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Heather
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posted 14 October 2002 09:55 PM      Profile for Heather   Author's Homepage     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
I was at the convenience store with my son to pick up some cranberry sauce because our grocery stores were closed due to Thanks Giving.

Anyway, as I was preparing to go through the check out, my seven year old was at the magazine rack looking at some comics on the floor and as he stood up, I noticed he was eye level with 'men's lifesytle magazines' that had photographs of women wearing bikinis that barely covered their nipples and vaginas posing in provocative ways. REALLY! I couldn't believe it.

So I complained at the counter (men smiling and laughing in the back ground).

I went home and complained to my husband who thought I was blowing it out of proportion so I asked him to come and see- which he did.

In comparing the porn & lifestyle covers of the magazines he agreed that there was virtually no difference. The women's nipples in the porn were visible but in the mens lifestyle magazines which are at our childrens eye level the women were posing more sexually.

The guy at the counter said according to the law, they could keep them at that level.

I know that Maude Barlow and Judy Rebick fought to have porn magazines stored where children couldn't see them. But it seems that these lifestyle magazines are a new version of that old problem.

I am now going to go through the stores (all six of them) in my neighbourhood to see if they all have women on display at children's eye level.

My problem isn't that they sell them. My problem is that while I'm trying to teach my sons to respect women so that they are aware that women are not commodities, women are being sold off the magazine rack at their eye level.


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rosebuds
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posted 14 October 2002 11:12 PM      Profile for rosebuds     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
You're absolutely right, and I never really thought of it that way. The women's magazines are equally offensive. Thanks for the heads up and the food for thought!
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peripatetic
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posted 14 October 2002 11:42 PM      Profile for peripatetic        Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
If it’s legal for women to appear bare-breasted in public, it’s hard to justify legal restrictions on the display of pictures of bikini-clad women.
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Heather
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posted 15 October 2002 12:04 AM      Profile for Heather   Author's Homepage     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
quote:
If it’s legal for women to appear bare-breasted in public, it’s hard to justify legal restrictions on the display of pictures of bikini-clad women.

It's not the fact that their breasts are showing, it's that they've got licked lips and are in 'f*** me' poses.

Besides, all I want is for them to be above my seven-year-old's eye level.


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Terry J
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posted 15 October 2002 01:14 AM      Profile for Terry J     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
I think one should be free to go about their daily business with children in tow without being exposed to porn, soft porn, images of extreme violence, etc.

I'm not advocating censorship at all-just that there are warnings that potentially offensive material is shown so one has a choice whether to view it or not.

Several years ago my brother-in-law went to the local convenience store with his 6 and 7 year old daughters and hard core porn was displayed at their eye level. He complained and the next day the porn mags were on the top shelves and the porn mags at eye level had a covering over them.


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sheep
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posted 15 October 2002 02:53 PM      Profile for sheep     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
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It's not the fact that their breasts are showing, it's that they've got licked lips and are in 'f*** me' poses.

Besides, all I want is for them to be above my seven-year-old's eye level.


Complain to the store, and don't let anybody try to make you feel like a prude about it either, or that you're being unreasonable. It works. Most of the stores I see carrying the new soft porn (Maxim, FHM, Stuff, etc) have already started relegating them to the back shelf of the magazine rack. You're not asking them to stop carrying it or selling it, but it's pretty obvious that these are adult oriented magazines and keeping them out of the immediate sight line of children is simply common sense.


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kuba walda
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posted 15 October 2002 03:15 PM      Profile for kuba walda        Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
It doesn't really make much sense to have them at a 7 year old's eye level to begin with. They aren't the target audience. Why not put them up so the grown ups who are the ones who would be buying them don't have to stoop down to see them???? But the comic books at eye level for children.
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Heather
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posted 15 October 2002 04:12 PM      Profile for Heather   Author's Homepage     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
I spoke with the store manager who said he was going to call 'franchise headquarters' to inform them of the complaint and the suggestion of having them on a higher shelf.

Kuba Walda, I know what you mean. When I noticed this, I was telling my son to get up off of the dirty floor. Also, it would make more sense to have the children's comics on another rack.

I have a gut feeling that this system is a marketing strategy that instill's feelings an ideas at an early age to seeing women merely as sexual objects and that it is acceptable.

After all, sex sells. It'b big business. It also seems to send a message to young girls that, "This is how you are supposed to look" when you are older. When in reality the average woman does not look like that- and then she is depressed for not being able to look that way.


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kuba walda
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posted 15 October 2002 05:11 PM      Profile for kuba walda        Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
Agreed ..........

And good for you for following up.


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