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writer
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posted 24 March 2005 11:10 AM      Profile for writer     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
I've just started a new job, as editor of coolwomen.ca. As such, I've set up a Google news search for any item referring to feminist or feminism.

While I expected to receive a fair number of stories that were anti-feminist, I have been saddened by how overwhelming the ratio is. I'd say at least three attacks for every positive or neutral story.

Is there any way to turn this around?

Here's a relatively mild sample, to get the discussion going.

quote:

In your letter, you said that campus feminists are really "aging sluts with no higher goal than to produce another generation of angry and promiscuous Vagina Warriors." That was well put. It also brings me to my idea.

townhall.com

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Michelle
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posted 24 March 2005 11:20 AM      Profile for Michelle   Author's Homepage     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
Congratulations on the job, writer!

As for your question - I have no idea how to turn it around. The only way to placate anti-feminists is to become docile and abandon feminist principles.

As long as we're fighting, we're going to meet resistance. A hell of a lot of it, too. And not fighting is not an option.


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brebis noire
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posted 24 March 2005 11:31 AM      Profile for brebis noire     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
The backlash has taken on truly creepy proportions in the U.S. I looked at the townhall site and lately I've seen stuff resembling that on other kooky sites (links provided by babble.)

I dunno, maybe if you want to turn the proportions around, you should try searching European sites...there has to be better stuff going on there.

La Gazette des Femmes (Quebec) might be a help.
here's their Web site


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posted 24 March 2005 11:33 AM      Profile for writer     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
Michelle, I'm not talking about making the reactionaries quiet down. I'm talking about the disproportionate number of "anti" pieces on the web. (And thanks for the congrats! So far, it's great, though I need to do A LOT of work to get the site where I'd like it to go.)

With some more thought, I decided to flag this specific article for the University of Alabama, the Women's Resource Center there and campus security. I e-mailed them the following:

quote:

Hi, I'm an editor of a women's-centred website based in Toronto Canada. I've set up a Google search that sends me stories referring to feminists or feminism several times a day. Unfortunately, most of the stories I receive are ignorant diatribes against feminism.

Today, I received one that I think both the administration and the women's center at your university should know about.

It reads, in part, "[President] Witt is not opposed to the campus diversity movement. In fact, he seems to be one of its most ardent supporters. And he seems hopelessly out of touch with the values of the citizens of Alabama. Fortunately, I have another idea."

He then advises an anti-feminist woman who has written to him about a poster from your university to get two other women to dress up as man-hating feminists. "I have enclosed a $100 bill in this letter, which should give you enough money for about 2000 Xerox copies of the offensive poster [for the Vagina Monologues, I think]. Take these 2000 copies to the next student/parent orientation after you get dressed in your man-hating feminist outfits. Make sure that you do not arrive early so the campus police are not tipped off in advance."

Consider this your tipping off in advance!


edited to add: brebis, the Google search is international. I'm getting good stuff from India, East Asia, Europe and Africa. Almost all of the crazy stuff is coming from the U.S. And it is overwhelming all other news sources.

But yes, please do send me any other recommended sites you might have for me to look at for news about women's liberation around the world!

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posted 24 March 2005 12:00 PM      Profile for Hinterland        Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
What can you do to fight such a thing? Townhall's Doctor Professor Mike Adams, PhD is an inveterate liar who has been accused of making up correspondence from his supposed readership to advance his patently women-hating views (...there is some scuttle-butt going around that he's in fact a self-hating homosexual who goes on 'hunting' trips with another suspected closet case and former-drug-dealer-turned-anti-feminist-mall-preacher/whacko Doug Giles).

I really wish that country had some respect for ethics in public discourse, but it obviously doesn't.


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brebis noire
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posted 24 March 2005 12:11 PM      Profile for brebis noire     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
quote:
Originally posted by writer:
the Google search is international. I'm getting good stuff from India, East Asia, Europe and Africa. Almost all of the crazy stuff is coming from the U.S. And it is overwhelming all other news sources.

That's the problem, I think. The U.S. produces a lion's share of this crazy, rotten stuff, and on one hand, you have to take it seriously because it's actually quite dangerous for all kinds of reasons, but it's not the whole picture. When I read stuff like the townhall column, it makes me think "why are the women-hating computer geeks who'd rather assault a woman than look her in the eye getting all the attention?"(sorry, I can't muster any stronger language - somebody else could surely do better)


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posted 24 March 2005 12:23 PM      Profile for sillygoil     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
The term "backlash" isn't something that is the exclusive domain of feminism anymore. Moreover, there are, believe it or not, a great many well thought out critiques of feminism and those voices have a right to be heard. Perhaps one of the neat things about living in a democracy is that everyone, from the most wigged out computer nerd to the most agendized feminist can essentially publish their thoughts, analysis and critique.

I have critiqued feminism in this forum because as a minority woman, I view mainstream feminism to be purely white and middle class, therefore, it can't possibly speak to my issues - are my observations and critique part of a backlash? Who knows, I guess that's up to the individual to determine.

My personal sense is that if there are a great many web blogs, websites, articles in the news, studies, etc that critique feminism, we can't necessarily rule those observations out because they are not shared by feminists. Conversely, there are a great many web blogs, websites, articles in the news, etc that are quite pro-feminist and which criticize everything from globalization to religious freedom.

There are many voices, in a democracy, we have to protect those voices because the minute we start demanding that those voices should be silenced, will be the first step toward anti-democracy.


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posted 24 March 2005 12:24 PM      Profile for writer     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
I'd like to turn it around a bit and say, "What can we do to generate more feminist-positive news and views online?" How do we create more web-friendly information from a feminist perspective?

Unfortunately, funding and other resource issues seem to be part of the problem. I can't tell you how many woman-centred sites I've been to that haven't been updated for years.

But the internet is where people increasingly go for content. Especially young people. Is it any wonder that the image of feminism is so distorted? How do we keep up?

edited to add: sillygoil, I agree that there is a place for criticism. And I'm not saying, "How do we stop it?" However, there is also a huge difference between the kind of commentary you are talking about and the diatribes I'm getting from Google.

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posted 24 March 2005 12:27 PM      Profile for audra trower williams   Author's Homepage     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
I think young women also need to somehow feel they are "authorities" on things. So many women I know don't write about things because they think they're not informed enough.
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brebis noire
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posted 24 March 2005 12:44 PM      Profile for brebis noire     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
quote:
Originally posted by audra trower williams:
I think young women also need to somehow feel they are "authorities" on things. So many women I know don't write about things because they think they're not informed enough.

Why do you think that is? (I'm asking because that's my feeling and experience too, but can't really put my finger on why.)


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posted 24 March 2005 01:44 PM      Profile for writer     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
Unfortunately, Gazette des Femmes is useless to me. CoolWomen links to full articles. I am looking for online content, not a contents page, summaries and encouragement to buy the magazine on the newsstand to read the stories.

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posted 24 March 2005 06:00 PM      Profile for skdadl     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
writer, I regularly read a terrific blog written by a terrific woman, Just a Bump in the Beltway, but she is not mainly writing about feminist issues. She focuses on U.S. and international politics, and also has a special interest in animating lefties of faith, as a way of countering the tendency, especially in the U.S., to assume that all religious thought is the preserve of the far right.

There are a few interesting women bloggers who are regular commentators on her site; I should track a few of them back to their blogs to see how sharp the feminist focus becomes on any of them. They are all definitely woman-positive, and politically and culturally on a totally different planet from the scheming ideologue you linked to above.


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posted 24 March 2005 06:25 PM      Profile for Tommy_Paine     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
Want to get rid of the backlash? Undo all the gains since the 1950's.

Success breeds this kind of thing. I'd revel in it. The time to be worried (aside from the truly hatefull and violent stuff) is when it starts to fade.

So maybe the correct response to the screaming anti-feminist idealogues is: "Neener Neener Neener" with thumb firmly fixed to nose, with fingers wiggling.


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posted 25 March 2005 01:06 PM      Profile for writer     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
Once again, Tommy, I did not start this thread to "get rid" of the backlash. I would like to counter its online domination. Is this so difficult to understand?
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posted 25 March 2005 01:21 PM      Profile for voice of the damned     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
quote:
I view mainstream feminism to be purely white and middle class, therefore, it can't possibly speak to my issues - are my observations and critique part of a backlash? Who knows, I guess that's up to the individual to determine.

When NAC had its much publicized controversies back in the 90s, I recall a few right-wing anti-feminist commentators who seized upon the claims of visible minority women to say "look, feminism doesn't represent women, just a clique of white middle class women". An editorial in Alberta Report comes to mind specifically in this regard.

But in fairness, right-wingers will probably jump on any schism within any left-wing group to make similar claims. If white women had been complaining that NAC is dominated by visible minorities, Alberta Report would probably have been pretending to side with the white women.


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posted 25 March 2005 01:31 PM      Profile for Ginger   Author's Homepage     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
I was lucky enough to have a small sliver of life captured in a world of feminism dreams and womanpower. My story is one I am currently writing, yet at the same time I am compelled to help others gather up their thoughts, dreams and strengths and hold it dear to their hearts, empowering women. I believe that if wish to find a more positive influence for our children we need to share with them our truths, and allow for them to speak freely. Our young girls of today have grown in a world much different than the time of the original 'feminist movement'. My 12 yr old daughter needs to have real role models; these role models need to feel strong and heard. It is a combined effort, a give and share of knowledge, power and common goals. (for all mankind) Out there in the world of the Internet we should foster the space for our voices of all ages communicate, gathering this information to have on hand for our grandchildren and great grandchildren.javascript: x()
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posted 25 March 2005 01:32 PM      Profile for skdadl     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
What was I thinking yesterday? One of our very own, vickyinottawa, runs Miss Vicky's Offhand Remarks, where she talks about whatever takes her fancy but always from a very pro-feminist point of view.
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posted 25 March 2005 01:34 PM      Profile for lagatta     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
Congratulations, writer!

Please keep up to date with the MANY events round the world for this year's edition of the World march of women www.marchemondiale.org - as well as French, it is also in English and Spanish. Given its worldwide scope - the Charter conference was in Kigali and the march kicked off in Sao Paolo - it is ludicrous to talk of "minority" women as it involves women of many races, nationalities and ethnic backgrounds.

Feminism in Canada and Québec, unlike the US, has maintained a strong connection with the workers' movement - think of Léa Roback and Madeleine Parent - and many others, including the Haitian leaders of important trade unions in Montréal (in the hotel and health-care fields) - touché, sillygoil - so it is ludicrous to refer to it as "middle-class".


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posted 28 March 2005 05:47 PM      Profile for writer     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
lagatta and skdadl, thanks for the links. A story (or stories) about the march is a great suggestion. And I'd love to think through a way to incorporate blogs like Vicky's. I'll try to add some in our "links" section, but I'd like something more visible than that. Perhaps in our next incarnation.
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posted 05 April 2005 11:48 AM      Profile for writer     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
Hinterland, you made the news:
What can you do to fight such a thing?

Gotta say, I love this line: "Years ago, when radical feminists began to use the educational system to sexualize our young daughters-to make them hate men, their parents, and even their unborn children-we asked ourselves the following question: What can you do to fight such a thing?"

Uh, yeah, sexualizing girls to hate men and parents and unborn children. That's what it's all about! Not that young daughters should be *encouraged* to have sex and get pregnant with men and parents, but perhaps he missed that finer point in his own moral universe.

What would that feminist maniac Freud have to say?

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posted 05 April 2005 12:03 PM      Profile for skdadl     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
Hinterland, it is too funny! He thinks you're in a feminist chat room, or somewhat later he thinks you're blogging -- not that there is anything wrong with those, mind.

But then he goes on to compare sizes! Hee hee.

quote:
Well, now that you are reading the full text of your remarks - remarks you never expected to see broadcast in an internationally-read column

Ooh. I bet you're skeert. Overwhelmed, too.

And it gets worse. He wants you to know how many famous friends he has, and how they all link to him. Hee hee hee.

Talk about insecure. That's embarrassing.


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skdadl
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posted 05 April 2005 12:05 PM      Profile for skdadl     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
writer, I do not understand that use of "sexualize." What does he mean?

(Sorry: I missed your fuller comments when I was writing mine above.)


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posted 05 April 2005 12:22 PM      Profile for writer     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
Perhaps he is only working from vague theory - his understanding of sexuality appears to be ... shaky.

Maybe he needs a hug. Hinterland, thoughts?


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posted 05 April 2005 12:27 PM      Profile for Hinterland        Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
He does seem unhappy. And his libido is indeed fragile, so much so that just the sight of a feminist causes him to lose his erection (...or something like that; World O'Crap ridiculed a column of his a while back about Viagra and feminism)

I don't actually read Dr. Mike's columns, because they're not written in any known language.


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Am I right to understand that he's a prof from one of your other comments, Mr. Hinter(man)land?

And ... how many hunting trips *have* you been on?


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posted 05 April 2005 12:35 PM      Profile for Timebandit     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
That was tooooo funny!

Not terrifically articulate for a post-secondary level instructor. Americans. What can you do?


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Did you search specifically on "feminism" or "feminist"?

The reason I ask is that I really feel like the word feminism has been demonized much in the same way that "liberal" has (or, to borrow some demonized terms from the right, things like "evangelical Christian" or "neo-conservative". The upshot of this is that the only time liberalism or feminism seems to come up is when someone is slamming the concept. On the other side, many liberals have taken to calling themselves progressive and avoiding the term liberal altogether.

I guess what I'm trying to say is that I think that a lot of 'pro-feminist' articles are written but they wouldn't necessarily show up under a search for feminism. Instead, they would speak only directly to a variety of views that are important in the feminist movement (whatever you take that to be) without pitching it explicitly as being a 'feminist' view. In this same vein, how many pro-gay-rights articles have you seen that talk about the "gay agenda"?

I do understand your frustration, and it would be great if the word could be somehow re-claimed, but I suspect that this is not going to happen in the near-term. Myself, I sort of believe that all causes are best pitched as those of the mainstream, the educated, the reasonable or whatever, rather than granting them marginal or minority status right out of the gate by labeling them as the opinion of a single group of people.

I may be slammed for this, but I have to say that I think this phenomenon is actually evidence of success of the feminist movement and not failure. Nor do I think the perceived imbalance is evidence that society's pendulum is about to swing back on the progress regading women's rights. From sexual empowerment, to women in the worforce, to pro-choise issues and access to birth control, I think it's fair to say that these are all widely accepted by a majority of Canadians and are no longer opinions that are considered controversially held by only a small segment of society. Social, legislative, and corporate/business realities have all shifted to reflect this. So, while a bunch of bitter hacks are out there bemoaning 'feminism' (again, whatever that is), women and in fact many men have been making the slow-- but, in my opinion, inexorable-- progress toward equality for women. Though it's taking decades, the people whining about feminism are becoming increasingly marginalized. And I couldn't be happier about it.

Bitter commentary is the last refuge of the wrong.

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posted 05 April 2005 03:17 PM      Profile for writer     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
Dex, I've got the search going for both or either term. However, I've also got a more general search for news in Canada: feminism or feminist or woman or women or teenager.

Don't get near the amount of crazy negative stuff I do with the international search for feminist or feminism. But what I find shocking about my Canada search is what little news is found about women. Most of it is about amateur hockey so far. And, once in a while, there's a link to an article about a teenager who's mugged an old lady. Otherwise, no teenagers to be found.

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writer,
In your original post, you asked "Is there any way to turn this around?" My question to you would be: What are you interested in turning around? Is it to have more positive/neutral articles written about women? Is it to have more positive/neutral articles written about feminism? Or is it to have more success in promoting issues related to the feminist movement? Anti-feminism writers may have sullied the meaning of feminism, but I think their victory is a Pyrrhic one.

Returning to the parallel of liberalism, I think that the movement has been very successful in furthering its causes. True, the term liberal is effectively an expletive in American politics, but the liberal movement has made amazing strides in terms of policy.


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posted 05 April 2005 04:19 PM      Profile for writer     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
Yes, yes and yes. I want a teenaged girl who types "feminist" into her Google News search to get a few more news stories about women's rights without the crazed spew.

Simple.


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This is
the thread
that
started
it all!!!

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I still don't understand how Dr. Professor Mike Adams, PhD thought my comment was a "blog entry?" When he writes his columns, does he just lay his hands on the keyboard, channel some spirit less humourous and topical and more misogynist than Don Rickles and let "automatic writing" do the rest?
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I just picked up this thread and I just have to say:

TOWNHALL.COM SCARES ME!

I can't help but get the heeby-jeebies when I read anything on their site. I try to read all sides of any discussion (otherwise my husband accuses me of being sucked in by my "left wing hippie proganganda") but this time I cannot stay on that site for a second longer than I have to.


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posted 07 April 2005 01:51 AM      Profile for Bartholomew   Author's Homepage     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
In lots of schools, there's the bully and a weaker figure who hangs around him/her. That's the Doug Giles/Mike Adams dynamic.

Adams first came to public notice after 9/11 - a student sent him an anti-war email, and he forwarded it to someone who sent her a threatening email. The student's parent's held Adams accountable, but he denied all knowledge and cast himself as a conservative free speech martyr. Then he married the person who sent the threatening letter. Classy.

He then helped local Rethugs campaign against Senator Julia Boseman. Boseman is a lesbian, and they decided to make that a campaign issue. Naturally, most people were disgusted, Boseman won, and Adams was left whinging that the Rethugs had been made out as "intolerant" just because of their Christian principles. As revenge, he wrote an article hinting strongly that Boseman had been impregnated by her brother, which was untrue, but as a true sneak Adams worded it in such a way that he has probably avoided legal action.

I wrote on Adams on my bloghere. I've also got stuff onDoug Giles.


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posted 07 April 2005 12:00 AM      Profile for Bartholomew   Author's Homepage     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
duh...that should have been "student's parents...".
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Y'see, the whole V'gina warrior thing started just about here ...

I'm famous, so suck on it!

Join the Man-Hating Vagina Warriors Club

Join the Man-Hating Vagina Warriors Club II


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quote:
Originally posted by writer:
Y'see, the whole V'gina warrior thing started just about here ...

I'm famous, so suck on it!

Join the Man-Hating Vagina Warriors Club

Join the Man-Hating Vagina Warriors Club II


writer, those threads were so much fun,then and now, I had forgottten all about them in their entirety.

But really, who would have thought a year and a half ago, we would be dealing with all these "progressive" men outing themselves as non-progressives, while in defense of a woman political party leader who had pretended to be equally as progressive to get where she is today?

Oh, how I long for those simple times in 2005, when we still had 1 string of naivety left within us. But the last 2 weeks have yanked that nasty string of, believing there were actually lots of progressive men out there affirming woman's equality, right out.

It would seem that the minute the bare foot and pregnant crowd took office, it became acceptable for other self proclaiming "progressive" men to jump on their bandwagon of regression towards women.


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posted 26 December 2006 07:58 PM      Profile for writer     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
Surely, remind, it is far more nuanced than you are representing it to be. It is really a moral question that can and should be explored, about how a woman is not, in fact, a sexual being, that heterosexual sex is for one true and pure purpose, and that she ought to be encouraged and supported to achieve the state of decent, good and proper pregnancy, is it not?

It is the good, clean state of denial indicating that the day will come when birth control is always used, never fails, and the very rare but needed abortions will be easily obtained after a helpful offer of much-needed advice and tut-tutting: Are-you-sure-dear ... this is a moral question ... think about what you are doing as I'm sure you haven't already ... I am only here to help ... look at the development of your baby in these handy brochures. If you don't want to talk, just take the brochure. It was printed on recycled hemp using vegetable dye, though the colour is quite vivid, wouldn't you agree?

Sexy messy drunken carnal sexy sexiness between two inexperienced and repressed teenagers will not occur. Nor will a mother of two ever again decide to do it - after skipping the vaginal cream just this once because it itches like the devil and doesn't make the act so nice and she is 45 after all, and her partner is wearing a condom - what are the chances ... that this woman will not exist with proper preparations thanks to the Green Party.

Or, with good tax incentives, she will decide that she really does want to give birth again - perhaps go with adoption by paid-off caregivers! - whatever else is going on in her life, whatever state her children are in, whatever she previously thought she wanted because the dependent life inside her and what it could be morally trumps her own puny lived life.

Surely you are forgetting, remind, that sometimes pro-choice is an exploration of how icky, queasy and repugnant it is to be pro-choice, and to admit that abortion is wrong and that one is against it and it should be minimized by doing this thing that is already being done or that half-baked notion that won't work on a planet called Earth ... that taking such a vague, judgmental and groundlessly superior stance is the bravest thing for a pro-choice person to do, and must be defended, defended while the humourless feminists say WTF, hands of my body, traitor. You have talked women out of abortions? Well, now you've talked feminists out of supporting you in any kind of solidarity. You will not get away with speculating about my rights and their limits while you soothe the brows of reactionaries.

Surely.

[ 26 December 2006: Message edited by: writer ]


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writer
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posted 26 December 2006 09:17 PM      Profile for writer     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
Here are new links to the old articles, because the old links no longer worked:

A letter before Dawn

What can you do to fight such a thing?

Only You Can Stop Feminists From Saying Mean Things About Dr. Mike - Donate Now!


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remind
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posted 26 December 2006 09:26 PM      Profile for remind     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
quote:
Originally posted by writer:
Surely, remind, it is far more nuanced than you are representing it to be.

Having given it much thought, I would say about 4 decades, I would say, NO, it's not more "nuanced" than what it has always been represented to be. Those who would like to inject nuances into it have been reading too much Timothy Findley. Behind the Green door lies the green dress on the pale green bedspread, put there by a green eyed, green thinking...


quote:
It is the good, clean state of denial

You sure you do not mean "green slate" of denial?

quote:
If you don't want to talk, just take the brochure. It was printed on recycled hemp using vegetable dye, though the colour is quite vivid, wouldn't you agree?

Had to change keyboards after that one, it shoulda had a warning.

quote:
You will not get away with speculating about my rights and their limits while you soothe the brows of reactionaries.
Surely.

Hey! Don't give them the title of reactionaries, according to jbaglow, "we" are the reactionaries who have not grown up enough to build consensus and find a midway pointy to "dialogue" on our rights.

Thank god, I do not believe in that kind of growing up, and was a mature feminist who does not have to play at being progressive and from the day I was born.


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Pride for Red Dolores
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posted 30 December 2006 02:50 PM      Profile for Pride for Red Dolores     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
writer,

WINGS is the only option that I can think of as being useful to you- although it appears that stories have to be paid for.


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Mythbuster67
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posted 24 January 2007 02:22 AM      Profile for Mythbuster67        Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
quote:
Originally posted by writer:
I've just started a new job, as editor of coolwomen.ca. As such, I've set up a Google news search for any item referring to feminist or feminism.

While I expected to receive a fair number of stories that were anti-feminist, I have been saddened by how overwhelming the ratio is. I'd say at least three attacks for every positive or neutral story.

Is there any way to turn this around?

Here's a relatively mild sample, to get the discussion going.


townhall.com

[ 24 March 2005: Message edited by: writer ]


First off what segment of Feminists are you refering to?

Mythbuster


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posted 24 January 2007 06:46 AM      Profile for writer     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
Thanks for bumping the thread! Somehow, I missed Pride for Red Dolores's post. I now plan to spend some time at WINGS today. Really appreciate the suggestion, Pride.
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