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ndpgurl
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posted 09 March 2005 10:22 AM      Profile for ndpgurl     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
On Tuesday, March 8th (International Women’s Day), a friend and I decided to go out for a night on the town. We decided to go to the Hilltop (Fredericton, NB). When we entered, the bouncer was holding several strands of plastic shiny beaded necklaces. I asked him if I could have one and he replied, “It’s Mardi Gras sweetie, show me your tits and you’ll get one.”

I was shocked and offended, I told him that was sexual harassment and walked away. As I went to put my coat away I realized that every man had at least one necklace on. On the dance floor I was asked several times to expose my breasts, in return for a plastic necklace, even from the DJ.

I went to the restroom to try to cool off. On my way out, in front of me were three men negotiating with one woman what she would have to do to get all of their necklaces, at this point I had enough. I found my friend and left.

Earlier that evening I had attended the International Women’s Day potluck where I was inspired by the many women in attendance who had struggled for equality before me. People often ask if we really still need feminists and a women’s day. It is events like the Hilltop’s Mardi Gras which points to why my answer has always been yes.


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belva
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posted 09 March 2005 10:40 AM      Profile for belva     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
Welcome to the war, Sister!

Know that generations of women are linked to you--you are not alone!


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skdadl
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posted 09 March 2005 11:06 AM      Profile for skdadl     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
Wow, ndpgurl. But welcome: you've come to the right place.

Those jerks. (On top of the sex-harrass, they are idiots: Mardi Gras was 8 February. )

I know it can feel sometimes as though we've made no progress at all, and yet there's lots of evidence on this board, I think, that more and more younger men are getting it. And we are joining a long line of persistent women who've gone before us.


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ndpgurl
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posted 09 March 2005 12:45 PM      Profile for ndpgurl     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
The manager called and told me that he fired the bouncer and would be putting on a fundraiser for the local sexual assault crisis centre.
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Michelle
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posted 09 March 2005 03:15 PM      Profile for Michelle   Author's Homepage     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
And what did he do about the rest of the people there? It wasn't just that one bouncer - it looks like that was the theme of the whole night.

But good on you for complaining and shaming them into fund raising for a women's shelter. Way to go!


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