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skdadl
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posted 24 September 2005 10:33 AM
Southlander, are you telling us that you have found such a man in the flesh, as it were? I never give advice as such -- well, hardly ever -- but I can tell you that I married a man sixteen years older, and we have had a great marriage, if I do say so myself. I've never known what our IQs were, actually, although I think we're both rather interesting in our eccentric ways. What has mattered, I think, is that we were eccentric in a lot of similar or complementary ways, and we just found it so easy to live together.
From: gone | Registered: May 2001
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Cartman
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Babbler # 7440
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posted 24 September 2005 08:44 PM
My wife is 13 years my junior and we are very compatible. She is most ambitious (perhaps too ambitious) and provides me with increased motivation to do better by myself. At the same time, I believe that I help her see the bigger picture and "smell the roses" so to speak. I do not know our IQ levels, but I expect that they are similar. More importantly, we love each other dearly and work hard to achieve mutually desired goals in life.The relationship is almost perfect except for one thing. I know that I will die long before she will and that she will be alone. Not only am I significantly older than is she, but my family history is not characterized by longevity. I do not know the genetic history of my biological father as I have never met him. In any case, IMO it is impossible to accumulate all the information needed to make such important decisions in a perfectly rational way. You have to leave some things to chance. All you can do is your best and try to enjoy the ride. I am not sure if this actually constitutes advice.
From: Bring back Audra!!!!! | Registered: Nov 2004
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West Coast Greeny
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posted 28 September 2005 06:27 PM
Hey! My IQ is in the 140's! But I'm 25 years younger than you...[Sorry, I had to find an excuse to brag] [ 28 September 2005: Message edited by: West Coast Greeny ]
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