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Toedancer
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posted 03 March 2006 11:33 PM      Profile for Toedancer     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
Please, give me a website that gives great talking points on why being pro-choice respects all choices. I am getting such flak recently from a woman, whom I deeply admire and is running for a MLA position out east. We have the same debate at least once a week and I'm done. I respect her choice, yet she simply cannot accept mine. And that is the difference.
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Toedancer
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posted 03 March 2006 11:34 PM      Profile for Toedancer     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
So sorry Mods, this should be in Feminism.
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deBeauxOs
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posted 04 March 2006 12:39 AM      Profile for deBeauxOs     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
Here is a website that you may find helpful. Over the course of many years of activism, I found that understanding the rhetoric and the language used respectively by the pro-choice and the anti-abortion movements helped me to articulate my personal position clearly.

If you are advocating for pro-choice support, you have to be ready to field the 'stock' anti-abortion arguments in the words that state your own opinions and perspectives. Rehearse and role-play out loud, write down your thoughts and reflections. Do not just provide a hand-out; it may not be seen as credible as your own heartfelt and genuine expression of pro-choice support, in that politicians view.


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skdadl
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posted 04 March 2006 08:31 AM      Profile for skdadl     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
Superb link, deBeauxOs. Thanks.

We should all have that memorized.


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Michelle
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posted 04 March 2006 08:39 AM      Profile for Michelle   Author's Homepage     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
That is fantastic. I particularly like this one:

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If a woman has sex, she has to pay the consequences. Too many women have abortions for their own convenience or on "whim."

This vindictive, self-righteous attitude stems from a belief that sex is bad and must be punished. Motherhood should never be punishment for having sex. Forcing a child to be born to punish its mother is the ultimate in child abuse. Anti-abortionists trivialize motherhood and childbirth by dismissing pregnancy as a mere inconvenience. They ignore or belittle the needs of the woman and the conflict she endures in making her decision. Guilt is inflicted when compassion is needed.


And this one is good too:

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Opposition to abortion is common in all segments of society. It is not a campaign by religious groups trying to foist their beliefs on everyone else.

The Catholic Church and the "religious right" are the backbone of the anti-abortion movement. Pro-choice religious people see anti-abortion laws as a violation of religious liberty. Abortion is a religious issue, because the stated basis of opposition to abortion is the theological question of when personhood begins. Also, religious doctrines that dictate female subservience and a childbearing role for women are the real hidden agenda of opposition to abortion.


Sock it to 'em!

[ 04 March 2006: Message edited by: Michelle ]


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fern hill
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posted 04 March 2006 09:58 AM      Profile for fern hill        Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
One PBS's News Hour last night, there was a piece on South Dakota's ban on abortion. I had a real eye-opener about these people.

One (old, white) guy, a state senator I think, was asked by the PBS reporter for a 'scenario' in which the SD law would allow a woman to have an abortion (apparently, even though it won't allow them for rape, incest or health of the mother, there is a small opening for the mother's life at risk).

The guy started to list the conditions: brutal rape, woman a virgin who was saving herself for marriage, sodomy (!), brutal, brutal a few more times, then pregnancy. That woman, the guy said, maybe could have an abortion.

The reallly sick, creepy part was how much this guy was enjoying this description. It's been said many times -- these people are sex-obsessed. But what a sight to actually see one of them salivating at the images he was concocting. It makes me shiver just thinking about it.


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skdadl
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posted 04 March 2006 10:11 AM      Profile for skdadl     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
Yes. A lot of the puritanical fundies are sex maniacs. It's really hard to avoid thinking that.

And gee: all those pregnancies from sodomy.


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Michelle
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posted 04 March 2006 10:12 AM      Profile for Michelle   Author's Homepage     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
So, in other words, it's not the act of abortion itself that is wrong, since he considers it acceptable in some cases. It's the acts that lead UP to the abortion that are wrong.

If he supports any exceptions at all, then that means it's not the fetus's best interests he has at heart; it's punishing the woman.


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anne cameron
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posted 04 March 2006 10:29 AM      Profile for anne cameron     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
Punishing the woman, yes. But they don't think much of the kids, either because these are the same ones who are so determinedly against the kinds of social programmes which most benefit children. I can't stop the mental image of these people grumbling that they played with fire, got burned, and have spent however many years in an unhappy shotgun marriage, five damned kids, bloodsuckers each one, draining the very life from them, now grandchildren coming and all of them wanting , gimme gimme gimme, my life is a misery and YOURS WILL BE, TOO!

Yeah, it's the sex. And the suspicion that these women ENJOYED what the compulsory pregnancy crowd's wives (or self, if it's a woman) have always found repugnant. There's something so .. immature and bullying about their salacious interest in other people's wombs and the contents thereof...it's like NO! said the bigger girl, I don't know how to ride a bike and you aren't riding one , either, you're too little. NO! I'm afraid of the big slide and you're not going down it either, you're too small. NO! because I said so and I'm older, I got here first.


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Toedancer
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posted 04 March 2006 01:24 PM      Profile for Toedancer     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
Thank you deBeauxos, simple and elegant. In our many conversations over this issue, I don't think there is one point I have left out. Many of those points were expressed by my grandmother (long dead) albeit in different language.

Although she concentrates on the biology, I've always sensed there was more to it, the heavy judgement which most definitely comes from a self-righteous moral stance. The rhetoric only enters when I have swung back to the democracy angle, the will of the majority, and of course the ancient subservient aspect of the male-dominated politicians wanting control over women's bodies.

Suddenly it occured to me, does her strong gay marriage positive stance come from her belief in true equality, or does it in part, stem from the fact gay couples do not produce children (in and of itself)? Rather gay couples would adopt (if they did not bring children into their partnerships). So to hell with being politically correct and I asked her. I expected a quick response, but instead she was quiet and told me it she'd have to think a little deeper on it.

Thanks for the replies.


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