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Topic: Fired (almost) because I am pregnant.
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idontandwontevergolf
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posted 29 September 2005 06:34 AM
I am 30 weeks pregnant and off work due to an illness. I likely won't be returning before my due date. As my job does not have a disabilty plan, I am on EI. I requested a letter of employment for a bank loan and my employer's lackey contacted me and said they were not prepared to provide me with such a letter but would, instead, offer me a settlement of a month's salary. She (the lackey) suggested that this would help with my finances. After a call to the lackey from my mother (God bless her), the letter was provided. Though not until the lackey said that the employer could not predict their staffing needs when my maternity leave ended and what happens if the baby gets colic.This office, though run by men, has several young women working there who will, in all likelihood, become pregnant at some point. I want to tell all of them what almost happened to me but am afraid that I will suffer some consequences if I do this. I also want to shake the six male partners who run the show, well, write them a letter, actually, and tell them how wacky they are. I was amazed that this could happen in this day and age. Although I hate being off work, besides being bored my income on EI is barely subsistence, I can't help being ill and I certainly can't help having to go on maternity leave.
From: Between two highways | Registered: May 2003
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Michelle
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posted 29 September 2005 08:48 AM
It's the worst time of all to have to file a human rights complaint, isn't it, with all the busyness that comes with pregnancy (and soon childbirth and raising your munchkin).I think what you should do is document, document, document. Write down every conversation you and your mother have had, with who, and with dates and times (a pain in the ass when you're ill, but try). Write down as much of the conversation, and in as much detail, as possible, and print it out immediately (in case your computer crashes over the next year) and keep it in a safe place. I'm not sure, but will you also need a record of employment from your employer for EI, after your illness leave ends and your maternity leave starts? If so, and if they hassle you then about it, tell them in no uncertain terms that they have to provide a record of employment - it's the law. If they say again that they don't know whether or not you will be "needed" after your maternity leave, here's a page to print out and give to them: Click! Highlight the relevant parts. Document that conversation too. If you don't get an ROE at that point, then give these nice folks a call and they will send you complaint forms to fill out. (It actually doesn't look like a very difficult process - they seem to help you throughout the way in doing it.) If they don't hassle you at the time of your maternity leave, but then when it's time to go back to work, if they don't let you come back, document that too. And then file a human rights complaint. Babblers who would be interesting on this subject: Jeff House, who, I believe, worked as an adjudicator for a human rights tribunal at some point, and Wilfred Day. Both of them are lawyers and I'm not, so take my advice with a grain of salt.
From: I've got a fever, and the only prescription is more cowbell. | Registered: May 2001
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idontandwontevergolf
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posted 29 September 2005 12:19 PM
I do not plan to go back to that job as it stunk from the beginning.There are two issues: how it affects me and the implications this has for other women in their employ. (As Brebis noir indicated.) Michelle, I have the ROE, and all is straight with EI for a seamless transition from sick leave to maternity and then to parental leave. (My mother spent an hour and a half on the phone with an EI rep straightening all of this out.) As far as lodging a human rights complaint, I had not thought of that. It sounds like the right way to go, however, in the end, nothing was actually done to me - they provided the letter I needed. I wonder if I could make a case for the stress they caused me. I also wonder if their actions could constitute constructive dismissal in that they will have made it so uncomfortable for me to even return to work at all. I should have known they were nasty when I went off with the illness no one called, no flowers, no card. My husband's employer, on the other hand, sent me a dozen long stemmed roses and a lovely card.
From: Between two highways | Registered: May 2003
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