uh, if the government throws us in jail for no cause, then yes. Why not?

quote:

Ministerial Resignations, 1867 to Date

1978.01.27
FOX, Francis
Solicitor General of Canada
Liberal
Signed the husband's name on a hospital document to procure an abortion for a woman with whom he had had an affair


This scandal wouldn't have been a scandal if the woman involved had been able to have an abortion without her husband's permission.

As for the Daigle case, last I heard, the Crown was trying to have her former boyfriend declared a dangerous offender in 2000:

quote:
CALGARY (CP) A lay chaplain who befriended Jean-Guy Tremblay while he was in jail says she was terrified by the anger he displayed as a guest in her house after his 1996 release.
 Hope Fleming, a member of the First Assembly Church, was testifying Tuesday at a sentencing hearing in which the Crown is asking to have Tremblay declared a dangerous offender.
 Tremblay, 36, was convicted last December of several charges -- including unlawful confinement, assault causing bodily harm, uttering threats and criminal harassment -- involving Monilaws and another Calgary woman ...

[ October 26, 2002: Message edited by: writer ]


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skdadl
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posted 27 October 2002 10:41 AM      Profile for skdadl     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
writer, I didn't know that. I remember, though, how creeped out I was by the case at the time, how much I felt in my own nerves the absolute conviction of a woman in that situation, either to run away to get the abortion, or to throttle the guy with my bare hands ...

I confess, I can't help it -- if I were ever in that situation, or worse, one of my sisters was, I would need restraining, followed by anger-management classes.

And mandrake: one of the reasons some of us have money with which to send taxes to the gov't, and other people who've been victims of officially sanctioned discrimination don't, is that they or their parents were tossed into jails or asylums or detention camps or reserves and robbed into the bargain. That didn't happen to my parents or grandparents; how about yours?


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Smith
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posted 27 October 2002 11:24 AM      Profile for Smith     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
quote:
The victime is still alive. That alone makes seeking justice worthwhile.

Bingo.

Of course there are limits. Had this woman been complaining that her long-dead great-great-grandmother was treated this way in the 1830s, or that she was, say, turned down for a government job in 1939 because of her sex, I would agree that it's been too long. But she herself was thrown in jail - an abusive jail, too - just because someone - her father? the local authorities? - didn't like her choice of boyfriend. For such an enormous injustice, 62 years isn't a very long time.

[ October 27, 2002: Message edited by: Smith ]


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posted 27 October 2002 12:15 PM      Profile for mandrake     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
quote:
That didn't happen to my parents or
grandparents; how about yours?

No, it didn't, but it did happen to my great-great-great grandparents in Russia. I guess I have a case against their government. In addition, I feel I have personal injustice issues with the Harris Tories in Ontario, and the Chretien government, so if I institute lawsuits, I assume that I can count on your support in paying me a multi-million dollar settlement?

My point is (for the third time) that there are altogether too many people who wish to place a claim on our tax money. Although I feel that this woman is perfectly justified in her claim (for the third time - for those of you who are comprehensionally challenged), there are too many 'historical' claims that, if fully addressed, would cost the government billions of (our) dollars, and would have most of us moving back to where our ancestors ten times removed came from. All I'm asking is that people look at each claim on its merits and in the context of the times in which the alleged injustice occurred.


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skdadl
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posted 27 October 2002 12:29 PM      Profile for skdadl     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
quote:
so if I institute lawsuits, I assume that I can count on your support in paying me a multi-million dollar settlement?

Tell me more about what Harris and Chretien have done to you; and I might very well support you -- but for multi-millions, no.

Sorry, mandrake, but multi-millions is a silly exaggeration, and you must know it. Two of my best friends are survivors of the detention camps set up in the BC interior for Japanese-Canadians during WWII -- they both received compensation, finally, for that experience (although their dispossessed parents, dead by the time of the settlement, didn't) -- and as we all know, mandrake, it wasn't multi-millions, not even close to what was taken from their parents.


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Timebandit
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posted 27 October 2002 01:23 PM      Profile for Timebandit     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
Governments have a way of acknowledging wrong-doing in a too-little-too-late way. It's people like Velma Demerson who smack 'em upside the head and I commend her for it.

I doubt it's money she's after so much as a public acknowledgement that what they did to her was wrong, even in the historical context of the time.

I remember when the British government declared they had been wrong in promoting child immigration through charitable organizations like Dr Barnardo's Homes (very common, up to the late 1920s). My grandfather, a "Barnardo boy", would have appreciated the apology. Unfortunately, he'd died 2 years earlier. Like I said, too little, too late.


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posted 27 October 2002 01:41 PM      Profile for 'lance     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
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My point is (for the third time) that there are altogether too many people who wish to place a claim on our tax money.

Please define or describe "too many."

quote:
Although I feel that this woman is perfectly justified in her claim (for the third time - for those of you who are comprehensionally challenged), there are too many 'historical' claims that, if fully addressed, would cost the government billions of (our) dollars...

Name three, please. No, name two. Then kindly explain (1) why, even if they'd cost "billions" of dollars, they'd be unjustified, (2) whether they'd be justified if they were to cost mere millions, instead of billions, to settle, and (3) how big a claim has to get, monetarily, before it's converted from a justified to an unjustified one.

In short, mandrake, where -- in a rhetorical phrase we hear rather too often from opponents of historical redress -- would you draw the line?

Edited to add:

It's dawned on me that the feminism forum wouldn't necessarily be the best place to carry on in this vein, and it'd be off-topic on this thread besides. So I've started a spin-off thread over here.

[ October 27, 2002: Message edited by: 'lance ]


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Rebecca West
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posted 28 October 2002 04:06 PM      Profile for Rebecca West     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
When my eldest was very young, my neighbour sometimes babysat her. She told me about how, when she was a teenager, her father had her committed to a mental institution for what he deemed "sexual promiscuity". My neighbour, over the course of her 10 year confinement (yes,10 YEARS!) was subjected to such continuous electroshock and drug 'therapy' that she was left sterile and permanently brain damaged. Her IQ, when I met her, was probably around 80.

She was a very kind woman, generous, and absolutely loved children.


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Smith
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posted 28 October 2002 05:00 PM      Profile for Smith     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
Makes you wonder about advocates of parental rights, don't it?
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posted 31 October 2002 12:46 AM      Profile for JanLab     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
I realize I may be posting too late for this discussion. But I've finally gotten around to registering here, and I really want to exercise the privilege of having my say on this.

A decade after this legislation goes up in flames, I married a person of another race than mine. I had no idea that I'd come that close to being at risk of imprisonment. Regardless of the legal changes, I still lost jobs, got denied apartments, and listened to a lot of caring friends tell me that they had concerns for my children's safety on their future schoolgrounds. It may not have been imprisonment in a physical sense, but it felt like that at times.

I used to proudly boast that canucks had a better race record than americans....our marriage is still illegal in several states. I guess that's a recent phenomenon.

I'm soooo proud of this elder....I'm so proud of her for never stopping her outrage....I'm so proud of her for not giving in, and saying that is the past. She has learned the same that I have....this nation needs to continue to deal _ith (sorry my dubbya is stuck) it's racism; past and present. I'm so tired of being dismissed _ith "that _as a long time ago...let go...". I don't think that is the best thing I can do as a mom........


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