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Peter N
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posted 01 May 2003 04:29 PM      Profile for Peter N     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
Well, I had been a big fan of the show Married with Children for years. At its hayday it was the most popular sitcom on television, but some so called "feminists" called it offensive and sexist. My view was it was only entertainment, hey talking about sex is not sexist contrary to what some think, not paying equal wages for equal work for instance is sexist. Now there is this new show "the man's show" which runs on the comedy network. It is hillarious, but again some people think half naked women jumping up and down on a tridmill showing their panties is sexist and offensive, but then we have Women's television network's programs by that definition should be sexist too( against Men) but no one talks about that! strange
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I think you are mistaken.

I like Married with Children, too. It was, at times and not always, some of the best satire on modern life available on television. And some wponderfully hilarious dialogue.

Married with Children was like the Simpsons in some ways. Nothing was sacred, no subject was taboo. And while women fared badly on the show, so did men, equally.

Bud was portrayed as a horny, conniving serial masturbator while Al was an unlovaebale loser. The neighbour was a lazy, con artist stealing from his wife.

Married with Children was a satirical look at the common denominator in North American society. The Men's Show panders to that common denominator.

They are not the same at all.


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I don't know that women fared equally badly in MWC... I found it pretty offensive to women, and just plain offensive in general. I didn't find it the least bit funny. Just sort of base and icky.

The Men's Show, however, is irrefutably sexist and more than a little offensive.

That, and I'd like you to point out one program on W (formerly WTN) that is anti-male. I haven't come across it.


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Sex in the City, how about that?
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Married with Children was gutter humour, pretending to be social satire. I still enjoyed it, but I never pretended that I was in any way improving myself. It was not in the same league as All in the Family, which provided credible representations for the institutions and ideas that Archie Bunker attacked.
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Sex in the City, how about that?

Do you mean do I think it's an anti-male program on W or do I think it's funny?

[ 01 May 2003: Message edited by: Zoot Capri ]


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no, if it is anti-male program?
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I don't find it anti-male as such, nor does the blond guy, who watches it with me. Women and men are portrayed as equally silly in the games we play in relationships. Personally, I find the viewpoints of the women ridiculous much of the time.

But at least the humour is a little sophisticated, and doesn't glorify ignorance and malice.

It's not, btw, on W. Sex and the City plays on Bravo.


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A New Republic critic a while back produced an ingenious argument that Sex and the City, for all its supposed celebration of women's independence, blah blah blah, is really rather a misogynist show:

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Commenting on Sarah Jessica Parker's recent pregnancy, Michael Patrick King said: "Sarah's our workhorse, our show pony. We put her in high heels and tell her to run thirty blocks. Now, all of a sudden, she has to be babied." In its caricature of women who talk about sex like men, and, like men, have orgasms every time they have sex, the show represents a kind of counterattack on women's biology. The expensive, mismatched, chic-ugly clothes that Carrie wears; Sarah Jessica Parker's confused interpretations of her character as a black girl one episode and a self-conscious suburban cutie the next; Samantha's robotic-erotic, stud-like manner (and the sweaty, atrocious acting of Kim Cattrall, who could not stand still and convince you that she is a person standing still); the women's starry-eyed gold-digging; their countless humiliations: the picture of heterosexual life projected by Sex and the City, though it sometimes hits the nail right on the head, is the biggest hoax perpetrated on straight single women in the history of entertainment. The series' misogyny is matched by its homophobia: the only regular gay characters, Stanford and Anthony, are self-hating and flaming, respectively. Perhaps the exhilaration that the show provokes in some of its fans stems from the reactionary character of its assumptions about sexual identity.

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posted 01 May 2003 08:31 PM      Profile for Michelle   Author's Homepage     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
For a while I really loved Married With Children. I thought it was hilarious. But it started to hit home a little too hard when my marriage turned nasty and my husband began making constant cruel remarks and insults all the time. Suddenly, Married With Children wasn't funny to me anymore.

Of course, HE never stopped thinking it was funny.


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MWC was in terrible taste, only occasionally funny, and i think equally mean to men, women and teenagers.

But we're still talking about it... What does that tell us about the new sit-coms?
I've been catching the odd Cosby Show, of which i didn't think much at the time - but, oh, how classy it looks compared to Will and Grace!
If you want really funny, and sexy without being sexist, catch the Soap reruns on Saturday.


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posted 02 May 2003 11:24 AM      Profile for Weltschmerz     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
And what's funny about Soap (well, lots of things were funny about Soap) is that even today it has one of the best, most three-dimensional gay characters (and one of the first if I remember correctly) on TV. I still find a lot of today's gay characters (men or women) to be more like bad characitures. Although I haven't watched that show with Allan Davies on Showcase (can't remember the name).

Cheers,


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The thing that bothered me about Married With Children was the occasional veiled reference to incest. After several references to incest, I was just left with an uneasy feeling watching the show. Plus the fact that toilet humour gets stale real quick.

Some of the worst sexism, homophobia, and racism around is on South Park. It's not on every show, but every so often they show a zinger. Feminists are portrayed as absolute sick monsters. Is it any wonder that feminists, and gays have such an uphill battle when they are portrayed in such a manner? South Park is a show that I think kids tend to watch by themselves, so there's unlikely much critcal thinking going on.


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Womens Television Network - programming that is offensive to males?

I suppose it could be considered "offensive" if you dont think women should have a tv network.

It has real offensive shows such as The Sunday Night Sex Show, a high percentage of the callers are male, I would say its half and half. Then there is Divine Design with Candace Olsen (a decorating show), Loving Spoonfuls which is hosted by David Gale - A MAN! Debbie TRavis's Painted House, who usually has a male partner working with her, and there is the very offensive Famous Homes and Hideaways - Dharma and Greg sitcom, Touched by An Angel,Chicago Hope, Ally McBeal, Sizzle (Culinary expert, Michael P. Clive, steps into the homes of women, creating dishes that delight the tastebuds!) ANOTHER MAN !
Just Cause, starring Richard Thomas, among others.

Of course there are the "W" movies

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From the heartbreaking end of relationships to the chills of a fresh romance, W Movies capture the magic and strength of the human spirit. With fantastic Canadian premieres of blockbuster movies as well as small screen delights, W brings Hollywood entertainment right to your living room
The movies are what you might call "Chick Flicks" - romantic .. and that seems to always require a male partner. Havent see any Lesbian flicks yet --

Interesting, you hear the term "Womens Television Network" and right away you imagine rabid feminists bashing men ....

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but then we have Women's television network's programs by that definition should be sexist too( against Men) but no one talks about that! strange

I just find this assumption a tad irritating ....


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Don't forget the highly subversive Ken Beattie!
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I find the W network mostly too bland, safe, and touchy feely for my taste. Although when I want to work up an appetite I'll check out the food porn shows. Shows about narcissistic people obsessed about their appearances bore me to tears.
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I find the W network mostly too bland, safe, and touchy feely for my taste.

Yeah, but have you watched that British comedy series Cold Feet, which I think is on W? Ooo, whee. Now that's some sharp television -- risk-taking, even. The sort of comedy that's so well-done, so close to home, that it can become almost uncomfortable to watch.


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I'll check it out 'lance. When is it on?
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At the moment, apparently, Saturdays at 7:00 (Eastern, anyway).

I think they're running the final series of it right now -- being a British show, they make ten episodes or so this year, ten the next, and so forth. But I imagine they'll re-run it when this is done.

To fill you in a bit: it's a "relationship" program... three couples in their 30s, some of whom have known each other since adolescence, others of whom are new to the crowd. Very acute observational humour about the ups and downs of being in a long-term relationship. Sometimes even poignant, always very clever. "Friends" done right, you might say -- i.e., without cartoon characters.


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There were veiled references to incest on Married With Children? I didn't know that. What, between Kelly and Bud? Please explain.
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My American friends are so jealous that we have the Sunday Night Sex Show and they have Dr Ruth .
Cold Feet is Wednesday May 07 and 10 PM Saturday May 10 7 :00 PM. Pacific Time.

One thing that always struck me about Friends is these are people some of whom are apparently hitting the big 3-0 and the behavior is so juvenile !! Its like adults stuck in a college dorm. The "issues" in the show are teenage issues not adult issues. I'm a big fan of British television anyhow. There was one a few years ago about some poor single guy living with his batty mother .. it was so funny.

Night and Day is pretty dark - I dont watch it enough to follow it but its not your run of the mill soap either.

Open for Discussion is usually pretty good too.

Definitely subversive television in that it doesnt spew run of the mill juvenile commerical pap to its audience ...


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Thanks 'lance. Is it a show you can start watching mid season and still get the jist of it? If it has good writing and characters I would guess so.

Michelle it's been so long since I've watched Married With Children that I can't give you any specific shows or quotes. I didn't even notice the subtle references to incest at first until someone else pointed them out. I just remember that Bud and the dad made comments about Kelly that were suggestive of incest. They were not frequent and I suppose some may not interpret them that way, but after I started to notice it, watching the show made me feel queasy.


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Oh, I see what you mean - because Bud was constantly making sexual jokes about her, about how she was so easy, etc. Kelly, of course, made a ton of sexual jokes about Bud too, regarding his blow up doll, etc. But I never thought of those jokes as incestuous, just those two making fun of each other - Bud making fun of Kelly for being a "slut" and Kelly making fun of Bud for being incompetent with girls.

But from another perspective, I guess I can see the point, if you consider Kelly to be sexually harassed by the male members of the family for creating such a sexually-charged atmosphere with all their sexual innuendo about her (even though everyone on the show seems to deliver that kind of innuendo with equal force).


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"incest" that is bull shit. I think some people were suggesting that Ed O'Niell( Al Bundy) was banging Christina Applegate( Kelly) in real life, but then I saw the documentary on married with children in which Kelly said they were sick rumours and they would never would do anything like that so that should put that issue hopefully to rest.
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Actually Michelle that's not what I meant.Yes all those comments and jokes were going on, and equally by the female characters, but the incest references were something else again. I wish I could point you to a specific show but I'm not going to start watching the show again.

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I think some people were suggesting that Ed O'Niell( Al Bundy) was banging Christina Applegate( Kelly) in real life

I wasn't talking about "real life" I was talking about the show.


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['lance, are our TV-tastes somehow telepathically connected? I never miss Cold Feet, and the this Saturday's episode on men's unwillingness to take care of children I thought was brilliant. There was actually a 'conceptual' red thread in this episode, and it was wonderful to be able to discover it.

Also: I hate Sex and the City, but that's for another thread.]


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I struggled and struggled to figure out who would come up with something like WTN being sexist and it dawned on me... Peter N is non other than Gilbert Smythe!!
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If you really want to experience sexist television watch beer commercials.
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quote:
Originally posted by grrril:
Actually Michelle that's not what I meant.Yes all those comments and jokes were going on, and equally by the female characters, but the incest references were something else again. I wish I could point you to a specific show but I'm not going to start watching the show again.


You shouldn't have made the accusation if you can't provide examples. I watched Married With Children a lot, and I have no idea what you're talking about.

I also watch, or used to watch, some of the other shows mentioned above, as well as other programs that might be considered offensive. I like all sorts of comedy. Often they make me laugh out loud, and sometimes they make me cringe and groan.
Different strokes for different folks.

P.S. Calling WTN anti-male is just as lame as calling BET anti-white. Those voices were practically invisible in mainstream television for many years; essentially every TV network was a white male network. (Whether or not those stations actually live up to the task of representing women and blacks is a whole other debate).

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I watched MWC a few times and if my memory serves me there were often little one liners thrown in with the brother leering at his sister and making what I would consider inappropriate remarks for a brother to make to a sister .. is that what you mean ?
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Geez, they didn't even like each other. What show did you watch?
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Andy Social, I did say that the references were subtle and that everyone would not agree with my interpretation. It’s not an interpretation that I held alone as I mentioned. Besides someone I know pointing out the references to incest, at least one column written about it although that is going back ten years at least.. I searched on the internet for that column but to no avail. Alas, I am hampered by a painfully slow internet connection and away from other resources (libraries) at the moment. I did discover that all the scripts were online and I suppose I could have read them all, with my slow connection, that would have only taken forever. When I have the time and resources I’ll try to provide some more examples. A critique of Natural Born Killers @

http://socsci.mccneb.edu/soc210ta/_disc4/00000011.htm

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Stone depicts the American public as desensitized zombies who have become so selfish and detached from personal responsibility that they are willing to stand back and look at the world crumble around them without trying to stop it. He uses a vast amount of visual stimulation to shock the viewer into reality, which ended up making me feel quite drained after watching it. In one scene, Stone uses a parody of shows like "Married With Children" to express his disgust with the apathetic nature of the media. The make-believe sit-com used in the movie includes scenes of incest and verbal and physical abuse, all shown with the sound of canned laughter in the background.

References are a starting point for a debate. Popular culture is not an exact science-there are no absolutes. What I initially enjoyed about MWC was their attitude against sacred cows and their use of satire. What I noticed after viewing the show for several years was the celebration and trivialization of abuse in different forms. It started to make me uncomfortable and I stopped watching the show.


Btw some of the “specialty channels” on digital cable have less than 10,000 paid viewers. Compare that to the corporate media who have paid subscribers in the millions.


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Some people pick up things while watching, life, TV, movies, other people, that will go right over other people's heads. It is often said that reporters and writers notice and pick up on a whole lot of things that other people dont -
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Some people notice things that aren't there. Especially newspaper reporters writing on a deadline.
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You shouldn't have made the accusation if you can't provide examples. I watched Married With Children a lot, and I have no idea what you're talking about.

That's not really fair. She mentioned it in passing. People shouldn't have to quote the episode number and line in order to share their impressions of a show with us. You don't have to accept her interpretation, but it's not very nice to tell her not to contribute unless she can provide footnotes. Especially when we're just talking personal impressions about a television show. How are we supposed to remember specific lines from a show that was on years ago?


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Some people notice things that aren't there. Especially newspaper reporters writing on a deadline
Have you worked for a newspaper as a reporter? The first thing your editor will ask when you hand in your story is did you check this out? What are your sources? How valid are they? Unless of course you work for the National Enquirer or some paper that doesnt care if they print the truth or not -

Why did my comment irritate you? It happens to be true - so why the response about noticing things that arent there? Thats kind of an omnipotent response suggesting that if YOU dont see it, or feel it, or know about it, then it doesnt exist.

Everyones reality is different and individual to them. We dont all see and hear what YOU do, some of us hear and see more, some less - that doesnt make it less valid. You stick to your own reality and I will stick to mine. Perhaps what I consider inappropriate remarks for a brother to make to a sister, or a father to a daughter you dont consider inappropriate.

Either way you cant argue that there were no "inappropriate" remarks in MWC, thats about all it was --

IMO the "humour" was juvenile and demeaning to both men and women and it its audience as well, but thats my OPINION - I dont question YOUR opinion, dont question mine. If you like the show then good for you, I am happy you found something that gives you some enjoyment in life.

I have a dark sense of humour that some people find offensive, I accept that -- I dont say they are imagining things or seeing something that isnt there. Their take is different than mine.. so be it.


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