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J. Arthur
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posted 04 February 2008 02:36 PM
More proof that the Labour Party might, just might, not win the next election:Multiple wives mean multiple benefits I think we can all agree that this is ridiculous. What's more, it just whips up anger towards the people who this policy is "helping" not to mention make everyone pissed off at the Labour Party. [ 04 February 2008: Message edited by: J. Arthur ]
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adam stratton
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posted 04 February 2008 03:21 PM
What do you (and others who maybe 'ouraged') suggest, J. Arthur? Let them starve now that they are in the UK?[ 04 February 2008: Message edited by: adam stratton ]
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posted 04 February 2008 03:37 PM
I think the law should be made clear BEFORE a polygamist moves here. He should not be allowed to bring more than one wife, and personally, I'd deny him immigration status for that reason. The sticky point is refugee status, as it covers people in danger. (Including the chattel wives). But if the co-wives were accepted, THEY should not be denied benefits. This is one of those entangled cased for feminist anti-racism activists...
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posted 04 February 2008 03:50 PM
It is not insane. It is a matter of denying precedents that reduce women precisely to the status of chattel and baggage. Fuck, we have fought that long enough. Some "male feminist" you are.Edited to add: I am not a Christian. I am an enemy of all patriarchal religion. And of course I think that Muslims, Jews and even Christians (horrid cat-hating religion) should be entitled to refugee status in cases of danger. [ 04 February 2008: Message edited by: lagatta ]
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Martha (but not Stewart)
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posted 04 February 2008 03:53 PM
This is also a tangled issue for people who believe that consenting adults should be able to enter into sexual relations and familial relations of their choice.I am not certain where I stand on the issues of polygamy, polyandry, and polyamory, from a legal point of view. There are issues besides whether or not I should be allowed two husbands simultaneously, or one husband and one wife simultaneously. For example, if one member of a polyamorous foursome of two men and two women, for example, has a job with health benefits, should all three of her partners get spousal benefits? By the way, in Canadian law, "Every one who practises or enters into any kind of conjugal union with more than one person at the same time is guilty of an indictable offence and liable to imprisonment for a term not exceeding five years." (Criminal Code, Section 293, 1 (a) (ii).) So it would be illegal for a married person to maintain a long-term affair. For example, Francois Mitterand would have been a criminal by Canadian law. Hmmm.
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Martha (but not Stewart)
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posted 04 February 2008 05:45 PM
quote: Originally posted by Sineed: When it's consenting adults, it's all good, but when you're talking polygamy, the sorts of societies that have it tend to be patriarchal in the extreme.
Some monogamous societies are patriarchal in the extreme as well. quote: Originally posted by Sineed: Think fundamentalist Mormons and the forced marriages of teenaged girls to middle-aged men to be their "plural" wives.
I can assure you, regardless of my attitudes towards various forms of polyamory (including polyandry and polygamy), I am 100% against forced marriages of either adults or teenagers. quote: Originally posted by Sineed: Polyamorous relationships, open marriages, swinging--none of those my cup of tea, and none of my business if people are into it. But polygamy is about turning women into baby machines for males who wish to prove their fertility to the community.
My worry is this: what kind of legal regime are you going to put in place to legalize "acceptable" polyamory while keeping patriarchal polyamory legal? Please note: Section 293, 1 (a) (ii) of the Canadian Criminal Code quite clearly makes it illegal, indeed criminal, to be in a committed polyamorous relationship.
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posted 04 February 2008 07:34 PM
quote: When it's consenting adults, it's all good, but when you're talking polygamy, the sorts of societies that have it tend to be patriarchal in the extreme. Sineed
If you are talking about Islam (which is most likely) ..
quote: ...[It has to be added that] polygamy in Islam is a matter of mutual consent. No one can force a woman to marry a married man. Besides, the wife has the right to stipulate that her husband must not marry any other woman as a second wife. 74 The Bible, on the other hand, sometimes resorts to forcible polygamy. A childless widow must marry her husband's brother, even if he is already married (see the "Plight of Widows" section),regardless of her consent (Genesis 38:8-10). It should be noted that in many Muslim societies today the practice of polygamy is rare since the gap between the numbers of both sexes is not huge. One can, safely, say that the rate of polygamous marriages in the Muslim world is much less than the rate of extramarital affairs in the West. In other words, men in the Muslim world today are far more strictly monogamous than men in the Western world. Billy Graham, the eminent Christian evangelist has recognized this fact: "Christianity cannot compromise on the question of polygamy. If present-day Christianity cannot do so, it is to its own detriment. Islam has permitted polygamy as a solution to social ills and has allowed a certain degree of latitude to human nature but only within the strictly defined framework of the law. Christian countries make a great show of monogamy, but actually they practice polygamy. No one is unaware of the part mistresses play in Western society. In this respect Islam is a fundamentally honest religion, and permits a Muslim to marry a second wife if he must, but strictly forbids all clandestine amatory associations in order to safeguard the moral probity of the community." 75 It is of interest to note that many, non-Muslim as well as Muslim, countries in the world today have outlawed polygamy.
http://www.islamicity.com/mosque/w_islam/poly.htm
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Wilf Day
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posted 04 February 2008 07:42 PM
quote: Originally posted by lagatta: if the co-wives were accepted, THEY should not be denied benefits.
Nor spousal support: quote: “spouse” means either of two persons who are married to each otherIn the definition of “spouse”, a reference to marriage includes a marriage that is actually or potentially polygamous, if it was celebrated in a jurisdiction whose system of law recognizes it as valid. Sec. 30: Every spouse has an obligation to provide support for himself or herself and for the other spouse, in accordance with need, to the extent that he or she is capable of doing so.
By the way, a similar problem has been sitting on Canada Pension Plan desks for years. A common-law spouse who has lived with a partner for more than one year is entitled to survivor benefits. So is the legal spouse. Lots of guys die leaving two widows.[ 04 February 2008: Message edited by: Wilf Day ]
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posted 04 February 2008 08:09 PM
Yes, stunning as it may seen, you won't have to search very far to find quite a lot of traces of principled feminist opposition to the French legislation that decreed young Muslim women would be barred from public schools if they insisted on wearing scarves. This was acknowledged at the time, by materialist feminists such as Christine Delphy, as a momentous mistake, with the State driving young women back under the rule of fathers, imams and a marginalized, integrist community, without a shred of understanding for the dynamics of these women's evolving choices in this matter. Muslim women, of course, were hardly given any say in the matter. Similar appropriation of "what's good for them" from our White/objective liberal perspective happens here too all the time - see Afro-centric Toronto School thread and the second-guessing of FN decisions.[ 04 February 2008: Message edited by: martin dufresne ]
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posted 05 February 2008 03:56 AM
Yeah, Martin, no one but you should ever tell anyone else how things ought to be....This from the so-called "feminist" who's pissed off a fair percentage of women on this board by telling them "what's good for them". It's at least good for comic relief.
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lagatta
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posted 05 February 2008 04:49 AM
unionist, do you know those people personally? Have you visited Turkey or lived there? I'm talking about people I know personally in Paris, Lyon and elsewhere in France.Not all those Turks are leftists by any means - the military were always enforcers of hardline secularism - and oppressive both of Islamists and the left. I do know some Turkish feminists who agree with the headscarf ban at universities though, although it does give them pause in terms of civil liberties. They agree with it mostly for reasons of personal safety, fearing what will happen to secular women if veiling becomes the norm. I only know a few Turkish feminists though, met at events such as European Social Forums and the related feminist forum. Alas I have never been to Turkey - and Istanbul is a magnificent city.
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posted 05 February 2008 05:01 AM
quote: Originally posted by lagatta: unionist, do you know those people personally? Have you visited Turkey or lived there? I'm talking about people I know personally in Paris, Lyon and elsewhere in France.
No, I don't. I just wanted to note that tens of thousands of women demonstrated, in a predominantly Muslim country, against loosening restriction of the hijab. Why did they do that? Because they are right-wing extremists? Because they enjoy persecuting what you call "Islamists" and the "left"? Not according to the reading I've done. They're demonstrating because they're terrified of a return to religious dictatorship and what it will mean for their status as women. quote: Not all those Turks are leftists by any means - the military were always enforcers of hardline secularism - and oppressive both of Islamists and the left.
"Hardline secularism"? Well, whatever, it replaced the Ottoman empire, that hardline non-secular state which subjugated millions beyond its borders and converted people by force and committed genocide. I'll take "hardline secularism" over the alternative any day of the week. By the way, oppression of leftists is not a feature of secularism, hard or soft.
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posted 05 February 2008 05:43 AM
Oh, I'm very much a secularist as well, just saying that secularist regimes are not necessarily democratic. Theocratic regimes never are, by their very nature. Obviously reading up (quickly - lots of work) on the timeline concerning the Ottoman Empire, the Young Turk Revolution and the Armenian Genocide... It should be remembered that Muslim rule was overall far more tolerant and less cruel to religious minorities than Christendom was, but those were two religion-based systems and civilisations. [ 05 February 2008: Message edited by: lagatta ]
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posted 05 February 2008 06:30 AM
quote: Originally posted by unionist: [QB]I just wanted to note that tens of thousands of women demonstrated, in a predominantly Muslim country, against loosening restriction of the hijab. .... They're demonstrating because they're terrified of a return to religious dictatorship and what it will mean for their status as women.[QB]
Wearing a hijab is a mode of self-expression. There are, arguably, circumstances under which it is appropriate to use the force of law to restrict freedom of expression. But let us be clear about what these tens of thousands of women are demonstrating against: they are demonstrating against the loosening of restrictions on the freedom of expression. They are demonstrating against the freedom of expression.
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posted 05 February 2008 07:11 AM
Do we really need another hijab discussion? Can we get back to the polygamy? I still say polygamy can't be lumped in with other polyamorous relationships. Basically polygamy is about one man living a frat boy's dream, or perhaps living like a Paleolithic man, spreading his seed far and wide, getting all the sex he wants. Unless his plural wives are bisexual, they'd be sexually deprived most of the time. I recommend Under the Banner of Heaven, by Jon Krakauer, a book that examines the Latter Day Saints church, presenting a devastating portrayal of how polygamy oppresses women.
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posted 05 February 2008 07:56 AM
quote: Originally posted by Wilf Day: But does that mean a Canadian immigrant with several wives should choose one to come with him, while abandoning the others? And if he does come with more than one wife, should we not recognize the rights of all of them?
I think lagatta answered this in a definitive way - at least to my taste! quote: I think the law should be made clear BEFORE a polygamist moves here. He should not be allowed to bring more than one wife, and personally, I'd deny him immigration status for that reason.The sticky point is refugee status, as it covers people in danger. (Including the chattel wives). But if the co-wives were accepted, THEY should not be denied benefits.
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posted 05 February 2008 10:15 AM
quote: Originally posted by Wilf Day:
Who is bringing whom? Maybe one of his wives is more qualified than him.
Women and men should be subject to identical criteria. quote: And if two of them are qualified as immigrants, should one of them be denied permission on the grounds of marital status? Which one?
If both are qualified, both should be admitted - obviously. I interpreted lagatta's proscription as meaning that we should not admit the male if he insists on the Canadian state recognizing his multiple wives.
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posted 05 February 2008 01:22 PM
It's one thing to debate allowing such people into the country in the first place. This debate is on the granting of welfare benefits to polygamous families once they're here (or there, in this case). My view if I were living in the UK would be as follows: If you want to Have it Your Way, go to Burger King, but this is a country with pre-established laws. It's not too much to ask for people to only have one spouse, but even if it is, it is too much to ask the state to suppport one's lifestyle, especially when it is not sanctioned by state laws (bigamy is illegal). In other words, forget it. Perhaps there are other places in the world that give welfare benefits for multiple sponses. If that's the case, then arrivederci.
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posted 05 February 2008 02:16 PM
The law in China governs births, not sheer existence; it is not illegal for people to live with more than one child. Just to bear more than one child....as if that were really a comparable example. Likewise "treating both men & women the same" -- there aren't any polyandrous cultures; polygamy, practically, is polygyny. Bigamy in the UK is a crime with a 7-year maximum. But depending -- practically -- on your ethnic background, you will not only be able to get away with it, you'll be subsidised (and the "you" is the man), under this law. If criminalising bigamy is acceptable, then subsidising polygamy isn't; and vice versa. Unless, of course, multiculturalism includes distinguishing among people according to their ethnic background even for criminal-law purposes...which, yeah, I can see pissing people off, and not just Telegraph readers.
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posted 05 February 2008 02:23 PM
quote: The law in China governs births, not sheer existence; it is not illegal for people to live with more than one child.
My point exactly. Just as the Chinese law governs birthing there, the U.K. law governs marriage in the U.K., not polygyny there. I don't favour it but people (in this case, women) shouldn't be denied critical living entitlements, i.e. put in a state of illegality, simply for having arrived from countries where simultaneous marriages were authorized. If your family is allowed in, it should be truly in, with full entitlement for all members. Here in Canada, serial polygamy is allowed. What if some ultra-Catholic country decided you can't be allowed any entitlement there if you have remarried? (Interesting how these arcane debates would not happen if everyone was recognized a decent living wage, without any morality cop deciding whether you're worthy of feeding yourself.)[ 05 February 2008: Message edited by: martin dufresne ]
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adam stratton
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posted 05 February 2008 07:38 PM
quote: Once a child comes in to this world, they have rights to certain things in a civilized society. -Fidel
Well, Their society -unlike yours- is uncivilized. But we are doing our best to civilize them, in Afghanistan, Iraq, Somalia, (soon Iran and Syria), besides these lands that voluntarily let us in to civilize them, like Egypt, Saudi Arabia, Kuwait, Jordan etc..
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posted 05 February 2008 08:06 PM
quote: Originally posted by adam stratton: Well, Their society -unlike yours- is uncivilized. But we are doing our best to civilize them, in Afghanistan, Iraq, Somalia, (soon Iran and Syria), besides these lands that voluntarily let us in to civilize them, like Egypt, Saudi Arabia, Kuwait, Jordan etc..
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posted 05 February 2008 08:54 PM
quote: Originally posted by adam stratton:
Well, Their society -unlike yours- is uncivilized. But we are doing our best to civilize them, in Afghanistan, Iraq, Somalia, (soon Iran and Syria), besides these lands that voluntarily let us in to civilize them, like Egypt, Saudi Arabia, Kuwait, Jordan etc..
Shouldn't we civilize ourselves before we preach to others?
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posted 05 February 2008 08:55 PM
quote: Originally posted by remind: K, thanks Adam, I was sure I had missed something but had not realized what it was. Wonder what he meant by that, tongue in cheek, or whether it is just a internalized framework that should not exist. Lots of weird shit here today, feel like I warped into FD in some threads.
Twilight Zone for sure. I'm Bafflegabbed.
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posted 06 February 2008 04:34 AM
quote: Originally posted by Wilf Day:
Agreed, but that's not the way it works in Ontario if you're disabled. We give the disabled much higher social benefits than those who are merely in need. (I guess the disabled are more deserving, plus the rest of them are being given a stronger incentive to take a job -- any job.) So a spouse or partner wants to get on their disabled partner's budget, not get benefits in their own name. More money, which they obviously need badly.
Different provisions are available for the disabled through a program called In Unison, which essentially seperates daily living needs from requirements associated with the disability. In Unison
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adam stratton
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posted 06 February 2008 05:04 AM
quote: I think he was being sarcastic. For future reference, adam stratton, that's why ironic racism isn't okay on babble. Too easy to misunderstand. -Michelle
Yes I was, Michelle. Next time I will express myself without resorting to ironic racism. Thanks
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posted 06 February 2008 05:17 AM
quote: Different provisions are available for the disabled through a program called In Unison, which essentially seperates daily living needs from requirements associated with the disability. -slumberjack
Right. (And you have backed it up with the link). This disparity of allowances between disabled and non-disabled poor is an antiquated -and nowadays- discriminatory approach. There has been calls to provide the non-disabled with the same amount of benefits as the disabled and I cannot see why not.
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posted 06 February 2008 11:09 AM
I would 'beg to differ' that the disabled, at least in Ontario, have an adequate standard of living.As for those that "can work" vs those that are perceived to not to be able to work....the line is blurry. When you have an Social Services department that has a standard "denied" form for all applicants wishing to go from Ontario Works to ODSP, then you set the system up for failure. When the disabled are disabled for mental illness reasons, there are tons of judgemental moments, by the public, as to why these "physically" able bodied people can't work. When you have women who's ex husband's drag them through court for years over child support, property and other divorce related issues, it's hard to find a job that will allow you time to deal with the court dates and the stress. When we have enough day care spaces and 24 hour day care then we can possibly, perhaps, begin to contemplate suggesting that perhaps there is a small population of Ontario Works clients who are "milking" the system.
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posted 06 February 2008 11:23 AM
quote: Originally posted by adam stratton:
Well, Their society -unlike yours- is uncivilized. But we are doing our best to civilize them, in Afghanistan, Iraq, Somalia, (soon Iran and Syria), besides these lands that voluntarily let us in to civilize them, like Egypt, Saudi Arabia, Kuwait, Jordan etc..
"No matter how paranoid or conspiracy-minded you are, what the government is actually doing is worse than you can imagine" -- William Blum, "Rogue State: A Guide to the World's Only Superpower"
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posted 06 February 2008 11:27 AM
quote: Disabled people CANNOT work. there is no reason why they shouldn't enjoy a reasonable standard of living. Others can work. They just don't. There's no reason why they shold enjoy the same standard. J. Arthur
Your premise is based on who can or cannot work. Your logic seems to be that those who can work should receive less because they can work but they are too lazy. Therefore we have to punish them. Does one's ability to work make him/her less hungry than a disabled person? less needy of sheltering their children? People have the same needs. For the disabled, there are special provisions. As simple as that. Now tell me, J. Arthur, what is the difference, aside from this premise of yours that because they can work and are too lazy to do so, we have to punish them. Isn't that what you are saying ? [ 06 February 2008: Message edited by: adam stratton ]
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posted 06 February 2008 11:37 AM
quote: Originally posted by adam stratton:
Does one's ability to work make him/her less hungry than a disabled person? less needy of sheltering their children?
There aren't enough jobs to go around. Nobel economists have admitted this much, that unemployment is a game of musical chairs. And conservative work for welfare programs of the 1990's were basically a failed experiment. Look it up. Besides, if everyone in the world were to go to work, making plastic widgets and increasing work consumption at western levels, we would strip our resources bare in nothing flat and choke on the pollution. Globalization of "this" - your civilized western society - was a colossal cold war lie, and scientists around the world will tell you the same thing.
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posted 06 February 2008 12:39 PM
quote: Originally posted by J. Arthur: I agree with you -- some sort of volunteer works should be mandatory for employable people receiving government benefits. There should be training available also. But there should not be an option to do nothing.
That would be Workfare, and perhaps if they got paid minimum wage for the time, were protected with Workers Compensation for on the job accidents, and the time contributed to EI eligibility..... .....and day care was provided, along with transportation...... .....and if those taking advantage actually had to create a real job after x amount of training....
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posted 06 February 2008 12:44 PM
quote: I agree with you -- some sort of volunteer works should be mandatory for employable people receiving government benefits. There should be training available also. But there should not be an option to do nothing. J. Arthur
You didn't get it, J. Besides, do you listen to what you are saying? Volunteer mandatory work? Make up your mind, Is it mandatory or volunteer ?
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posted 06 February 2008 01:02 PM
quote: Originally posted by J. Arthur: You seem to be quite fascinated with me and I'm not sure why. Wherever I go, there we are...
Because I am an NDP'er and when you came on this board you claimed to be one as well.And then you post this crap that is right wing drivel. Sure lets force poor people to work for free. That's usually called indentured servitude something no progressive person would be advocating. Offering a person a hand up with real services is a fine idea it is the fucking big stick you keep wanting to beat people over the head with that is the problem. Mandatory work for welfare is slavery given that welfare rates don't even cover the cost of housing and food in the Lower Mainland. Admit that you are a Gordo Liberal or something else other than a New Democrat.
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posted 06 February 2008 01:06 PM
quote: Originally posted by J. Arthur: Nobody is forcing anyone to work. Where did I say anyone was forced to work.People should be quite free not to work IMO.
Absolutely, just as people should be free to die, homeless and alone, in the streets. Wait a second, that's already happening.... Hooray for freedom and democracy!
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J. Arthur
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posted 06 February 2008 01:36 PM
Thanks Fidel. You do know that I was saying that I did not support giving public money to the Air Canada Centre, right?! Those bastards can starve all they want Not sure what this has to do with the UK, multiple wives, or multiple welfare benefits for same. I have made up my mind, however, that I am going back to the UK, but first I am going to marry 15 wives. Applications accepted here. [ 06 February 2008: Message edited by: J. Arthur ]
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posted 06 February 2008 01:56 PM
quote: Originally posted by kropotkin1951: Yes we live in a patriarchal society and it isn't going to disappear anytime soon
I so do not know what to say to this...
quote: I was speaking from a merely philosophical viewpoint because I wonder what is the inherent moral wrong. If three women want to cohabit as a family unit do you think this is somehow inherently wrong? Their combined resources might allow them to overcome some of society's gender barriers or at least give them a combined income large enough to raise a family.
Philosophical?And why do 3 women who cohabit together to have a combined income need a male put into the equation? Answer they don't. Your example has nothing to do with polygamy, I would sugesst that polygamy today is a result of patriarchy and would not exist if patriarchy did not. [ 06 February 2008: Message edited by: remind ]
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posted 06 February 2008 04:05 PM
Uh, who decides what's legal in, say, Pakistan? You on their side?In Papua New Guinea polygamy is tolerated, as customary, and is intensely resented by the few politically vocal women. It seems to be one of those things that work out exactly as you'd think...imagine being the first wife of a man who has got rich enough (usually through politics) to buy another wife, and is the kind of man who would do that. Almost all female-female domestic violence is among wives of the same man. ("Buy"? That's the term Papua New Guineans use. And it has the connotations you would think it has.) Some customs really are less good -- even "less civilised"! -- than others, and polygamy is one of them. However, I guess I'd have an open mind on how it might work in Canada, if it were overt and involved women who actually had a choice how to live.
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posted 06 February 2008 04:11 PM
J. Arthur, you're poor bashing. You've been doing a lot of that since you've got here. I really don't think you get the notion of "progressive" as we define it in our policy statement.There have been complaints, but I've been considering some sort of intervention for a while anyway. Anyway, you're history. I have a sense this isn't the first time.
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posted 06 February 2008 08:26 PM
I'm not down with polygamy either. And the Brits have not said, it's a-okay to run out and grab another wife to keep the streak going. That's still illegal. But, as I was saying before, the kids are there and present and accounted for in the UK. So now what? Should the Brits deny them their rights as children? Or, should the polygamists and their children be sent back to the wonderful country of origin? You know, those countries where the US shadow gov, Brits and Saudi friends waged anticommunist jihad in the 1980's-90's? Just sayin' [ 06 February 2008: Message edited by: Fidel ]
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posted 07 February 2008 02:47 PM
Child support is separate; the obligations of parents to children do not depend on marriage to each other. And state support of individuals generally is separate -- entitlement to school, medical care, unemployment insurance, etc, doesn't depend on the civil status of one's parents either.This issue is only about whether the state treats multiple marriages, for the purpose of benefits, as legitimate, including the bit of giving the "wives" benefits to the husband. To do that while outlawing bigamy (not just bigamous weddings) is obviously incoherent. So -- is that OK? (Coherence is not the priority of law, after all.) If it isn't, which should go: the criminalisation of polygamy or this proposed benefits scheme?
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posted 07 February 2008 02:56 PM
quote: Originally posted by Boarsbreath: This issue is only about whether the state treats multiple marriages, for the purpose of benefits, as legitimate, including the bit of giving the "wives" benefits to the husband. To do that while outlawing bigamy (not just bigamous weddings) is obviously incoherent.
I think it would be incoherent if British labour governments had disallowed child support for multiple other children of bad parents ie. second or third marriages of wife-abusing, child-abusing, substance-abusing, or parents who were derelict of family obligations, that sort of thing. But they don't, and I don't believe Canada does either. These are children we're talking about. They have basic rights as per the UN declaration of child rights which Canada signed on to decades ago and are still not upholding like some other countries are doing successfully.
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posted 07 February 2008 03:04 PM
If you "grandfather" the multiple wives; that is, if you disallow polygamy here but allow men who married multiple wives elsewhere to claim more benefits here, then you are leaving a very large loophole, by which men living here can go to a country that permits polygamy, marry a bunch of women, and bring them back here.One of my workmates has multiple wives. He brought the eldest one here, and every summer goes to visit the others, sometimes impregnating them. Though he needn't travel so far. Polygamist communities in the US trade teenage girls over the Canada-US border, bringing them to and from Bountiful, BC.
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posted 07 February 2008 04:50 PM
quote: Exactly. It's like applying Sharia Law to marriage or divorce issues, or not allowing Jewish men to deny their wife a get. If these people qualify to come here, they should abide by Canadian law. If they can't, they should find some theocracy more suited to their tastes. -unionist
Thought this topic deserves its own thread, I her take the liberty of commenting.
Whatever religious contract people engage into, it is their private business. We do have human rights and other laws that supercede such contracts, as the case for all private contracts: If they offend an existing law, they are deemed nil and without effect. If one is against religion, per se, that is another story. Mind you, I am not religious, not even practising any religion. Dos not mean that I expect people to be like me. That is part of Canadian divrsity.
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posted 07 February 2008 05:15 PM
quote: Originally posted by Sineed: If you "grandfather" the multiple wives; that is, if you disallow polygamy here but allow men who married multiple wives elsewhere to claim more benefits here, then you are leaving a very large loophole, by which men living here can go to a country that permits polygamy, marry a bunch of women, and bring them back here, BC.
Well, Canadians aren't having enough kids to replace the people we have. And after twelve years of Liberal government failure to perform even their colonial administrative duties properly, the feds were stuck with several hundred thousand unprocessed immigration applications. Add to this the fact that Central Asia and several other nations have been held back from progress by several attempts to colonize and install puppet governments by the western world in the latter half of the last century through to the present day. It will take time to undo the damage done by Britain and our largest trading partner propping up theocratic feudalism and militant Islam in countries like Pakistan and Afghanistan, and inadvertently through meddling in Iran and Iraq since the 1950's. What comes around goes around. Just think of the world as one large family. Declaration of the Rights of the Child I can't blame the children.
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posted 07 February 2008 05:31 PM
quote: I disagree with providing additional support, of any type, for an additional spouse, and I would be up in arms if such a thing was attempted here. Remind
So said those who opposed paying Canada pension to same sex survivor. Simply because they do not like the "arrangement".
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posted 07 February 2008 05:43 PM
quote: Originally posted by adam stratton:
So said those who opposed paying Canada pension to same sex survivor. Simply because they do not like the "arrangement".
You are welcome to lobby for a change in legislation whereby you can marry up to 12,000 spouses of any gender and have them qualify for survivor benefits. Let me know how you make out.
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posted 07 February 2008 06:14 PM
quote: apples to oranges, we are talking additional spouses here not same sex Equality Rights. -Remind
We are talking oppositions to marital arrangements -whether same sex or different genders. Besides having a feminist call for deprivation of women, who may well be victims themselves. A far cry from Remind who supports a woman for presidency of the USA, simply because she is a woman. [ 07 February 2008: Message edited by: adam stratton ]
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posted 07 February 2008 06:18 PM
quote: Originally posted by adam stratton:
We are talking oppositions to marital arrangements -whether same sex or different genders. Besides having a feminist call for deprivation of women, who may well be victims themselves. A far cry from Remind who supports a woman for presidency of the USA, simply because she is a woman. [ 07 February 2008: Message edited by: adam stratton ]
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posted 07 February 2008 06:22 PM
quote: Originally posted by adam stratton:
We are talking oppositions to marital arrangements -whether same sex or different genders.
Canadian law doesn't recognize polygamous unions - and I support that law. I also support not treating "spouses" in polygamous "arrangements" as spouses for any legal purposes (pension, welfare, benefit plans, etc.). Canadian law did not recognize same-sex marriages before 2005, and I opposed that law. I (and many others in the union movement) fought for same-sex benefits in collective agreements before either the courts or the legislators recognized them. Call me bigoted and Eurocentric, but I have a strong feeling that polygamous relationships are not the finest expression of women's emancipation. In any event, I'll be having a word with my MP if he ever is deranged enough to support changing that law. ETA: Of course, the fact remains that any person who individually meets Canada's entry requirements, either as an immigrant or a refugee, must of course be treated with full equality for all purposes (including social welfare if need be). But that's a separate issue. [ 07 February 2008: Message edited by: unionist ]
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posted 07 February 2008 06:22 PM
Did you read the article slumberjack in respect to responding to just the OP? There are NO state sanctions.According to Islamic law a husband cannot have more wives than he can afford to support in the first place. Moreover, there could be 5 adults living in the house, surely at least one of the 5 adults can find work of some sort? I disagree completely with the whole thing, right from polygamy all the way up.
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posted 07 February 2008 06:28 PM
quote: Originally posted by adam stratton: We are talking oppositions to marital arrangements -whether same sex or different genders.
Nope quote: Besides having a feminist call for deprivation of women, who may well be victims themselves. A far cry from Remind who supports a woman for presidency of the USA, simply because she is a woman.
I am not calling for the deprivation of women. I am stating a polygamous relationship should not be recognized in any way shape or form. And I have never supported Hilary Clinton as a matter of fact. So please do stop putting beliefs of mine in where you have not a fucking clue.
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posted 07 February 2008 06:48 PM
quote: Originally posted by Slumberjack:
Does this mean you wouldn't support a payment made out to the individual woman, thereby not necessarily reflecting any 'spousal arrangement?'
I don't understand your question. What kind of payment are you talking about, and to which "individual woman"? I thought my statement was extremely clear. If you want to posit a particular hypothetical example, go ahead and describe it and I'll try to respond.
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posted 07 February 2008 06:51 PM
quote: I am not calling for the deprivation of women. I am stating a polygamous relationship should not be recognized in any way shape or form. -Remind
Here is what you wrote:
quote: I disagree with providing additional support, of any type, for an additional spouse, and I would be up in arms if such a thing was attempted here. -Remind
additional spouses -in the context we are discussing- are women. You disagree with additional support. quote: And I have never supported Hilary Clinton as a matter of fact. So please do stop putting beliefs of mine in where you have not a fucking clue. -Remind
I apologize. As for the vulgarity, if you feel that it ads some umph to your narrative or eloquence to your discourse, please be my guest!
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posted 07 February 2008 07:02 PM
quote: Originally posted by unionist:
I don't understand your question. What kind of payment are you talking about, and to which "individual woman"? I thought my statement was extremely clear. If you want to posit a particular hypothetical example, go ahead and describe it and I'll try to respond.
Ideally, we'd look at a scenario as Remind described, seperate bank account, seperate residence etc...however these women most likely would feel trapped, unable or unwilling to leave, unless the appropriate community support apparatus could be available to provide information, and more importantly, a viable way out, with the protection of law. Until that can occur, and it undoubtably could take some time, couldn't there be some interim support while the situation is bought in line with societal standards? If there wasn't any provision for this, the woman would be left to depend even more on the 'husband' and would never have access to the type of councelling that could be provided if she was in the system as a recipient.
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posted 07 February 2008 07:08 PM
I don't understand your scenario. What's wrong with just describing it?Who are these women? Did they enter Canada legally as individual applicants? Are they refugees or immigrants or what? If they're legal, they are entitled to the same support (no more or less) as any other entrant. If they are in a polygamous relationship, they of course would be treated as unmarried. If they are sharing resources in a way that the law cares about, they should be treated like any people who are sharing resources that the law cares about. Meanwhile, they (all members of this polygamous clan) should be calmly told what the laws of Canada are and the penalties for violating them. [ 07 February 2008: Message edited by: unionist ]
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