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Vansterdam Kid
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posted 07 August 2004 04:33 AM
This is a pretty good column in regards to responses that would have been more 'appropriate' in the 1950's when -- gasp the wives of politicians have opinions. quote:
Does everyone have a bizarrely 1950s expectation of women who are married to a politician of any importance? Zoe Williams Saturday August 7, 2004 The Guardian Clearly, I'm not talking 1950s expectation in a Stepford wivesy, "they have to make really loud noises in bed" type of way. You'd never in your life try willingly to imagine, still less dictate, that kind of thing. No, I'm talking about a standard of behaviour and decorum that hasn't been expected of a lady spouse since the days of Bewitched, when Samantha had to pretend not to twiddle her pretty nose if Larry was around.
continued at the Guardian[ 07 August 2004: Message edited by: Davidbcalec ]
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Gir Draxon
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posted 07 August 2004 08:02 AM
quote: But that doesn't even come close to explaining how the magazine Family Circle got Teresa and Laura Bush into some kind of bake-off, where they each submitted a biscuit recipe (biscuits! From a mature adult multimillionaire!), and readers could test each one and decide, I suppose, who to vote for on that basis. ("Well," they must deliberate, "his wife makes the best cookies, so he'll be in a better mood for his tax meeting!") You can see how it's cute; how it leavens the mood, and all that. But it's also irrational, senseless and, if I can use a really unfashionable word, bloody sexist.
It might be a bit sexist, but I don't think the intention was to demean the role of women. The "contest" is consistent with the content of the magazine, and beyond that it is just idol worhsip like any celebrity would get. Is it stupid? Yes. A grave threat to the equality of the genders? I doubt it.
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skdadl
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posted 07 August 2004 09:10 AM
This nonsense has never entirely gone away -- remember Hillary allowing herself to be bullied into coming up with a cookie recipe? Hillary??? And I'm not sure any USian candidate's wife is really free to resist much. Dean's wife (forgive me: I forget her name, but that's a good thing in this context, no?) kept her dignity, but, well -- I rest my case. Technically, prime ministerial wives can't do the "first lady" number, there being that Big First Lady ahead of them all the time. Mila Mulroney certainly thought that she was entitled: she didn't just show up at galas but commandeered a parliamentary office, with baby space, at public expense and had the chutzpah to argue that being first lady was a job and she was determined to have people respect her role that way (by paying for it, presumably). Fine, lady: earn it, and we'll respect it. Are the prime ministerial wives who stay in the background being more principled or just more passive and traditional? It's an interesting paradox. All that aside: I have a killer biscuit recipe, very rich scone texture, especially wonderful with currants in.
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skdadl
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posted 07 August 2004 11:48 AM
This whole paradox arose as well when Robert Birgenau (sp?), the current pres of U of T who is about to flee mid-term to the job he has long coveted, at Berkeley, arrived in Toronto with liberated wife in tow. Now, she is obviously an intelligent person in her own right; and beyond that, it is true, as she argued, that the prezzie's wife has always been expected to take on considerable duties, especially as a hostess. So she made the claim, rather as had Mila Mulroney, that she deserved some status-recognition and a salary of her own. She got both. What do we think of this? (Hint: I disapproved, but it is a fraught topic, I recognize.)
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ShyViolet
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posted 07 August 2004 12:49 PM
why were they asked to make cookies? well, i am from the usa...i can take a stab at this...basically, my understanding is that the men have the important job of being president/presidential candidate, whereas the women, irregardless of their achievements, are expected to just look pretty (best way i can put it) i remember back during when they were trying to pick the dem candidate, quite a few people raised a fuss because ms. heinz-kerry, rather than coming with her husband to his political functions, was (gasp!) doing her job (a pediatrician, i think). if it were reversed, do you think anyone would expect mr. kerry to rake time off to support his wife? of course not!!! the truth is, as much as i and many others, long for a female president, we will prolly never have one... why? becasue neither party has the balls to nominate a woman!!!! that's too much of a political risk and their candidate might not get put in office. i'd better stop now, before i really start going crazy...anyone care to tell me if i'm way off base here?
From: ~Love is like pi: natural, irrational, and very important~ | Registered: Aug 2004
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Jingles
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posted 07 August 2004 01:16 PM
Why doesn't "Hot Rod" magazine have a contest wherein the two male candidates drag race their pimp-ed out Chevys? I mean, men are supposed to be car guys like women are supposed to be homemakers, right?Not only is that notion patently absurd, the thought of multi-millionaires engaging in such activities is insulting. Remember when Bush senior was flabbergasted at the supermarket checkout counter? He hadn't bought groceries for himself in decades. Along with bullshit stories about being the son of a dirt-po coal miner, and living in a one-room log cabin daddy built with his own calloused hands, these stories are part of the myth of a classless society. They are supposed to say to the ignorant "look, our millionaires are really just like regular folk. Why, looky there! GW is cutting brush on his farm! He's a hardworkin' man jes like you, so he feels yer pain!" Canada does it right. I think Paul Martin's wife is named Sheelah, but I only know that because her name was on the ship that was busted carrying all that dope. She isn't a public figure, because she and the previous Prime Ministers' wives (Mila excepted) understood that their role in that relationship wasn't a public one. Unfortunately, with our politics becoming more and more like the personality-drive, soundbitten, image-conscious value and substance free American model, spouses may be pushed into the spotlight.
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gula
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posted 07 August 2004 06:00 PM
quote: Originally posted by ShyViolet417: why were they asked to make cookies? well, i am from the usa...i can take a stab at this...basically, my understanding is that the men have the important job of being president/presidential candidate, whereas the women, irregardless of their achievements, are expected to just look pretty (best way i can put it) i remember back during when they were trying to pick the dem candidate, quite a few people raised a fuss because ms. heinz-kerry, rather than coming with her husband to his political functions, was (gasp!) doing her job (a pediatrician, i think). if it were reversed, do you think anyone would expect mr. kerry to rake time off to support his wife? of course not!!! the truth is, as much as i and many others, long for a female president, we will prolly never have one... why? becasue neither party has the balls to nominate a woman!!!! that's too much of a political risk and their candidate might not get put in office. i'd better stop now, before i really start going crazy...anyone care to tell me if i'm way off base here?
Not really. I believe it is Dean's wife who is a doctor.
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skdadl
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posted 08 August 2004 10:50 AM
For Bacchus:Cream Scones (aka Baking-Powder Biscuits) 2 cups all-purpose flour 3 tablespoons sugar 1 tablespoon baking powder 1/2 teaspoon salt 1/2 cup unsalted butter, chilled 2 large eggs, room temperature 1/2 cup heavy cream, room temperature 1/4 cup currants Preheat oven to 450F. Lightly grease a baking sheet. Sift together the dry ingredients. Cut the butter into the flour mixture (with a pastry blender or knives) until it resembles coarse cornmeal. Whisk the eggs and cream. Using a fork, stir in cream mixture and currants, mixing until a sticky dough forms. On a lightly floured surface, gently knead the dough 6 to 8 times until it holds together. Form into a ball. Divide in half; pat each half into a 3/4-inch-thick circle. Cut the dough into rounds with a 2-inch cutter and place on baking sheet. Brush the tops lightly with milk. Bake for 15 to 20 minutes, or until golden brown. Makes 16 to 18 scones.
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Michelle
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posted 08 August 2004 11:01 AM
Ohhhhh...I am going to make those with my son today, I think. That sounds delicious!I'll bet they'd taste good with barberries, too. (Those are little dried berries that you can get in Iranian grocery stores.) But I think we'll make them without berries, because he's fussy about berries in stuff, unfortunately. BTW, when you say "heavy cream" do you mean whipping cream? What percent is "heavy cream"? [ 08 August 2004: Message edited by: Michelle ]
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skdadl
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posted 09 August 2004 01:20 PM
Michelle: Do you know how sexy that last post of yours looks on TAT? I'm glad to know that. Ok: I shall write that down on the recipe: use 35%. Otherwise, I'll forget again. Bacchus, please copy. quote: Originally posted by Bacchus:
Want a recipe for ... orange grand marnier cheesecake with an orange caramel sauce?
YES!!!
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Mr. Magoo
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posted 09 August 2004 02:06 PM
I used to read Family Circle, and Woman's Day, and Good Housekeeping, and all sorts of other grandma magazines when I was a kid... staying with my grandma.If you've ever read these magazines then you know why George and John weren't asked for their recipes. For the sake of the Democrats, I just hope "Mrs." Kerry's apron was suitably frilly... y'know, frilly enough to be cute, but not so frilly as to be ostentatious, or "frillier than thou". That could be important to a Family Circle subscriber.
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oldgoat
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posted 09 August 2004 02:16 PM
quote: Originally posted by skdadl: If Mrs Oldgoat runs for national office, are you going to do a Mila on us and demand a first-gentleman's office with child-care sub-benefits? Compensation for organizing the soirees and the amuse-gueules?
I'll be a regular Olive Deifenbaker. [ 09 August 2004: Message edited by: oldgoat ]
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skdadl
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posted 09 August 2004 02:17 PM
quote: Originally posted by Mr. Magoo: y'know, frilly enough to be cute, but not so frilly as to be ostentatious, or "frillier than thou". That could be important to a Family Circle subscriber.
"Frillier than thou" is, like, a serious problem for Presbyterians. It comes from the lace jabot and cuffs of the moderator and the ministers. Those are the only spots of ostentation, of non-dourness, allowed in the church, so much is made of them, although not too much, as you say. Gauging just how much is enough but not frillier than thou is a life-long discipline, let me tell you.
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Bacchus
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posted 09 August 2004 02:47 PM
Orange Grand Marnier Cheesecake (just made it yesterday in fact)CRUST 11 whole graham crackers, broken 1/4 cup sugar 1/4 cup (1/2 stick) unsalted butter, melted FILLING 4x 8 ounce -packages cream cheese,room temp 1 1/4cups sugar 6 large eggs 3 tbsp orange liqueur(grand marnier/triple sec) 5 tsp finely grated orange peel 2 tsp vanilla extract FOR CRUST: Position rack in center of oven; preheat to 450F. Grind crackers and sugar in processor until fine crumbs form. Add butter; process until crumbs are slightly moist. Press onto bottom (not sides) of 9-inch-diameter springform pan with 2 1/2-inch-high sides. (though I used 10 inch and others etc) Bake until set, about 12 minutes. Transfer to rack; cool completely. Maintain oven temperature. FOR FILLING: Using electric mixer, beat cream cheese and sugar in large bowl until smooth. Add eggs, liqueur, orange peel and vanilla. Beat just until blended. Pour filling into crust-lined pan. Bake cake 15 minutes. Reduce oven temperature to 300 F. Bake until cake is puffed, outer 2-inch edge is set and center moves just slightly when shaken, about 55 minutes longer. Transfer cake to rack. Run knife around pan sides to loosen; cool. Chill cheesecake overnight. Serve with Caramel-Orange Sauce. Caramel-Orange Sauce: 2 cups sugar 1/2 cup water 1/2 cup whipping cream 3 tablespoons orange liqueur Stir sugar and water in heavy medium saucepan over medium-low heat until sugar dissolves, increase heat; boil without stirring until syrup turns deep amber, occasionally brushing down sides of pan with wet pastry brush and swirling pan, about 9 minutes. Remove from heat. Gradually add cream (mixture will bubble vigorously). Stir over low heat until smooth. Remove from heat. Whisk in liqueur (Can be made 2 days ahead. Cover sauce and refrigerate. Stir over low heat to rewarm before serving.) The grand marnier can make the caramel a bit bitter so you might want to lessen that, then add it to taste.
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