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Doug
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posted 05 December 2005 10:10 PM      Profile for Doug   Author's Homepage     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
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Coming of age was a painful experience for the three Khan sisters.

They discovered they'd been promised in marriage to their enemies when they were children, a practice in Pakistan known as vani.

"When we grew up we came to know that a great injustice had been done to us," says Abda Khan, now 18.

"Vani is equal to a murder. If we were to marry those boys, it would be the same as killing us."

Vani is a tribal custom in which blood feuds are settled with forced marriages.

The bride spends her life paying for the crime of her male relatives.


"If the government does not help us, we will commit suicide."

Yuck.


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nuclearfreezone
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posted 06 December 2005 12:19 AM      Profile for nuclearfreezone     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
Oh my God! What an outrage!
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rinne
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posted 06 December 2005 12:30 PM      Profile for rinne     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
From the same article above:

Their father, Jehan Khan Niazi, is their strongest supporter.

He says he agreed to the vani at gunpoint, but has moved his daughters away from the village so they could get an education.

"They stand against this because they are educated," he says.

"Illiterate girls cannot understand and express themselves. My daughters are innocent, why should I infringe on their rights and their demands."

This is horrific but I am glad to see that their father supports them. I suspect this is unusual.


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faith
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posted 06 December 2005 12:37 PM      Profile for faith     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
I have been following this story online since it broke.
It is heartbreaking to put yourself in the place of these girls that have just discovered that the community that they grew up in considers them a commodity to be traded back and forth, and a whipping post for male violence.
As a mother of 3 daughters I thank any gods out there that I was not born in Pakistan.

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