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J. Arthur
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posted 04 February 2008 02:36 PM      Profile for J. Arthur     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post
More proof that the Labour Party might, just might, not win the next election:

Multiple wives mean multiple benefits

I think we can all agree that this is ridiculous. What's more, it just whips up anger towards the people who this policy is "helping" not to mention make everyone pissed off at the Labour Party.

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posted 04 February 2008 03:11 PM      Profile for Robo     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post
quote:
Originally posted by J. Arthur:
What's more, it just whips up anger towards the people ...

Wow. A story in the Telegraph (aka the Torygraph) is whipping up anger against the Labour Party. Whodathunk?


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J. Arthur
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posted 04 February 2008 03:16 PM      Profile for J. Arthur     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post
Yeah, I know. But they have really provided the fodder in this instance. Like seriously, what will they think of next?!
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posted 04 February 2008 03:18 PM      Profile for martin dufresne   Author's Homepage     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post
So many posts, so many red flags...
Here is at least one Babbler that doesn't agree with your charge, J.Arthur.
The main sleight-of-hand of this article is of course the title, practically yelling at us that all the money (all of those 33 pounds per woman) will go to the husband, motivation to marry even more and only divide among them for food the envelope of *his* welfare cheque, we are left to presume...
The issue is should adult female members of a polygamous family that immigrates to the U.K. be forever denied benefits and indeed citizenship because the law is different there than in the country where they married? (Because that is the only situation addressed by the policy.)
I don't think they should. But, yes, the Right will rail, as it does here and wherever basic entitlements are acknowledged in "their" case...

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posted 04 February 2008 03:21 PM      Profile for adam stratton        Edit/Delete Post
What do you (and others who maybe 'ouraged') suggest, J. Arthur? Let them starve now that they are in the UK?

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J. Arthur
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posted 04 February 2008 03:30 PM      Profile for J. Arthur     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post
No, I think the curren policy based on the laws of the country (one wife only, please) is a good model to apply here. You can go on welfare and hey, the first wife gets it too, but after that, I mean like seriously...

I would think that one might look into these things anyway before emigrating to the UK... "Hmm, England, looks nice, kind of rainy but that's ok...hold up...wait a minute... one wife only... now that's just bullshit man... I'm moving to France instead!"


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I think the law should be made clear BEFORE a polygamist moves here. He should not be allowed to bring more than one wife, and personally, I'd deny him immigration status for that reason.

The sticky point is refugee status, as it covers people in danger. (Including the chattel wives).

But if the co-wives were accepted, THEY should not be denied benefits.

This is one of those entangled cased for feminist anti-racism activists...


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posted 04 February 2008 03:39 PM      Profile for martin dufresne   Author's Homepage     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post
That kind of selective policy toward religions we Xtians disagree with has a rather recent and dishonourable past. Have you seen "Ship of fools"? Remember Mackenzie King's injunctions against letting Jews in during and after WW2? What next? Intimate examinations by immigration officials to verify presence of clitorises?
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He should not be allowed to bring more than one wife, and personally, I'd deny him immigration status for that reason.
40 pounds of baggage, one wife maximum & not more than 100 ml of liquid in cabin baggage... this is insane.
Interesting how this whole issue is being framed around him, as strictly a matter of *his* entitlement, when it is the reverse that is true here. Why not see the women as "bringing him in", especially since they outnumber him...

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It is not insane. It is a matter of denying precedents that reduce women precisely to the status of chattel and baggage. Fuck, we have fought that long enough. Some "male feminist" you are.

Edited to add: I am not a Christian. I am an enemy of all patriarchal religion.

And of course I think that Muslims, Jews and even Christians (horrid cat-hating religion) should be entitled to refugee status in cases of danger.

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This is also a tangled issue for people who believe that consenting adults should be able to enter into sexual relations and familial relations of their choice.

I am not certain where I stand on the issues of polygamy, polyandry, and polyamory, from a legal point of view. There are issues besides whether or not I should be allowed two husbands simultaneously, or one husband and one wife simultaneously. For example, if one member of a polyamorous foursome of two men and two women, for example, has a job with health benefits, should all three of her partners get spousal benefits?

By the way, in Canadian law, "Every one who practises or enters into any kind of conjugal union with more than one person at the same time is guilty of an indictable offence and liable to imprisonment for a term not exceeding five years." (Criminal Code, Section 293, 1 (a) (ii).) So it would be illegal for a married person to maintain a long-term affair. For example, Francois Mitterand would have been a criminal by Canadian law. Hmmm.


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When it's consenting adults, it's all good, but when you're talking polygamy, the sorts of societies that have it tend to be patriarchal in the extreme. Think fundamentalist Mormons and the forced marriages of teenaged girls to middle-aged men to be their "plural" wives.

Polyamorous relationships, open marriages, swinging--none of those my cup of tea, and none of my business if people are into it. But polygamy is about turning women into baby machines for males who wish to prove their fertility to the community.


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posted 04 February 2008 05:45 PM      Profile for Martha (but not Stewart)     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post
quote:
Originally posted by Sineed:
When it's consenting adults, it's all good, but when you're talking polygamy, the sorts of societies that have it tend to be patriarchal in the extreme.

Some monogamous societies are patriarchal in the extreme as well.

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Originally posted by Sineed:
Think fundamentalist Mormons and the forced marriages of teenaged girls to middle-aged men to be their "plural" wives.

I can assure you, regardless of my attitudes towards various forms of polyamory (including polyandry and polygamy), I am 100% against forced marriages of either adults or teenagers.

quote:
Originally posted by Sineed:
Polyamorous relationships, open marriages, swinging--none of those my cup of tea, and none of my business if people are into it. But polygamy is about turning women into baby machines for males who wish to prove their fertility to the community.

My worry is this: what kind of legal regime are you going to put in place to legalize "acceptable" polyamory while keeping patriarchal polyamory legal?

Please note: Section 293, 1 (a) (ii) of the Canadian Criminal Code quite clearly makes it illegal, indeed criminal, to be in a committed polyamorous relationship.


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posted 04 February 2008 07:34 PM      Profile for adam stratton        Edit/Delete Post
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When it's consenting adults, it's all good, but when you're talking polygamy, the sorts of societies that have it tend to be patriarchal in the extreme. Sineed


If you are talking about Islam (which is most likely) ..

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...[It has to be added that] polygamy in Islam is a matter of mutual consent. No one can force a woman to marry a married man. Besides, the wife has the right to stipulate that her husband must not marry any other woman as a second wife. 74 The Bible, on the other hand, sometimes resorts to forcible polygamy. A childless widow must marry her husband's brother, even if he is already married (see the "Plight of Widows" section),regardless of her consent (Genesis 38:8-10).

It should be noted that in many Muslim societies today the practice of polygamy is rare since the gap between the numbers of both sexes is not huge. One can, safely, say that the rate of polygamous marriages in the Muslim world is much less than the rate of extramarital affairs in the West. In other words, men in the Muslim world today are far more strictly monogamous than men in the Western world.

Billy Graham, the eminent Christian evangelist has recognized this fact: "Christianity cannot compromise on the question of polygamy. If present-day Christianity cannot do so, it is to its own detriment. Islam has permitted polygamy as a solution to social ills and has allowed a certain degree of latitude to human nature but only within the strictly defined framework of the law. Christian countries make a great show of monogamy, but actually they practice polygamy. No one is unaware of the part mistresses play in Western society. In this respect Islam is a fundamentally honest religion, and permits a Muslim to marry a second wife if he must, but strictly forbids all clandestine amatory associations in order to safeguard the moral probity of the community." 75

It is of interest to note that many, non-Muslim as well as Muslim, countries in the world today have outlawed polygamy.



http://www.islamicity.com/mosque/w_islam/poly.htm

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Wilf Day
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posted 04 February 2008 07:42 PM      Profile for Wilf Day     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post
quote:
Originally posted by lagatta:
if the co-wives were accepted, THEY should not be denied benefits.

Nor spousal support:
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“spouse” means either of two persons who are married to each other

In the definition of “spouse”, a reference to marriage includes a marriage that is actually or potentially polygamous, if it was celebrated in a jurisdiction whose system of law recognizes it as valid.

Sec. 30: Every spouse has an obligation to provide support for himself or herself and for the other spouse, in accordance with need, to the extent that he or she is capable of doing so.



By the way, a similar problem has been sitting on Canada Pension Plan desks for years. A common-law spouse who has lived with a partner for more than one year is entitled to survivor benefits. So is the legal spouse. Lots of guys die leaving two widows.

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While it is useful to cite the definition of 'spouse' in the current version Family Law Act, it is important to note that this definition could be changed: indeed, the definition was changed recently to include same sex spouses.
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It is not insane. It is a matter of denying precedents that reduce women precisely to the status of chattel and baggage. Fuck, we have fought that long enough. Some "male feminist" you are.
No such thing IMO. I identify as pro-feminist and I assure you that many feminists disapprove of fighting patriarchy by disentitling women deemed oppressed in the religious systems we disapprove of (presumably in order to get at their husbands or imams).
It is up to each nation to legislate on these issues, but denying entitlements or even entry to women who have married in other countries and value/housework sharing systems than ours is plain unfair, and I am glad that simple justice has trumped a punish-the-"victim"-and-wash-our-hands-clean-of-the-whole-mess approach in the U.K.
I am sure that wealthy investors who arrive from Dubai or Saudi Arabia are not grilled about the number of their love interests.

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quote:
Originally posted by martin dufresne:
I identify as pro-feminist and I assure you that many feminists disapprove of fighting patriarchy by disentitling women deemed oppressed in the religious systems we disapprove of (presumably in order to get at their husbands or imams).


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Yes, stunning as it may seen, you won't have to search very far to find quite a lot of traces of principled feminist opposition to the French legislation that decreed young Muslim women would be barred from public schools if they insisted on wearing scarves. This was acknowledged at the time, by materialist feminists such as Christine Delphy, as a momentous mistake, with the State driving young women back under the rule of fathers, imams and a marginalized, integrist community, without a shred of understanding for the dynamics of these women's evolving choices in this matter.
Muslim women, of course, were hardly given any say in the matter.
Similar appropriation of "what's good for them" from our White/objective liberal perspective happens here too all the time - see Afro-centric Toronto School thread and the second-guessing of FN decisions.

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Yeah, Martin, no one but you should ever tell anyone else how things ought to be....

This from the so-called "feminist" who's pissed off a fair percentage of women on this board by telling them "what's good for them".

It's at least good for comic relief.


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But I also know many leftist, anti-racist feminists who approve of the headscarf law, including - and I'd say most vehemently including, women I know of Maghrebi, West African and Middle Eastern origins in France. It is a big debate on the left, and within anti-racist associations and their milieu.

Certainly agree that Christianity is hypocritical. I'm no fan of that religion either.


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quote:
Originally posted by lagatta:
But I also know many leftist, anti-racist feminists who approve of the headscarf law,...

And I know 125,000 Turks who do as well.


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unionist, do you know those people personally? Have you visited Turkey or lived there? I'm talking about people I know personally in Paris, Lyon and elsewhere in France.

Not all those Turks are leftists by any means - the military were always enforcers of hardline secularism - and oppressive both of Islamists and the left. I do know some Turkish feminists who agree with the headscarf ban at universities though, although it does give them pause in terms of civil liberties. They agree with it mostly for reasons of personal safety, fearing what will happen to secular women if veiling becomes the norm.

I only know a few Turkish feminists though, met at events such as European Social Forums and the related feminist forum. Alas I have never been to Turkey - and Istanbul is a magnificent city.


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Originally posted by lagatta:
unionist, do you know those people personally? Have you visited Turkey or lived there? I'm talking about people I know personally in Paris, Lyon and elsewhere in France.

No, I don't. I just wanted to note that tens of thousands of women demonstrated, in a predominantly Muslim country, against loosening restriction of the hijab. Why did they do that? Because they are right-wing extremists? Because they enjoy persecuting what you call "Islamists" and the "left"? Not according to the reading I've done. They're demonstrating because they're terrified of a return to religious dictatorship and what it will mean for their status as women.

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Not all those Turks are leftists by any means - the military were always enforcers of hardline secularism - and oppressive both of Islamists and the left.

"Hardline secularism"? Well, whatever, it replaced the Ottoman empire, that hardline non-secular state which subjugated millions beyond its borders and converted people by force and committed genocide. I'll take "hardline secularism" over the alternative any day of the week.

By the way, oppression of leftists is not a feature of secularism, hard or soft.


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Oh, I'm very much a secularist as well, just saying that secularist regimes are not necessarily democratic. Theocratic regimes never are, by their very nature.

Obviously reading up (quickly - lots of work) on the timeline concerning the Ottoman Empire, the Young Turk Revolution and the Armenian Genocide...

It should be remembered that Muslim rule was overall far more tolerant and less cruel to religious minorities than Christendom was, but those were two religion-based systems and civilisations.

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Originally posted by unionist:
[QB]I just wanted to note that tens of thousands of women demonstrated, in a predominantly Muslim country, against loosening restriction of the hijab. .... They're demonstrating because they're terrified of a return to religious dictatorship and what it will mean for their status as women.[QB]

Wearing a hijab is a mode of self-expression. There are, arguably, circumstances under which it is appropriate to use the force of law to restrict freedom of expression.

But let us be clear about what these tens of thousands of women are demonstrating against: they are demonstrating against the loosening of restrictions on the freedom of expression. They are demonstrating against the freedom of expression.


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quote:
Originally posted by Martha (but not Stewart):
But let us be clear about what these tens of thousands of women are demonstrating against: they are demonstrating against the loosening of restrictions on the freedom of expression. They are demonstrating against the freedom of expression.

Why do you think they are doing that?


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Do we really need another hijab discussion? Can we get back to the polygamy?

I still say polygamy can't be lumped in with other polyamorous relationships. Basically polygamy is about one man living a frat boy's dream, or perhaps living like a Paleolithic man, spreading his seed far and wide, getting all the sex he wants. Unless his plural wives are bisexual, they'd be sexually deprived most of the time.

I recommend Under the Banner of Heaven, by Jon Krakauer, a book that examines the Latter Day Saints church, presenting a devastating portrayal of how polygamy oppresses women.


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quote:
Originally posted by Sineed:
polygamy oppresses women.

Of that, I have no doubt.

But does that mean a Canadian immigrant with several wives should choose one to come with him, while abandoning the others? And if he does come with more than one wife, should we not recognize the rights of all of them?


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quote:
Originally posted by Wilf Day:
But does that mean a Canadian immigrant with several wives should choose one to come with him, while abandoning the others? And if he does come with more than one wife, should we not recognize the rights of all of them?

I think lagatta answered this in a definitive way - at least to my taste!

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I think the law should be made clear BEFORE a polygamist moves here. He should not be allowed to bring more than one wife, and personally, I'd deny him immigration status for that reason.

The sticky point is refugee status, as it covers people in danger. (Including the chattel wives).

But if the co-wives were accepted, THEY should not be denied benefits.



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Originally posted by unionist:
He should not be allowed to bring more than one wife.

Who is bringing whom? Maybe one of his wives is more qualified than him.

And if two of them are qualified as immigrants, should one of them be denied permission on the grounds of marital status? Which one?


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quote:
Originally posted by Wilf Day:

Who is bringing whom? Maybe one of his wives is more qualified than him.

Women and men should be subject to identical criteria.

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And if two of them are qualified as immigrants, should one of them be denied permission on the grounds of marital status? Which one?

If both are qualified, both should be admitted - obviously. I interpreted lagatta's proscription as meaning that we should not admit the male if he insists on the Canadian state recognizing his multiple wives.


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It's one thing to debate allowing such people into the country in the first place.

This debate is on the granting of welfare benefits to polygamous families once they're here (or there, in this case).

My view if I were living in the UK would be as follows: If you want to Have it Your Way, go to Burger King, but this is a country with pre-established laws. It's not too much to ask for people to only have one spouse, but even if it is, it is too much to ask the state to suppport one's lifestyle, especially when it is not sanctioned by state laws (bigamy is illegal). In other words, forget it. Perhaps there are other places in the world that give welfare benefits for multiple sponses. If that's the case, then arrivederci.


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By that standard, if you were to emigrate to China with three kids, the State would be entitled to kill two once you're settled...
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No, but notwhtistanding that, I am not planning to move to China because the government and laws are not compatible with the way I want to live my life. What's more, I wouldn't expect them to change to accommodate my wishes.
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The law in China governs births, not sheer existence; it is not illegal for people to live with more than one child. Just to bear more than one child.

...as if that were really a comparable example. Likewise "treating both men & women the same" -- there aren't any polyandrous cultures; polygamy, practically, is polygyny.

Bigamy in the UK is a crime with a 7-year maximum. But depending -- practically -- on your ethnic background, you will not only be able to get away with it, you'll be subsidised (and the "you" is the man), under this law. If criminalising bigamy is acceptable, then subsidising polygamy isn't; and vice versa.

Unless, of course, multiculturalism includes distinguishing among people according to their ethnic background even for criminal-law purposes...which, yeah, I can see pissing people off, and not just Telegraph readers.


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The law in China governs births, not sheer existence; it is not illegal for people to live with more than one child.
My point exactly. Just as the Chinese law governs birthing there, the U.K. law governs marriage in the U.K., not polygyny there. I don't favour it but people (in this case, women) shouldn't be denied critical living entitlements, i.e. put in a state of illegality, simply for having arrived from countries where simultaneous marriages were authorized. If your family is allowed in, it should be truly in, with full entitlement for all members.
Here in Canada, serial polygamy is allowed. What if some ultra-Catholic country decided you can't be allowed any entitlement there if you have remarried?
(Interesting how these arcane debates would not happen if everyone was recognized a decent living wage, without any morality cop deciding whether you're worthy of feeding yourself.)

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Subsidize them seperately within the same household, provide a standard living allowance for each individual, in each individual's name, not just to the man with the wives. Above any other consideration regarding polygamy, provision for the basic needs per person should be an overiding factor.
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Originally posted by Slumberjack:
Subsidize them seperately within the same household, provide a standard living allowance for each individual, in each individual's name, not just to the man with the wives.

Agreed, but that's not the way it works in Ontario if you're disabled. We give the disabled much higher social benefits than those who are merely in need. (I guess the disabled are more deserving, plus the rest of them are being given a stronger incentive to take a job -- any job.)

So a spouse or partner wants to get on their disabled partner's budget, not get benefits in their own name. More money, which they obviously need badly.


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1. What were the second and third wives thinking ?

2. Once a child comes in to this world, they have rights to certain things in a civilized society.


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Once a child comes in to this world, they have rights to certain things in a civilized society. -Fidel

Well, Their society -unlike yours- is uncivilized. But we are doing our best to civilize them, in Afghanistan, Iraq, Somalia, (soon Iran and Syria), besides these lands that voluntarily let us in to civilize them, like Egypt, Saudi Arabia, Kuwait, Jordan etc..


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So many peasants, so little time, bombs, soldiers...
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Originally posted by adam stratton:
Well, Their society -unlike yours- is uncivilized. But we are doing our best to civilize them, in Afghanistan, Iraq, Somalia, (soon Iran and Syria), besides these lands that voluntarily let us in to civilize them, like Egypt, Saudi Arabia, Kuwait, Jordan etc..


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-Remind

Civilized versus uncivilized (new euphemism for savage): This is the language of the right wing white ethno-centric colonialist narrative. So hashed by Fox News -among others- that our paragon of socialism used it and our paragon of feminism did not notice anything wrong with it.


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K, thanks Adam, I was sure I had missed something but had not realized what it was. Wonder what he meant by that, tongue in cheek, or whether it is just a internalized framework that should not exist.


Lots of weird shit here today, feel like I warped into FD in some threads.


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Originally posted by adam stratton:

Well, Their society -unlike yours- is uncivilized. But we are doing our best to civilize them, in Afghanistan, Iraq, Somalia, (soon Iran and Syria), besides these lands that voluntarily let us in to civilize them, like Egypt, Saudi Arabia, Kuwait, Jordan etc..


Shouldn't we civilize ourselves before we preach to others?


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Originally posted by remind:
K, thanks Adam, I was sure I had missed something but had not realized what it was. Wonder what he meant by that, tongue in cheek, or whether it is just a internalized framework that should not exist.


Lots of weird shit here today, feel like I warped into FD in some threads.



Twilight Zone for sure. I'm Bafflegabbed.


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I think he was being sarcastic. For future reference, adam stratton, that's why ironic racism isn't okay on babble. Too easy to misunderstand.
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Originally posted by Wilf Day:

Agreed, but that's not the way it works in Ontario if you're disabled. We give the disabled much higher social benefits than those who are merely in need. (I guess the disabled are more deserving, plus the rest of them are being given a stronger incentive to take a job -- any job.)
So a spouse or partner wants to get on their disabled partner's budget, not get benefits in their own name. More money, which they obviously need badly.

Different provisions are available for the disabled through a program called In Unison, which essentially seperates daily living needs from requirements associated with the disability.

In Unison


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I think he was being sarcastic. For future reference, adam stratton, that's why ironic racism isn't okay on babble. Too easy to misunderstand. -Michelle

Yes I was, Michelle. Next time I will express myself without resorting to ironic racism.

Thanks


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Different provisions are available for the disabled through a program called In Unison, which essentially seperates daily living needs from requirements associated with the disability. -slumberjack

Right. (And you have backed it up with the link).
This disparity of allowances between disabled and non-disabled poor is an antiquated -and nowadays- discriminatory approach.

There has been calls to provide the non-disabled with the same amount of benefits as the disabled and I cannot see why not.


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Disabled people CANNOT work. there is no reason why they shouldn't enjoy a reasonable standard of living.

Others can work. They just don't. There's no reason why they shold enjoy the same standard.


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I would 'beg to differ' that the disabled, at least in Ontario, have an adequate standard of living.

As for those that "can work" vs those that are perceived to not to be able to work....the line is blurry.

When you have an Social Services department that has a standard "denied" form for all applicants wishing to go from Ontario Works to ODSP, then you set the system up for failure.

When the disabled are disabled for mental illness reasons, there are tons of judgemental moments, by the public, as to why these "physically" able bodied people can't work.

When you have women who's ex husband's drag them through court for years over child support, property and other divorce related issues, it's hard to find a job that will allow you time to deal with the court dates and the stress.

When we have enough day care spaces and 24 hour day care then we can possibly, perhaps, begin to contemplate suggesting that perhaps there is a small population of Ontario Works clients who are "milking" the system.


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quote:
Originally posted by adam stratton:

Well, Their society -unlike yours- is uncivilized. But we are doing our best to civilize them, in Afghanistan, Iraq, Somalia, (soon Iran and Syria), besides these lands that voluntarily let us in to civilize them, like Egypt, Saudi Arabia, Kuwait, Jordan etc..


"No matter how paranoid or conspiracy-minded you are, what the government is actually doing is worse than you can imagine" -- William Blum, "Rogue State: A Guide to the World's Only Superpower"


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Disabled people CANNOT work. there is no reason why they shouldn't enjoy a reasonable standard of living.
Others can work. They just don't. There's no reason why they shold enjoy the same standard. J. Arthur

Your premise is based on who can or cannot work. Your logic seems to be that those who can work should receive less because they can work but they are too lazy. Therefore we have to punish them.

Does one's ability to work make him/her less hungry than a disabled person? less needy of sheltering their children?

People have the same needs. For the disabled, there are special provisions. As simple as that.

Now tell me, J. Arthur, what is the difference, aside from this premise of yours that because they can work and are too lazy to do so, we have to punish them. Isn't that what you are saying ?

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posted 06 February 2008 11:29 AM      Profile for kropotkin1951   Author's Homepage     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post
quote:
Originally posted by J. Arthur:
Disabled people CANNOT work. there is no reason why they shouldn't enjoy a reasonable standard of living.

Others can work. They just don't. There's no reason why they shold enjoy the same standard.


Oh yes our resident BC NDP'er (like anyone would believe that after reading the contents of your posts) speaking up again with a solid poor bashing post. You are getting to be tiresome with your crap.

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Originally posted by rural - Francesca:
I would 'beg to differ' that the disabled, at least in Ontario, have an adequate standard of living.

It's too bad that they don't. They should.


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quote:
Originally posted by adam stratton:

Does one's ability to work make him/her less hungry than a disabled person? less needy of sheltering their children?


There aren't enough jobs to go around. Nobel economists have admitted this much, that unemployment is a game of musical chairs. And conservative work for welfare programs of the 1990's were basically a failed experiment. Look it up.

Besides, if everyone in the world were to go to work, making plastic widgets and increasing work consumption at western levels, we would strip our resources bare in nothing flat and choke on the pollution. Globalization of "this" - your civilized western society - was a colossal cold war lie, and scientists around the world will tell you the same thing.


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The volunteer contribution of those on Ontario Works, through their own work (not Workfare) is important.

I've had many of my agencies offer such information that the parents who volunteer in the schools etc, are these parents.

So it's not a question of lazy, it's a question of opportunity and resource


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I agree with you -- some sort of volunteer works should be mandatory for employable people receiving government benefits. There should be training available also. But there should not be an option to do nothing.
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quote:
Originally posted by J. Arthur:
I agree with you -- some sort of volunteer works should be mandatory for employable people receiving government benefits. There should be training available also. But there should not be an option to do nothing.
Fuck off with the poor bashing it is quite disgusting.

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What is wrong with providing opportunities or people to volunteer and gain job skills. I don't see a problem with this.

You seem to be quite fascinated with me and I'm not sure why. Wherever I go, there we are...


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quote:
Originally posted by J. Arthur:
I agree with you -- some sort of volunteer works should be mandatory for employable people receiving government benefits. There should be training available also. But there should not be an option to do nothing.

That would be Workfare, and perhaps if they got paid minimum wage for the time, were protected with Workers Compensation for on the job accidents, and the time contributed to EI eligibility.....

.....and day care was provided, along with transportation......

.....and if those taking advantage actually had to create a real job after x amount of training....


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That would be fine with me.
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I agree with you -- some sort of volunteer works should be mandatory for employable people receiving government benefits. There should be training available also. But there should not be an option to do nothing. J. Arthur

You didn't get it, J.

Besides, do you listen to what you are saying? Volunteer mandatory work? Make up your mind, Is it mandatory or volunteer ?


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Both.
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J.Arthur, you seem very concerned with the spending of public money and accountability. What do you think of private corporations getting public money, such as the building of the Air Canada Center in Toronto? Shouldn't these private corporations share their profits with the city? Our tax dollars paid for them, after all.
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I would support not giving them money in the first place. Public money should not go to this.
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quote:
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You seem to be quite fascinated with me and I'm not sure why. Wherever I go, there we are...
Because I am an NDP'er and when you came on this board you claimed to be one as well.

And then you post this crap that is right wing drivel. Sure lets force poor people to work for free. That's usually called indentured servitude something no progressive person would be advocating.

Offering a person a hand up with real services is a fine idea it is the fucking big stick you keep wanting to beat people over the head with that is the problem. Mandatory work for welfare is slavery given that welfare rates don't even cover the cost of housing and food in the Lower Mainland.

Admit that you are a Gordo Liberal or something else other than a New Democrat.


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Nobody is forcing anyone to work. Where did I say anyone was forced to work.

People should be quite free not to work IMO.


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quote:
Originally posted by J. Arthur:
Nobody is forcing anyone to work. Where did I say anyone was forced to work.

People should be quite free not to work IMO.


Absolutely, just as people should be free to die, homeless and alone, in the streets. Wait a second, that's already happening.... Hooray for freedom and democracy!


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Wow! Some drift. Shows how basic the concepts of work and desert are...

But anyway: Do you think Canada should support men who have several wives this way, despite the bigamy law, or that we should abolish the bigamy law?

(And the one-child policy is not comparable, quite apart from the enormous gap between China and the Uk or Canada: bigamy outlaws multiple marriage, not just multiple weddings.)


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I think the laws on polygamy are rather strange in this age of serial monogamy. It makes little sense to me to be told I can have sexual relations with as many women as will have me but I cannot enter into a formal relationship to cohabit with more than one woman. We need well drafted laws to prevent exploitation of vulnerable people but that is I think a separate issue.
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quote:
Originally posted by J. Arthur:
I would support not giving them money in the first place. Public money should not go to this.

At one time centuries ago, people could fend for themselves and live off the land. But since private property laws were created and usurping common rights in times when there were no such thing as basic human rights, living free lives in the forest and gleaning grain after the king's harvest just isn't happening anymore. The state could allow people to starve to death and die of exposure, but it wouldn't be a very popular policy nationally or internationally. So our stoogeocrats walk a thin line politically by tolerating this much poverty and homelessness. Our two oldest political parties in Canada just don't talk about it especially leading up to an election. Only once in a while will they admit to the existing infrastructure and trade skills deficits across Canada as a result of their bad policies.


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No, it is not a separate issue, how about it can be a separate issue when there is NO patriarchy left anymore.
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Thanks Fidel. You do know that I was saying that I did not support giving public money to the Air Canada Centre, right?! Those bastards can starve all they want

Not sure what this has to do with the UK, multiple wives, or multiple welfare benefits for same.

I have made up my mind, however, that I am going back to the UK, but first I am going to marry 15 wives. Applications accepted here.

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Right. I just like to run off at the mouth once in a while. Scuse?

Like i was saying, politicians could let absolute poverty rise to incredible levels. They choose not to and downplay existing poverty levels as much as possible for the sake of political expediency. Things like le slice and revolutions happen when things get so bad.

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quote:
Originally posted by remind:
No, it is not a separate issue, how about it can be a separate issue when there is NO patriarchy left anymore.

Yes we live in a patriarchal society and it isn't going to disappear anytime soon so your answer really is just a no it is not a separate issue. I can respect that view even if I don't necesarily agree.

I was speaking from a merely philosophical viewpoint because I wonder what is the inherent moral wrong. If three women want to cohabit as a family unit do you think this is somehow inherently wrong? Their combined resources might allow them to overcome some of society's gender barriers or at least give them a combined income large enough to raise a family.


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Experts on the matter have figured out that economic Darwinism is actually more expensive in the long run than socialism. It's why the U.S.A. ditched laissez-faire capitalism in the 1930's.
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quote:
Originally posted by kropotkin1951:
Yes we live in a patriarchal society and it isn't going to disappear anytime soon
I so do not know what to say to this...


quote:
I was speaking from a merely philosophical viewpoint because I wonder what is the inherent moral wrong. If three women want to cohabit as a family unit do you think this is somehow inherently wrong? Their combined resources might allow them to overcome some of society's gender barriers or at least give them a combined income large enough to raise a family.
Philosophical?

And why do 3 women who cohabit together to have a combined income need a male put into the equation? Answer they don't. Your example has nothing to do with polygamy, I would sugesst that polygamy today is a result of patriarchy and would not exist if patriarchy did not.

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I was referring to a polygamous relationship. Polygamy is about not allowing more than one marriage. Under that law three women can't be married. In my scenario I didn't think there was a man only three happily wedded women in a multiple same sex marriage.

As to the first part I didn't say patriarchy shouldn't end immediately because of course it should I just don't see its demise anytime soon. I hope to be proven wrong and the sooner the better.

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ooops, my aplogies, how narrow of me to view it as only 1 man, 3 women.

From that perspective, it becomes spousal payouts, not moral objection.


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So, legalise bigamy? Give extra benefits to men with >1 wife? Both, neither?
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But origami might be legal in their country of origin.

Does this mean we have to send in the military to democratize those countries after western shadow govs have meddled there for decades? Can we not trust them to discover our western brand of colonialism, I mean demcocracy, so much so that they need it forcing on them like shock and awe blitzkrieg let the tanks roll in the name of freedom and liberty and forget about equality? Those poor women, they really do need us?


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Uh, who decides what's legal in, say, Pakistan? You on their side?

In Papua New Guinea polygamy is tolerated, as customary, and is intensely resented by the few politically vocal women. It seems to be one of those things that work out exactly as you'd think...imagine being the first wife of a man who has got rich enough (usually through politics) to buy another wife, and is the kind of man who would do that. Almost all female-female domestic violence is among wives of the same man.

("Buy"? That's the term Papua New Guineans use. And it has the connotations you would think it has.)

Some customs really are less good -- even "less civilised"! -- than others, and polygamy is one of them. However, I guess I'd have an open mind on how it might work in Canada, if it were overt and involved women who actually had a choice how to live.


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posted 06 February 2008 04:11 PM      Profile for oldgoat     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post
J. Arthur, you're poor bashing. You've been doing a lot of that since you've got here. I really don't think you get the notion of "progressive" as we define it in our policy statement.

There have been complaints, but I've been considering some sort of intervention for a while anyway.

Anyway, you're history. I have a sense this isn't the first time.


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posted 06 February 2008 06:35 PM      Profile for Fidel     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post
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Originally posted by Boarsbreath:
Uh, who decides what's legal in, say, Pakistan? You on their side?

The Brits, CIA, and Saudis were deeply involved in the Talibanization of Pakistan and Afghanistan in the 1980's. Why? Whose side are you on? I prefer origami myself.


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posted 06 February 2008 07:49 PM      Profile for Boarsbreath   Author's Homepage     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post
Thinking that enemies of our enemies must be good guys is what screwed up the Americans in Afghanistan. Polygamy is bad no matter who else thinks so.

What I meant was that just because something is legal in a place someone comes from is no reason to impose it on them, or even to allow it, here. Indeed the contrary, if anything!


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I'm not down with polygamy either. And the Brits have not said, it's a-okay to run out and grab another wife to keep the streak going. That's still illegal. But, as I was saying before, the kids are there and present and accounted for in the UK. So now what?

Should the Brits deny them their rights as children? Or, should the polygamists and their children be sent back to the wonderful country of origin? You know, those countries where the US shadow gov, Brits and Saudi friends waged anticommunist jihad in the 1980's-90's? Just sayin'

[ 06 February 2008: Message edited by: Fidel ]


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posted 07 February 2008 02:47 PM      Profile for Boarsbreath   Author's Homepage     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post
Child support is separate; the obligations of parents to children do not depend on marriage to each other. And state support of individuals generally is separate -- entitlement to school, medical care, unemployment insurance, etc, doesn't depend on the civil status of one's parents either.

This issue is only about whether the state treats multiple marriages, for the purpose of benefits, as legitimate, including the bit of giving the "wives" benefits to the husband. To do that while outlawing bigamy (not just bigamous weddings) is obviously incoherent.

So -- is that OK? (Coherence is not the priority of law, after all.) If it isn't, which should go: the criminalisation of polygamy or this proposed benefits scheme?


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posted 07 February 2008 02:56 PM      Profile for Fidel     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post
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Originally posted by Boarsbreath:
This issue is only about whether the state treats multiple marriages, for the purpose of benefits, as legitimate, including the bit of giving the "wives" benefits to the husband. To do that while outlawing bigamy (not just bigamous weddings) is obviously incoherent.

I think it would be incoherent if British labour governments had disallowed child support for multiple other children of bad parents ie. second or third marriages of wife-abusing, child-abusing, substance-abusing, or parents who were derelict of family obligations, that sort of thing. But they don't, and I don't believe Canada does either.

These are children we're talking about. They have basic rights as per the UN declaration of child rights which Canada signed on to decades ago and are still not upholding like some other countries are doing successfully.


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If you "grandfather" the multiple wives; that is, if you disallow polygamy here but allow men who married multiple wives elsewhere to claim more benefits here, then you are leaving a very large loophole, by which men living here can go to a country that permits polygamy, marry a bunch of women, and bring them back here.

One of my workmates has multiple wives. He brought the eldest one here, and every summer goes to visit the others, sometimes impregnating them.

Though he needn't travel so far. Polygamist communities in the US trade teenage girls over the Canada-US border, bringing them to and from Bountiful, BC.


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posted 07 February 2008 03:24 PM      Profile for unionist     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post
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Originally posted by Boarsbreath:

What I meant was that just because something is legal in a place someone comes from is no reason to impose it on them, or even to allow it, here. Indeed the contrary, if anything!

Exactly. It's like applying Sharia Law to marriage or divorce issues, or not allowing Jewish men to deny their wife a get. If these people qualify to come here, they should abide by Canadian law. If they can't, they should find some theocracy more suited to their tastes.


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posted 07 February 2008 04:50 PM      Profile for adam stratton        Edit/Delete Post
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Exactly. It's like applying Sharia Law to marriage or divorce issues, or not allowing Jewish men to deny their wife a get. If these people qualify to come here, they should abide by Canadian law. If they can't, they should find some theocracy more suited to their tastes. -unionist


Thought this topic deserves its own thread, I her take the liberty of commenting.

Whatever religious contract people engage into, it is their private business. We do have human rights and other laws that supercede such contracts, as the case for all private contracts: If they offend an existing law, they are deemed nil and without effect.

If one is against religion, per se, that is another story.

Mind you, I am not religious, not even practising any religion. Dos not mean that I expect people to be like me. That is part of Canadian divrsity.


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posted 07 February 2008 05:05 PM      Profile for remind     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post
I disagree with providing additional support, of any type, for an additional spouse, and I would be up in arms if such a thing was attempted here.
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posted 07 February 2008 05:15 PM      Profile for Fidel     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post
quote:
Originally posted by Sineed:
If you "grandfather" the multiple wives; that is, if you disallow polygamy here but allow men who married multiple wives elsewhere to claim more benefits here, then you are leaving a very large loophole, by which men living here can go to a country that permits polygamy, marry a bunch of women, and bring them back here, BC.

Well, Canadians aren't having enough kids to replace the people we have. And after twelve years of Liberal government failure to perform even their colonial administrative duties properly, the feds were stuck with several hundred thousand unprocessed immigration applications.

Add to this the fact that Central Asia and several other nations have been held back from progress by several attempts to colonize and install puppet governments by the western world in the latter half of the last century through to the present day. It will take time to undo the damage done by Britain and our largest trading partner propping up theocratic feudalism and militant Islam in countries like Pakistan and Afghanistan, and inadvertently through meddling in Iran and Iraq since the 1950's. What comes around goes around.

Just think of the world as one large family. Declaration of the Rights of the Child I can't blame the children.


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posted 07 February 2008 05:31 PM      Profile for adam stratton        Edit/Delete Post
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I disagree with providing additional support, of any type, for an additional spouse, and I would be up in arms if such a thing was attempted here. Remind

So said those who opposed paying Canada pension to same sex survivor. Simply because they do not like the "arrangement".


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posted 07 February 2008 05:39 PM      Profile for Sineed     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post
Well, your points are good, Fidel, if a little extemporaneous. It almost sounds like you're saying we should have polygamy to compensate for bureaucratic failures and because the US helped found Al Quaida.

Tell you what, Fidel. You can have polygamy if I can have polyandry.


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posted 07 February 2008 05:41 PM      Profile for Sineed     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post
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So said those who opposed paying Canada pension to same sex survivor.
Same sex couples do no harm.

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posted 07 February 2008 05:43 PM      Profile for remind     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post
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Originally posted by adam stratton:
So said those who opposed paying Canada pension to same sex survivor. Simply because they do not like the "arrangement".

apples to oranges, we are talking additional spouses here not same sex Equality Rights.


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posted 07 February 2008 05:43 PM      Profile for unionist     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post
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Originally posted by adam stratton:

So said those who opposed paying Canada pension to same sex survivor. Simply because they do not like the "arrangement".


You are welcome to lobby for a change in legislation whereby you can marry up to 12,000 spouses of any gender and have them qualify for survivor benefits.

Let me know how you make out.


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posted 07 February 2008 05:53 PM      Profile for Fidel     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post
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Originally posted by Sineed:
It almost sounds like you're saying we should have polygamy to compensate for bureaucratic failures and because the US helped found Al Quaida.

No, I think we should get out of Afghanistan, and the U.S. needs electoral reform and to stop propping up dictators like the Shah and General Zia ul Haq through to Karzai and Musharraf today. People the world over want social democracy not militant Islam or theocratic feudalism or right wing death squad government. And apparently globalization and deregulation isn't creating paradise for hundreds of millions either who want to emigrate to anywhere but where they are now. And guess which country has lotsa room and giving away the oil and gas and massive amounts of hydroelectric power like there's no tomorrow?


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posted 07 February 2008 06:05 PM      Profile for Slumberjack     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post
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Originally posted by remind:
I disagree with providing additional support, of any type, for an additional spouse, and I would be up in arms if such a thing was attempted here.

Provision of the basic individual needs for survival must be permitted. It has to be recognized that by not extending benefits in these situations, it could invariably lead to hunger and increased deprivation for individuals who in all likelyhood had no choice in the country they came from. Withdrawal of needed support would add further tragedy upon an existing one. There are other state sanctions that can be bought to bear against the 'husband' once it can be ascertained by the social services network that such a polygamist situation exists. Denial of benefits means the woman suffers more because of the actions of the husband.


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posted 07 February 2008 06:14 PM      Profile for adam stratton        Edit/Delete Post
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apples to oranges, we are talking additional spouses here not same sex Equality Rights. -Remind

We are talking oppositions to marital arrangements -whether same sex or different genders.

Besides having a feminist call for deprivation of women, who may well be victims themselves. A far cry from Remind who supports a woman for presidency of the USA, simply because she is a woman.

[ 07 February 2008: Message edited by: adam stratton ]


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posted 07 February 2008 06:18 PM      Profile for Accidental Altruist   Author's Homepage     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post
quote:
Originally posted by adam stratton:

We are talking oppositions to marital arrangements -whether same sex or different genders.

Besides having a feminist call for deprivation of women, who may well be victims themselves. A far cry from Remind who supports a woman for presidency of the USA, simply because she is a woman.

[ 07 February 2008: Message edited by: adam stratton ]



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posted 07 February 2008 06:22 PM      Profile for unionist     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post
quote:
Originally posted by adam stratton:

We are talking oppositions to marital arrangements -whether same sex or different genders.


Canadian law doesn't recognize polygamous unions - and I support that law. I also support not treating "spouses" in polygamous "arrangements" as spouses for any legal purposes (pension, welfare, benefit plans, etc.).

Canadian law did not recognize same-sex marriages before 2005, and I opposed that law. I (and many others in the union movement) fought for same-sex benefits in collective agreements before either the courts or the legislators recognized them.

Call me bigoted and Eurocentric, but I have a strong feeling that polygamous relationships are not the finest expression of women's emancipation. In any event, I'll be having a word with my MP if he ever is deranged enough to support changing that law.

ETA: Of course, the fact remains that any person who individually meets Canada's entry requirements, either as an immigrant or a refugee, must of course be treated with full equality for all purposes (including social welfare if need be). But that's a separate issue.

[ 07 February 2008: Message edited by: unionist ]


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Did you read the article slumberjack in respect to responding to just the OP? There are NO state sanctions.

According to Islamic law a husband cannot have more wives than he can afford to support in the first place.

Moreover, there could be 5 adults living in the house, surely at least one of the 5 adults can find work of some sort?

I disagree completely with the whole thing, right from polygamy all the way up.


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posted 07 February 2008 06:28 PM      Profile for remind     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post
quote:
Originally posted by adam stratton:
We are talking oppositions to marital arrangements -whether same sex or different genders.
Nope

quote:
Besides having a feminist call for deprivation of women, who may well be victims themselves. A far cry from Remind who supports a woman for presidency of the USA, simply because she is a woman.

I am not calling for the deprivation of women. I am stating a polygamous relationship should not be recognized in any way shape or form.

And I have never supported Hilary Clinton as a matter of fact. So please do stop putting beliefs of mine in where you have not a fucking clue.


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Originally posted by unionist:
Canadian law doesn't recognize polygamous unions - and I support that law. I also support not treating "spouses" in polygamous "arrangements" as spouses for any legal purposes (pension, welfare, benefit plans, etc.)

Does this mean you wouldn't support a payment made out to the individual woman, thereby not necessarily reflecting any 'spousal arrangement?'


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quote:
Originally posted by remind:
Did you read the article slumberjack in respect to responding to just the OP? There are NO state sanctions. According to Islamic law a husband cannot have more wives than he can afford to support in the first place. Moreover, there could be 5 adults living in the house, surely at least one of the 5 adults can find work of some sort? I disagree completely with the whole thing, right from polygamy all the way up.

I disagree too. Polygamy is illegal and should remain so. The state, whether it be here or in the UK should bring to bear whatever changes and avenues that are necessary to provide these women with options. I said here before that any payment should be made out to the individual woman, and not to the man. Which means the women would have to open up their own bank account, not a joint account. Is that along the lines of something you would support?


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The women wouldn't just to have to have a separate bank account but a separate residence completely, with said bigamist husband unable to share any time in said house(s).
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posted 07 February 2008 06:48 PM      Profile for unionist     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post
quote:
Originally posted by Slumberjack:

Does this mean you wouldn't support a payment made out to the individual woman, thereby not necessarily reflecting any 'spousal arrangement?'


I don't understand your question. What kind of payment are you talking about, and to which "individual woman"?

I thought my statement was extremely clear. If you want to posit a particular hypothetical example, go ahead and describe it and I'll try to respond.


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I am not calling for the deprivation of women. I am stating a polygamous relationship should not be recognized in any way shape or form. -Remind


Here is what you wrote:


quote:
I disagree with providing additional support, of any type, for an additional spouse, and I would be up in arms if such a thing was attempted here. -Remind

additional spouses -in the context we are discussing- are women. You disagree with additional support.

quote:
And I have never supported Hilary Clinton as a matter of fact. So please do stop putting beliefs of mine in where you have not a fucking clue. -Remind

I apologize.

As for the vulgarity, if you feel that it ads some umph to your narrative or eloquence to your discourse, please be my guest!


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posted 07 February 2008 06:57 PM      Profile for remind     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post
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Originally posted by remind:
The women wouldn't just to have to have a separate bank account but a separate residence completely, with said bigamist husband unable to share any time in said house(s).

As I stated prior adam, and my choice of word use is my business when you are ascribing things to me in a know it all, but know nothing manner.


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quote:
Originally posted by unionist:

I don't understand your question. What kind of payment are you talking about, and to which "individual woman"?
I thought my statement was extremely clear. If you want to posit a particular hypothetical example, go ahead and describe it and I'll try to respond.

Ideally, we'd look at a scenario as Remind described, seperate bank account, seperate residence etc...however these women most likely would feel trapped, unable or unwilling to leave, unless the appropriate community support apparatus could be available to provide information, and more importantly, a viable way out, with the protection of law. Until that can occur, and it undoubtably could take some time, couldn't there be some interim support while the situation is bought in line with societal standards? If there wasn't any provision for this, the woman would be left to depend even more on the 'husband' and would never have access to the type of councelling that could be provided if she was in the system as a recipient.


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I don't understand your scenario. What's wrong with just describing it?

Who are these women? Did they enter Canada legally as individual applicants? Are they refugees or immigrants or what?

If they're legal, they are entitled to the same support (no more or less) as any other entrant.

If they are in a polygamous relationship, they of course would be treated as unmarried.

If they are sharing resources in a way that the law cares about, they should be treated like any people who are sharing resources that the law cares about.

Meanwhile, they (all members of this polygamous clan) should be calmly told what the laws of Canada are and the penalties for violating them.

[ 07 February 2008: Message edited by: unionist ]


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Long thread.
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