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Debra
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posted 05 March 2002 08:40 AM      Profile for Debra   Author's Homepage     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
Story

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I get the impression that we don't find it important to recognize the misogyny in our culture because it isn't convenient. I have to wonder about the general dislike for talking about isms — is it because it's annoying and politically correct? Or is it lazy self-protection? Because being mentally engaged means understanding the discrimination inherent in our cultural architecture and it means questioning privilege rather than just enjoying it.

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vickyinottawa
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posted 05 March 2002 10:57 AM      Profile for vickyinottawa   Author's Homepage     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
I've always felt I have a responsibility to refer to myself as a feminist - to resist the backlash-driven self-silencing that affects so many women. It had never really occurred to me to not use the F-word, until I was rebuked one day by my mother for using it - my own feminist icon, who had 3 kids at a young age, then resisted family and spousal pressure, went back to school and became a physician. I was pretty shocked.

Of course I resisted her suggestions that I keep my feminism to myself. After all, she taught me well


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skadie
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posted 05 March 2002 01:57 PM      Profile for skadie     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
My best friend, who knows me well and who I respect said, "You'rea feminist?" But I'm sure we are all used to the less than jubilant reactions to the F-word.

I choose to call myself a feminist in respect for the woman who paved the way for us. (My grandmother may not called herself a feminist but she was one of the first women in Canada to achieve her B.A.) I feel that to rebuff the word we rebuff the women that began the changes and it implies that their work has been done...


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Alix
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posted 05 March 2002 02:01 PM      Profile for Alix     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
It's funny, but I never even realized that there was a backlash against the word "feminism" until my Women in Theatre class last year. One day, as we were going around the circle, I was struck by how many women (funny, none of the men in the class said this) said something along the lines of "I wouldn't call myself a feminist, BUT..." Somehow they seemed to feel that the word itself was limiting. Which I suppose I don't understand. I try to avoid labels for myself as much as possible, but there are a few I choose to self-apply, and feminist would be one of them. If anyone has any ideas as to why feminist is a particularly limiting word (as opposed to any other, I suppose ) I would be glad to hear.
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Trespasser
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posted 05 March 2002 02:02 PM      Profile for Trespasser   Author's Homepage     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
Women in Theatre class! Do tell more!
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Alix
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posted 05 March 2002 03:09 PM      Profile for Alix     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
Well, without getting *too* much off-topic...It was a great class, and very much more than I had expected. All the plays we read were very far from the mainstream, plays by Franca Rame, Dacia Maraini, and others, we studied performance artists (Rachel Rosenthal was one). It was a hard course to summarize, but for me, a lot of it was about pushing intellectually the boundaries of what I considered to be "theatre." I know that isn't probably very communicative...

[ March 05, 2002: Message edited by: Alix ]


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nonsuch
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posted 05 March 2002 03:14 PM      Profile for nonsuch     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
Rebecca West in 'feminist city'

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Feminism isn't about exclusion or elistism - if it is, then it's another agenda entirely that has hijacked the term feminism for its own purpose. Equality benefits everyone - if it excludes, it isn't equality, by any definition.

This may be why many people - including some who have contributed substantially to women's causes - shy away from the word. Because of spotty, inaccurate, sensationalist reporting and even spottier attention on the part of the public, Feminism has become associated in a great many minds with extremes.

[ March 05, 2002: Message edited by: nonesuch ]


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posted 05 March 2002 03:21 PM      Profile for Trespasser   Author's Homepage     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
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plays by Franca Rame, Dacia Maraini, and others, we studied performance artists (Rachel Rosenthal was one). It was a hard course to summarize, but for me, a lot of it was about pushing intellectually the boundaries of what I considered to be "theatre"

!!!!!!!! So Franca Rame not only performed with Dario Fo but also wrote her own plays! I had no idea! And I thought D Maraini was a prose writer exclusively. (Never heard of Rachel Rosenthal, )What were their plays like? What did you think of Pirandello's Six Characters in Search of an Author

I am sure Earthmom and others will forgive us this digression, as it is ultimately connected to feminism and definitions and potentials of that movement.


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Alix
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posted 05 March 2002 04:04 PM      Profile for Alix     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
Franca Rame wrote quite a bit on her own, as well as working with Dario Fo. The play we read was (I think) called "A Woman Alone" It was a one-woman play, and really good. Dacia Maraini has at least one book of plays out, and we read Dreams of Clytemnestra and another one called (I think this is approximate, but something like) A Dialogue Between a Prostitute and Her Client, which my prof had actually directed at one point.

Rachel Rosenthal is a very interesting American performance artist, whose works very much combines images of her body with images of the earth. It's really neat stuff if you can find anything about her.


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Thandiwe
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posted 05 March 2002 04:15 PM      Profile for Thandiwe   Author's Homepage     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
When I was a little teenie (which, admittedly, wasn't long ago,) I too was guilty of saying "I don't identify as feminist..." But I have no problem with the word at all now, maybe because I'm a bit more educated about what feminism really is, and its history over the past century. And I would agree that women my age don't necessarily appreciate the drastic changes that have been precipitated by "feminists" that allow us to work, study, procreate, and live with greater freedom and equality. And I would agree that it smacks of disrespect for those who fought for those rights to dispense of the word "feminism."

I suppose the best thing to do would be for those of us who feel comfortable with the word to use it more, and use it well.


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Rebecca West
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posted 05 March 2002 05:05 PM      Profile for Rebecca West     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
It was Rebecca West (my nicknamesake, the early 20th century writer who took her nom de plume from an Ibsen character) who said in 1913 something like, "I have no idea what a feminist is. I only know that that's what they call me whenever I differentiate myself from a doormat."

I've always liked that.


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nonsuch
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posted 06 March 2002 09:30 AM      Profile for nonsuch     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
Wonderful line. We all need to memorize it - but use it with the discretion and care that it deserves.
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Gayle
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posted 06 March 2002 10:54 AM      Profile for Gayle   Author's Homepage     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
Exact quote (from quotegeek.com):

I myself have never been able to find out precisely what feminism is; I only know that people call me a feminist whenever I express sentiments that differentiate me from a doormat.
-Rebecca West, 1913


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Rebecca West
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posted 06 March 2002 11:10 AM      Profile for Rebecca West     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
Thank you Gayle! I have the quote on my fridge at home, but I couldn't remember it properly.
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andrean
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posted 06 March 2002 11:12 AM      Profile for andrean     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
I also have the quote, on a postcard, on my desk at work, but I hadn't made the Rebecca West connection until you pointed it out!
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Tommy_Paine
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posted 06 March 2002 11:21 AM      Profile for Tommy_Paine     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
A well chosen name, then Rebecca. Your ability to be to the point is a tribute to the original.

The right complains about "political correctness" , but they've play the same game. We've seen words like "feminist" and "liberal" demonized by the supposedly liberal dominated media.

God, the lies.......the lies are mind numbing.

ANYWAY,

I think two can play at that game. I think we should be refering to Ossama bin Laden, at every opportunity as a "conservative", or "religious fundamentalist". (drop the Islam part)

Like, "Today, U.S. and allied troops took on conservative religious fundementalist Al Quada troops in the eastern mountains of Afghanistan."

Heck, that ain't even a lie.


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Rebecca West
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posted 06 March 2002 12:09 PM      Profile for Rebecca West     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
There's no room in the mainstream media for unbiased reporting. Why, if we were to be subjected to the truth on a regular basis, we might actually START THINKING FOR OURSELVES.

There'd be anarchy in the streets.


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'lance
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posted 06 March 2002 12:15 PM      Profile for 'lance     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
Interesting question though -- is objective reporting possible? Does it make sense even as a theoretical ideal? I think it founders on the fact that a story is always the truth as seen by some person, and that the best we can hope for is that said person be as open as possible about his/her biases.
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Rebecca West
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posted 06 March 2002 04:45 PM      Profile for Rebecca West     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
I think human perception belies true objectivity, so it's impossible to attain in anything, certainly not in mainstream journalism. If Izzy Asper (a "liberal" we are told, though that needs an upper case 'L') thought we'd buy more papers and only watch Global Network news if they encouraged diverse viewpoints, they'd allow it because they'd reap in the bucks. It's business, that's all. A lack of bias (as opposed to objectivity) might conceivably encompass the presentation of more than one perspective, very doable, which would be just dandy if media moguls could be made to believe that they could make even more money while their fiefdoms remained unchallenged if they mandated a lack of bias in their product.

As a wobbly segue back to the topic, the language we use implies a set of personal assumptions and bias that are inescapable, which is why the term "feminism" is so loaded. Call yourself a feminist and suddenly you're a shrill, ball-busting harpy, a dyke, a marxist, a man-hating bitch. At best, an over-educated, white liberal reeking of class entitlement. Maybe some of the above are true for some individuals, but they certainly aren't exclusive to feminism, and half of them can't even be qualified as insults to anyone with a particle of self-awareness.

I don't mind other people calling me a feminist or womanist or humanist or whatever. But when considering what I call myself, I think I have to admit many, many labels which, individually, come nowhere close to who I am, but collectively might vaguely resemble something I'd recognize as "me".

Another reason why mainstream media is so irritatingly inaccurate is because they seek to simplify complex things so that the plebes don't have to bother their silly little heads about the Big Issues. They label, box and compartmentalize everything, then package and market it in the most banal and oversimplified way that can produce maximum revenues.

People are complicated and many-faceted, and feminists are people.

That's my rilly rilly impressive deep thought for the day.


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jeff house
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posted 06 March 2002 07:27 PM      Profile for jeff house     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
With apologies to the Grimke sisters and others, I have always thought that the ur-feminist quotation belongs to Rebecca West in The Master Builder.

After pounding loudly and incessantly on the door of the Master Builder, who she has not seen in a dozen years, she says to him: "Fork over the kingdom!"


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posted 06 March 2002 08:19 PM      Profile for nonsuch     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
Cool, Jeff. Only, that was then, and this is now.... Who in her sober mind would want the kingdom with an extra century of royal fuck-ups on it?

About reporting. I'm not starry-eyed enough to expect objective or unbiassed or even covering both (let alone all) sides. It would be kind of neat, though, to get a quote with the whole sentence in, verbatim, rather than just the first bit, or to see a paragraph of background, context... something more than the shrill expostulation at the end of a long, well-reasoned exposition.

Never mind. Old sore spot.


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Trespasser
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Digressing yet another time...

This is only to welcome JeffHouse to the Feminism Fora - I know he's here to stay.

(Maybe, just maybe, one day one rasmus_raven will find his way to these hills, join a talk or two, and dispel the mean rumour that he doesn't have a feminist bone in his body... )


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posted 06 March 2002 09:35 PM      Profile for Tommy_Paine     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
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I think human perception belies true objectivity, so it's impossible to attain in anything, certainly not in mainstream journalism.

I agree, and whenever you read or hear anything, "consider the source" is something all but the most credulous do.

Unfortunatley, today's media is riding on the coat tails of a time when news media was much more reticent about displaying it's bias, and is to their own detriment, squandering credibility built up by those that went before.

Not to look at things through rose coloured glasses. Newspapers and such have never been paragons of virtue; there's nothing in print or in broadcast today that would make Randolf Hearst blanch.

I think what I object to, is the out and out lies that go unchallenged, and the idea, mostly confined to punditry at the moment, that "the other side lies, so I'll balance things by lying too." -- The Rush Limbaugh and Tucker Carlson school of journalism.

I object too, to columnists and pundits that try to float fallacious arguments. It really dumbs down the public debate and there's no excuse for it. I think it reflects very badly on Universities that have Journalism courses that they can't graduate people who can or care to construct an opinion without resorting to leaps of illogic that a factory schlep like me can cut to ribbons.

And, I think it's from this arena we see words and therefore people, demonized.


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Rebecca West
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posted 07 March 2002 10:52 AM      Profile for Rebecca West     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
Factory schlep or no Tommy, you have the benefit of being a sceptic, so you critically analyse the slop you're force-fed. Unfortunately they don't teach critical analysis in public school (I think it's been banned along with Harry Potter), but if kids manage to get to university (if they or their parents can afford it anymore) they might accidentally happen upon a course that insists on development of such skills, so at the end of it all may be able to distinguish between fact and opinion.

There was a course on women writers I took in my last year of university that required a critical analysis of feminist thought before we even got down to tackling the actual literature. That, and a course in international politics, were the only instances in four years of "higher learning" where I was required to critically analyse, and not regurgitate some derivative, hackneyed crap for the desired GPA carrot.

Is it any wonder so many of us are so blissfully ignorant of what goes on around us?


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